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57 Hightstown, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–61
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 4
Asian, Pacific Islander, White, Other
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I am loyal to a fault. When others are running like rats and roaches from a burning building, I will be there with you fighting the fire(as I singe to a crisp). I will have your back and will be at your side as long as it takes.

I am a down to earth, kind and caring person. I believe in doing things that are fair for all. I am not a "tree hugger" but believe in conservation. I am very devoted to the right person as long as it is returned. Quiet surroundings are highly preferred. I am not a sports nut but will watch an occasional game. I like to and enjoy showing others how to fix things. I frequently help friends with their homes and cars and they tend to feed me with mass quantities of food. Unfortunately it has caught up to me and I am currently working it off. My goal is to at least to get down to average. Anybody out there interested in helping me continue?

I have a strong sense of doing what is right. I do not ask anything of anyone I would not ask of myself. I also live by the golden rule of treating people the way I would like to be treated and would hope to be treated with the same consideration.

I have been told by women that I am witty and have a big heart. I am thoughtful and caring. I will make sure that things are taken care of, from surprising you with your favorite things to doing / fixing things around the house to make your life easier.
Your feelings matter to me. I will do all I can to keep them happy.
I will give you a kiss before you go and a kiss with a hug when you return.
I like hugging, holding hands, kissing and getting close.

My words are sincere, I do not say things and hope you never take me up on it.
I am dependable, I am there when you need me.

I worked in information technology as a systems programmer analyst for over 27 years. The last IT job was at a NY bank for over 21 years. Going full tilt with the career and then losing my job to India showed me I should of made more of an effort at a better balance in life (not going to make that mistake again).

I am looking for someone who appreciates receiving acts of caring, kindness and respect. Someone that we can occasionally fall asleep on each other because we are very content with being together (who doesn't like a nice nap now and then). Spending time with each other for laughs and alone time is a plus. Time out in public is good also, if I have nothing going on, I'll even go on shopping trips with you and hold your hand bag while you are in the fitting room. The last item will cost you! When you are finished, I expect a kiss.

Affection is important to me as I hope it is with you. I am cautious at first but once the reins are let loose, be ready for the passion to take off.

If you are only looking for a new friend, I am good with that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Avoiding stress. I enjoy spending time in the barn with my horse. Besides, it's a healthier shit to shovel: it doesn't eat at you, it only makes you smelly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things
Taking things apart and putting them back together. Sometimes I will have extra parts - uh oh!
Teaching others how to fix things
Remembering dates - birthdays, anniversaries, etc.
Teaching someone how to drive a manual transmission (a.k.a. stick)
Being a safety net for my friends
Remembering to put the toilet seat down when I am done (so how am I looking now?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am quiet.
The saying goes: "It's the quiet ones you have to watch out for."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Forrest Gump, Patch Adams, Arnold movies, Clint Eastwood movies (most of them), Chuck Norris movies, Abbott & Costello movies, Gran Torino, The Shawshank Redemption, Carbon Copy, Young Frankenstein, Airplane, Groundhog Day
Big Bang Theory, Two Broke Girls, Anger Management, Criminal Minds
ELO, Quarterflash, Carpenters, Bond, America, Styx, Hall & Oates, Billy Joel, Jim Croce, Boz Scaggs, Michael McDonald, Harry Chapin
Italian, Sushi, seafood, Mexican, just about anything spicy hot (eating it is the easy part, it's the next day that shows you what you are made of! :-o )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why some people think that are playing Survivor while dating: Outwit, Outplay, and Outlast
Why are telephone poles not straight?
Why people who drive to the gym for exercise insist on waiting for a parking space next to the door?
Are Red Bull and Monster drinks the equivalent of Geritol?
Has the person with that tattoo of an Asian character verified it is the meaning they wanted and not "stupid jackass"?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Visiting friends or chilling out
You should message me if
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If I am what you are looking for.

If you are not sure. Go ahead, I don't bite, I only nibble around the edges. ;-)

If you are tired of the shenanigans of the tall, dark, and handsome. Try something different: short, bright, and well, you decide. I have been told I look better than my pictures.

If I am not what you are looking for.
Sometimes I make a different impression in person. What impression? You decide. You never know. Sometimes I am like Hellmann's, I bring out the best (in others).

If you want someone to hang out or do things with.

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