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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 44-64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 28, 2013
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
My self-summary
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I'm a young-spirited woman fortunate to have close friends and meaningful work.

"Learn something that is not in front of you. Love someone who doesn't look like you. Go somewhere you've never been. The world is beautiful." - unknown.

I carry phrases and poems in my head (like some do music) and benefit from recalling them.
What I’m doing with my life
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Staying close with lifetime friends, working on social determinants of health (it's fascinating), investing lots of time exploring colleges for my teenager, meeting friends in Lowertown, St. Paul.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, observing, seeing the possibilities, speaking my mind, pressing for quality and encouraging smiles
The first things people usually notice about me
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Frankly, people tell me that I'm pretty; people of all ages and animals seem to notice that I'm friendly and that I care.

I often hear, "That's a really good question! " in discussions or seminars. I do love that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The film "Seven Pounds", anything with Meryl Streep, the lyrics and music of Peter Gabriel ("I see the doorway of a thousand churches.."), Jackson Browne ("side by side in orbit around the fairest sun"); Sting (" the west wind moves upon the fields of barley"...), public radio, Poetry magazine (its centennial year !), Science Fridays, pinot noir and Bread and Chocolate's chocolate croissants
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, honesty, kindness, traveling, berries

I'd rather not do without the water and wind, springtime and autumn, cashmere, linen, ivy, dahlias, The NYT and poetry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
people I love, ideas to improve the human condition, income and racial demographics, right now, planning a wonderfully busy schedule, biology (causing my teenager to roll eyes and smile), and what I've heard on public radio.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
smiling as I enter the weekend - tired as I leave work - hard to put the label of 'typical' on much of anything. Sometimes I'll see friends on Friday evenings, otherwise I'll head home, put on linen and/or cashmere, go outside or stay in and relax.

Like most of us, my schedule gets customized whether my kids (college and high school) are home with me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have Type 1 diabetes. This is the type that hardly anyone has (5-8% of persons with diabetes have this type; 92-95% of people with diabetes have Type 2 which is due largely to being overweight or obese).
You should message me if
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you have a curious spirit and feel compatible with me.