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I'm very eccentric. People say that I'm complex, but I try to be as simple to understand as possible. I want my position to be validated, yet in conversation I prefer the role of the quiet, attentive listener. I'm a gentle, tender guy whom you do not want to cross. I don't like to be dramatic, but I've had to overcome a lot of shit and I believe that I deserve to have my privacy and my thoughts, desires and emotions respected by the people who claim to care about me. I never forget betrayal, but if you demonstrate to me basic human respect you'll find me to be very compassionate, loyal, trusting, and selfless.
I have keen eyes, ears and intuition, and I'm very empathic and perceptive to changes in people's behavior - as well as the state of mind underlying it. It's pretty obvious to me when people aren't being genuine, and I can usually tell in what way they're not, and why. Additionally, I have undeveloped psychic powers. So if you just want someone to listen without judging you, or if you need help figuring yourself out, you might be interested in me; but if you have things to hide you should click on another profile right now, because I will uncover your secrets.
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If you're sexually interested, I prefer you to be good-looking and experienced in BDSM. I myself am a switch with much more experience in social than sexual situations.
If you are a dominant: Be cautious and patient in your approach. Begin by gently expressing your affection in small ways, and I will test your powers of empathy, compassion and loyalty. I want to feel like you understand me. The best thing to do is to ask me questions and listen to my replies. Above all, you must respect me. I do not want to be punished. I do not want to be your slave.
If you are a submissive: Be direct about expressing your interest - I don't respond positively to shyness. I will ask you many questions to try to understand you, and you should satisfy my curiosity. You must respect yourself for me to be interested. Do not take advantage of my kindness.
Update: TAKEN TAKEN TAKEN.. If you want to have sex with me, you need my Mistress's permission first. As do I.