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Xalwyn

27 / M / straight / Single

Vacaville, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am geeky, astute, and attentive.

My Self-Summary

To summarize oneself is a task some can do in a single word, while others cannot accomplish in a novel. I’m somewhat of a quiet type; someone who prefers silence to commotion, solitude to confrontation or conflict. I’ve never been one to party, or have many friends, do drugs or get drunk. I like intelligent conversation but I do have a geeky, dorky, and immature side. Most acquaintances of mine would probably refer to me as the computer friend, the guy they go to when their machine breaks down. I like video games and mmorpg’s in particular but I play all genre’s and systems. I’ve also been into electronics, roller blading, wrestling (high-school, Greco-roman), and collectible card games such as MTG or VS system. I love anime and manga, final fantasy: FFXI in particular. I’ve always been passionate about photography both photographing and viewing. I also dabble in writing both poetry and short stories. I'm easy to get along with and I'm not very opinionated or argumentative, but I do occasionally act stubborn.

What I’m doing with my life

Good question. I'm at a bit of a crossroads. I have to figure this out soon, because I'm stumped at the moment. I'd like to produce video games, or direct them, write or photograph, but I don't want to go to school to do any of them because I've already been in and out of college for 6 years and gotten a degree. I'm still pondering what I'd like to do, because perceiving what I want to do as something people will pay me to do seems impossible.

I’m really good at

Computers, video games, electronics, listening, deadlines, punctuality. I'm good at making people feel safe, or comfortable. English, art, writing, hugging, and typing.

The first things people usually notice about me

People probably notice my hairy arms and legs, because they're especially hairy. I'd be surprised if they didn't notice my fashion too, printed tee's and blue jeans. Then they might notice my smile or my long eye lashes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My Favorite (A) Books, are all manga, because I don't really enjoy reading books, but I could handle short stories if they were entertaining. It's not that I don't enjoy them, but it's more that I'm a procrastinator and I never make time for them. (B) I don't watch many movies, but my favorites have been Tron, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Matrix Trilogy, The X-Men Trilogy (it's not my fault they make movies in sets of three) and many anime and video game movies. (C) Most people don't believe me, or, they disapprove, but I don't really listen to music. I prefer silence to noise, and if I'm listening to some music, I get my fill from anime and video games, I don't listen to it in cars or while I'm at the computer or on ipods or cd's, mostly just because I haven't found what I like. (D) I'm a picky eater, and I eat weird, healthy, non-fat and soy substitute things. I don't eat much meat and I don't like seafood. I don't like to dine out or go to restaurants, but I do like good chinese food. Other than needing my chocolate and Pocky every once in awhile, I mostly eat for sustenance, not so much for taste and enjoyment.

The six things I could never do without

video games, pets, opposable thumbs, internet, compromise

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything. My mind races and I think about too much to list. I examine details and think about things that could be or should be or might be or won't be. This includes: career options and choices, love, death, entertainment, sex, sensations, fears, and much much more. I'm imaginative.

On a typical Friday night I am

Online, chatting or playing games, looking at websites. That's pretty much typical. Sometimes anime's on the agenda. This would have been a more entertaining question if I had been asked "What would you like to do on Friday nights?"

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Private, hmm? I have more fun sharing these kinds of questions rather than giving them away. You are free to ask me anything, and I'll likely answer, though I'm not obligated to. Just ask away, I won't get mad or offended or sad. But to satisfy the question, I have no tatoos or piercings.

You should message me if

If anything. I'm open to questions and insults. I don't easily offend (in fact it would be difficult to offend me if you were trying), so feel free to ask whatever's on your mind or say hi. I'm here to meet people and make friends so why not? The worst thing that could happen is an argument that makes us hate eachother so much we never speak again, wooot. If you're bored or just wanna ask me something or chat feel free to say hi.