I've never been a fan of the old saying about "The nice guys finish last". So I treat everyone with consideration and respect. It's done well for me so far. I've got a pretty active social life.
I'm a geek. I've played countless board games, role playing games, card games, mini games, and video games. I've also turned into a fitness geek over the last few years.
I've got a wonderful girlfriend whom I feel comfortable enough with to open up our relationship beyond traditional boundaries. What does this mean for you? It means you could get to know one or both of us in a strictly platonic or much much naughtier fashion. First choice is good. Second is better. We like meeting people for coffee and board games to talk about the comings and goings of geek culture.