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32 • Concord, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 8:12am
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs
- English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
I make music. Music makes me. I play guitar and drums. I do so
whenever I can get away with all the noise. Have for a while.
I've been called fiercely loyal. A former employer called me, "The better mouse." It was implying that if you build a better mouse trap eventually you'll encounter a better mouse than the trap was designed for. They were kind of a character.
I will never break a promise. I have had the same core group of friends for a decade or more. I've known my best friend a long time. Maybe longer than you've been alive. I have more hobbies than I will ever have time for. I have a hard time saying no sometimes. I like to think that I tell great stories. If you can't tell a good story you can't make conversation. I'm currently working on getting into law in some manner. Whether it ends up being a police officer or being a lawyer or somewhere between. I really enjoy law and am working on making it something I get paid to do.
I spend my mornings doing CrossFit and my evenings listening to music and reading or watching Netflix. I spend my days off running errands and causing mischief. Sometimes I cook, nothing fancy but it usually goes over well. Sometimes I spend nights playing games with my friends, usually the kind that involve paper and cardboard. I have a small collection of orange headbands that grows by at least one annually (bonus points if you get that). At my best I have a pretty positive outlook on things and at my worst I get pretty pragmatic. I have nerdy tendencies, a whole slew of them.
There is way more to people than can ever be put in these little boxes. Take a chance on me; It's totally worth it. Like, ninety percent of the time.
"No one is going to take me alive. The time has come to make things right. You and I must fight for our rights. You and I must fight to survive."
I am a bad man, a sad man, and behind blue eyes
Looking terrible on paper. Sort of an under-promise but over-deliver kind of situation.
Working on paradiddles, triplets and barre chords. This.
I have heard my eyes aren't bad.
Movies. Some current favorites are: Daywatch, Nightwatch, Batman: The Dark Knight, Cashback, Bickford Schmeckler's Cool Idea's, Fifth Element, Fight Club, Memento, pretty much any movie from a comic book although there are a few horrible ones that I refuse to accept as movie adaptations, May, Hot Tamale, The Usual Suspects, L.A. Confedential, 300, 25th Hour, 28 Days Later, 100 Girls, Accepted, A.I. Artifical Intelligence, Bicentenial Man, The Boondock Saints, Chaos Theory, Better Luck Tomorrow.. I love movies.
Music. http://www.last.fm/user/X9827336X Check that out for an idea of my music tastes and what I'm listening to.
"Sad to say that alone I can barely light a match but together we can burn this place down."
You know what that quote in "What I'm doing with my life" is from.
You have noticed the various song quotes throughout my profile (as in knew what they were from/who wrote them).
You want a work out buddy.
You want a cycling partner.
You want to hang out and watch movies.
You look like Erica Cerra or Diora Baird.
You know who Keith Moon, Carl Palmer, John Bonham, Neil Peart, Stewart Copeland, and Dominic Howard all are. Three for six is acceptable.
Things that might give you pause in messaging me:
You have a problem with that fact that I eat red meat almost daily (vegetarians/vegans have no fear: I won't foist my meat eating habits on you).
I find it difficult to put exactly what I want in to writing but a rough draft would look like: I want to find someone that is willing (not required but it would be nice) to get up at 0500 to go to the gym with me. Someone to stand by me through all the hardships that come with being an adult but can keep their chin up with me. I want to find a companion, partner, a friend. Someone that I look forward to doing things with, even after a long day of work. I want to find someone that will let me be their pillar, their protector, not because they need it but because they want it.
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