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40 Santa Clarita, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
NOT in the industry and the exact opposite of "actors" on here with pro headshots who really wait tables for a living, can't change a tire and think monogamy is just wood furniture too nice for IKEA.

If you're on a PC click the funny blue links in my profile like this OKCupid parody song. Go ahead and bookmark that one to play for laughs when you're on here it helps.

I have a Midwestern heart with a west coast tan. That genuine Midwest charm, honesty and chivalry should be a refreshing change from how many LA men act.

No kids but I want one or two and to be married for over four decades like my parents. Even just one kid would be great. Most people with a bunch of kids aren't too bright anyway.

If you're more concerned with things of actual value such as character, adventure and romance. Great!!! I'll pay as little attention to your income as you do mine. I wasn't just a lowercase G.I. in the reserves and have done quite well in my civilian career.

If your a more visual person and are done reading view my other albums of photos on here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was a military reservist with deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan where I received the purple heart. Last year I decided not to reenlist.

I work a successfull career in aerospace, work out, spoil my two horses, my pup and maintain my 4br house on just under 3 acres.

After a lot of "where the hell is your ranch?" I changed it to Santa Clarita, the nearest place people know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not giving an aviating coitus about the overly hypergamous and honesty.. Sometimes too honest.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Not from here are you?" After something second nature to me but nicer than people expect.

"Were you Jim Carey's motorcycle stunt double in Yes Man?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I listen to a wide variety of music on a PC just click to play.

The Black Keys: Brantley Gilbert: Zack Brown Band: The Rolling Stones: The Heavy: Stevie Ray Vaughn: Awolnation

I'm also playing country, classic rock and new real rock (like Black Keys) with friends. I'll be playing and singing open mike at a local spot.

A food network junkie who knows his way around the kitchen or to a good restaurant for Italian, sushi, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course my family and friends come first......
1. A Career that I love
2. Paying it forward.
3. Outdoors fun fishing, hiking, riding etc
4. A garage full of tools and vehicles.
5. Two horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog
6. Lucchese Boots
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
LA is great for endless dating but bad for relationships. I've traveled the world and lived across the states from NY to LA. No doubt in my mind LA is the shallowest.

One of the symptoms of LA dating is complaints that 10 miles is too far.

It's so true... There aren't many singles this close to me but 100% of anyone I've messaged within 15 miles wants to date ASAP. Most over 1/2 hour away Just reply it's too far.

To recap.
1. no kids, no momma drama.
2. no bullshit
3. an education
4. a career all
5. fit & over 6ft
6. seeking a relationship not a hookup.

Yet all that is only enough if I'm there in a half hour or less like pizza delivery. If you just want an easy order of "big sausage pizza" use Tinder.

When I used to go on extended trips out of So-Cal for work I dated a pilates studio owner, a PHD in pharmacology and someone in both that state's Miss America pageant and the USAF.

I'm seriously considering vacationing elsewhere just to date better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I'm going out with my boots on. Sometimes just at home to ride my horses, cook something epic and sip a drink in my hot tub.

Every other Friday off, off an hour earlier on working Fridays and off weekends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm divorced, my first and her second. Sometimes even after the kind of treatment that made all her GF's jealous they get inconsiderate only appreciating the kind of man she had after he's gone for good.

I'll get the door, pay for dinner and other date expenses without a single gripe or acting entitled to anything.. However if you can't live within your means and date to make up for it the speed at which I'm gone is Mach 3+
You should message me if
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Guys have to make the first move so if I've messaged you OR If you're the rare type to make the first move with a job, an education, a desire to have children and you atleast try to stay fit.

When I do get an unsolicited message from a woman who fits my general guidelines I love it. She just might have the kind of guts and ambition to be my equal, keep up with, and enjoy a hard charging SOB like me.

So many online are collecting likes, emails and recruiting instagram followers while sitting on her ass waiting for Doc McDreamy. 1,000's up to that on here around LA. BORING.

Also don't bother me if you're just using the site like LA's trophy wife auditions or only horny using it as the official Californication f-buddy finder. Both are a dime a dozen disqualifiers.