Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


40 Santa Clarita, CA Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:37pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a high achieving, fun loving, hardworking man with a ton of Midwest charm and honesty. I've been called a refreshing change from how many act on OKCupid ♫

My parents have been together well over 40 years. My family back in MN is full of veterans who love one woman, their children and their country.

I'm one good apple that may have landed in CA but still not too far from the tree.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In just the last two years I've deployed to Afghanistan with the CA National Guard, was wounded, fully recovered, got back to my civilian career, got out of the part time military, raised a puppy, bought a horse ranch and adopted a couple horses. That's all...

Oh wait... I just went back to college on the GI bill to complete a masters..

Life just outside LA suits me just fine. I leave work and 10 traffic free minutes later I'm hearing my horses joyful welcome home whinnys.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hard Work, fixing, building, maintaining things, humor and honesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Not from here are you?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Black Keys: Brantley Gilbert: Zack Brown Band: The Rolling Stones: The Heavy: Stevie Ray Vaughn: Awolnation

Food: Italian, Sushi, Greek, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A Career that I love
2. Paying it forward donating time and money to worthy causes.
3. Outdoors fun fishing, hiking, riding etc
4. A garage full of tools and vehicles.
5. Animals. Two horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog
6. Lucchese Boots
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Success in LA is all about desire and effort.. Meeting someone with mere temporary desire is typical LA and turning down those hookups is easy. Finding someone who thinks a relationship more than 5 miles away isn't too much effort is mission impossible.

No stranger to effort or commitment, I'm a home owning veteran of two wars continuing his education while earning four times the median, working out, riding and training two horses. I'm also just as motivated about finding a real relationship, being a husband (2nd time) and a father (first time).

Apparently in LA even an online dossier like that isn't enough for anyone who wants kids, anyone without a bunch of kids or anyone who won't be riding an electric scooter at Walmart while I'm still fit, healthy and riding fast horses.

P.S. Online many seem to expect a Ryan Gosling or Tatum Channing clone as easy as ordering shoes off Amazon prime. Good luck!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a date or resting at home to be recharged for the rest of the weekend.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you pique my interest I will reach out. Maybe do the same.

Despite the fact it's 2015 for some outdated reason even ambitious independent women go from ignoring messages from moronic pervs to silently viewing someone she wished had messaged her.

Instead of wishing I messaged you, why don't you just message me now?