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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:25pm
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ready to help you and share some of the amazing places I know of.
I play many parts. (I'm not a XanGoGuy, but changing my tag name is not an option)

I’m a regular guy, in a SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy) sort of way – I like camping, tools and toys, fixing things. Especially being helpful in a unique way. - if your dining room chairs need reupholstering, I have the gear. I fixed a coffee table leg while in the doctor’s office. I just can’t help myself. Tinkering goes along with building and being an artist.
Ad Hoc-ism is a system of art that I developed in college and still enjoy. I give my full attention to whatever presents itself in a way that lets me feel I run my own life.

I am altruistic, brilliant, capable and prone to exaggerate.

I am a general contractor(496779), energy analyst, and committed to leaving every place better than I found it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm growing inside as I explore options in the world. Owning a
construction company has brought me some fortune and divorce has reduced it. I'm reaching out to see if anyone opens their hand to be held. Together Each Achieves More. Want to create a team? We can have fun together...
I love to read Rumi and other works aloud. I've done healing work using the Silva Method, and meditate on chakras. Sufi Dancing, Chanting and meditation are spiritual expression for me.
These electrons can't tell you what being with me will feel like.
Touching is the only way to know what someone really feels like.
I love the jumble and cryptoquip in the chron when I get a chance and word games of almost every type.
Art, breathing, caring,, dancing, eating, fantasizing, games, helping, ice skating, jerry-rigging, kite-flying, lounging, meditations, nonsense,
ordering, playing, questioning, re-using, snow, trust, understand,
volleyball, work, Xperts, yodelling, zen.

Nestling in nature, perfect picnic places, craving cozy coffee, dark delightful dancing, Sierra sites satisfy, wandering the world, x country skiing, tennis, ping pong, hot tubbing at home, yoga,
meditation, watching movies, hiking, mountain biking,
hikes, bikes, board games, scrabble, dancing, art museums, shows,
performances, cooking, recycling, inventing.
-Or quite honestly, I'd be happy doing none of those things-
I am Airey Brave Clever Dancer Educating Fun Generous Happy Intelligent Joyful Kind Laughing Manly Natural Open-Minded Patient Questioning Resourceful Sincere Talented Understanding Volunteering Working Xamining Youthful Zesty
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at problem solving, visualizing, planning, spontaneity, you'll enjoy discovering other things I'm good at if you spend time with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Red hair!
A different shade of red depending where you look.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: all are neatly organized where they belong. Wisdom inspires me.

Movies: Too many to list here. Ground Hog Day is one favorite movie. I can laugh every time I see it.

Favorite food is usually cooked by someone else. I'm really appreciative when someone makes me a nice meal and I love to fix food in the kitchen even though I'm not that experienced at it. I had some awesome wheatberries with banana slices the other day for a yummy brunch.
I don't mind eating my words once in a while.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Integrity, Imagination, Intuition, Intelligence, Idioms, If
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I could have been a better boy friend in my next relationship.
How I can be the best parent to my adult children.
How I can be the best child to my older adult parent.
How I can make the world a better place.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
welcoming the end of the week and feeling that whatever I've done this week was enough.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
These are my Interests/Favorites.
If you want the private stuff, let's meet.
I will admit here that I didn't pay for any okc upgrade, so if you like me, please send a message. It's ok if all it says is, "I like you." Otherwise, I'll never know.
I like using the alphabet, so here's a list:
Art Installation
Backgammon Games
Xanthones(I quit selling Xango, but can't change my name tag)
You should message me if
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you want to meet a genuinely great guy

Board games to video games
Walking to running (rolling around is okay too)
Talking to drinking(although I know how to do both very well)

Like to:
Meditate; Co-create
Play for fun ; Get things done
Exercise; Watch a sun rise (once in a while)