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61 / M / Straight / Single
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 1:36pm
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Strictly anything
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Type
- English (Okay)
The Sarah Polley movie "Stories We Tell."
The music of Lockjaw Davis. And I know it is time to go to sleep when I hear in my head the theme song of the Patty Duke Show.
1) Hot water
2) Goose down pillows
3) A glass of orange juice in the morning
4) The written word from near and far
5) A pen to save a thought to later elaborate on, in writing.
6) A toilet plunger, to not elaborate.
The powerball number. How legal briefs mostly never are. The declaration page of the life insurance policy. How legal the language, with exclusions and conditions in place, before searching for the unconditional 'Til death do us part' coverage.
So the times you were born into determined your goodness? When even after 200 answers on a relationship theme of OKCupid, if the real goal was goodness, where are the questions about goodness? And was it, like wine, determined by the previous summer moisture of your life, as well the heat of August? Or just by the terroir of where the grapes grew?
And how in the battle for the heart and the mind of a mate, did a couple at this chapter of life keep a freshness, after the tension from shared fertility no longer was there? Was I just looking for someone to share wine with, for goodness' sake.
I spend a lot of time noticing the missing discussion on OKCupid about love. When you come up blank. When you are born blank. And your parent(s) had to create on you. I spend a lot of time thinking about all the decisions between good and evil. So the goal was/is always to either to tell the Truth or to lie.
The Twitter: “If you can only be good at one thing, be good at lying. ... Because if you're good at lying, you're good at everything."
I spend a lot of time thinking about the truth about love, when you are born blank: how many people are genial and supercompetent on the surface while a cataclysmically intense world churns just inside? Psychologists say that humans are capable of only five or six loves in a lifetime. Since the average person falls in love 2.5 times in life, one good lesson is, don't use them up too quickly. And as complexity stymies rational thinking, be truthful.
“Nothing is more practical than finding God, than falling in Love
in a quite absolute, final way. What you are in love with,
what seizes your imagination, will affect everything.
It will decide what will get you out of bed in the morning,
what you do with your evenings, how you spend your weekends, what you read, whom you know, what breaks your heart,and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.
Fall in Love, stay in love, and it will decide everything.”
- Pedro Arrupe
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 43–62
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
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