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XandersGurl

31 F Anderson, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jun 2
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and wants more
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi. My name is Lindsey. I get lost in bookstores for hours. And I'm always on the lookout for more vinyls to add to my collection. I envy those who can knit and/or crochet because I wish I could, too.

I'm a self-proclaimed nerd. I'm the comedian in my group of friends. I love to laugh and I love being funny. I love Eddie Izzard. If you don't know his work, you're missing out! And Mitch Hedberg and Mike Birbiglia! I have a thing for funny guys... what can I say? And I must get my nightly dose of Conan O'Brien before going to bed.

I'm really into music and movies. I have a HUGE movie collection. My music tastes are SO varied. Some of my favorites are BareNaked Ladies, Green Day, Kelly Clarkson, Fiona Apple, Foo Fighters, The Killers, Tori Amos, Death Cab For Cutie, The Murmurs, Dixie Chicks, Heather Nova, Poe, Tegan & Sara, Metric, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Portishead...and MANY MORE! I'm artsy. I love to paint. I'm into ceramics too. I love to decorate. Plain walls are boring...I have to have things hanging on my walls. I like to write, too.

My favorite TV shows? (This is important!) Buffy The Vampire Slayer! If you love Buffy, I love you! Joss Whedon is God. If you know who he is, you get bonus points. Angel was a GREAT show. And Firefly. And have you SEEN Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog?! BRILLIANT! Sex and the City was awesome. Friends too. Oh, and Six Feet Under, The L Word, Queer As Folk, Veronica Mars, Scrubs, The Office, Glee, America's Next Top Model, Bones, Dexter, Bad Girls, True Blood, The Big Bang Theory, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, and Dead Like Me. I am addicted to HBO and Showtimes series! And Robot Chicken! Venture Brothers! Any Adult Swim fans out there? And yes, I finally caved and became one of those Grey's Anatomy people... I had to catch up with everyone by buying the DVD's. Oh, and Carinvale... and Top Chef and Project Runway for good measure! Um, yeah, I wouldn't survive without my DVR because I love TV. ^_^

I am creative, clever, and liberal.
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated with my B.S. degree in May 2006... majored in Psychology. I earned my M.A. degree in Counseling in July 2008. Then, in August 2008, I started working on my Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. I think... I might stop going to school someday... just not someday soon... dissertations are HARD, people! ;-P

My main research interests include LGBT and gender issues. I hope to work in a university or college counseling center when I am done with school... one where being an out bisexual Feminist will be embraced, haha. ;-P

This has also been a year of soul searching and exploration... exploring my sexuality and also how I feel about religion. I pretty much consider myself an agnostic... I'm a very New-Age kind of person though, so I have a good number of books about Wicca that I have found intriguing. I'm not opposed to spirituality or others that have religion... it's just that... none of that 'fire and brimstone' crap makes any sense to me. I'm just not a fan of organized religion, I guess. I see it as more of a form of social control... keeping the people afraid so they'll walk the line.
I’m really good at
Making my friends laugh! I'm funny! I'm a goofball! I'm a nerd...but a nerd that has great one-liners. Haha.

(Oh... and all night make-out sessions. Le Rar!) *wink*
The first things people usually notice about me
My SMILE! Or my hair...maybe my eyes? Those three would be my favorite physical features... if they hear me laughing before they see me, though, they would definitely notice that. People have told me that I have a great laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(a) The Fault in our Stars, Looking for Alaska, Catcher In The Rye, the Harry Potter series, Buffy novels, Wuthering Heights, To Kill A Mockingbird, One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest, 1984 and Animal Farm, anything by David Sedaris, The Da Vinci Code, She's Come Undone, Bill Maher's New Rules, The Pleasure Of My Company, anything by Sarah Vowell, Lord of the Rings trilogy, the Abarat books by Clive Barker, the Bartimaeus Trilogy, Wicked, the Twilight Series, and any number of Psychology or Counseling related books

(b) I'm a movie buff, so I have like... 50 favorite movies! Shakespeare In Love ranks high. The Nightmare Before Christmas, Garden State, Ghost World, Donnie Darko, Empire Records, all the Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter movies, Moulin Rouge, Amelie, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Princess Bride, Lost In Translation, both Kill Bills, Sin City, Imagine Me & You, Better Than Chocolate, But I'm A Cheerleader, The Professional, Little Miss Sunshine... and see, I could go on forever like that!

(c) I mentioned some of the music I like above. I'm a music lover. I like stuff from all genres and years. Very varied. I've been on a BIG Fiona Apple, Tegan & Sara, Portishead, and Metric kick lately.

(d) I enjoy Coke and Mountain Dew, but I'm trying to stop drinking pop again! Sweet Iced Tea... mmm! I will never turn down a rum and Coke or Crown in Seven. And WIIIIINNNNEEEEE! I love breakfast - it's my favorite meal of the day to cook. I like to consider myself a bit of a foodie, so talking about food would just take too long, lol. I'll try anything once.

(e) Games: Recovering World of Warcraft addict - For the Horde! Just got done playing through South Park: Stick of Truth and it's just fantastic. Just downloaded Hearthstone onto my computer. I own a lot of games and gaming systems and actually have a rather extensive board game collection. I miss having the game nights we used to have before, you know, becoming parents, lol.
The six things I could never do without
These are in no particular order:

My Boys, Videogames, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, BBQ chicken pizza, SLEEP, and my friends/family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Joss Whedon, the creator of the Buffyverse. He is amazing. And Hal Sparks too. I have a total crush on him. And girls. Always thinking about girls. Oh, yeah... and life. Aahaha. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out at home with my partner, infant son, and pug... watching movies or TV, dreaming about my World of Warcraft glory days, reading, goofing around on the internet... I'm much more of a home person than a go out person, but I'll go out once in awhile... to see some art or hear some good live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm bisexual. I'm openly "out" to those closest to me and passively "out" to the rest of the world, meaning that if anyone asked me, I wouldn't be dishonest about it.

I spent years exploring my sexuality and bisexuality/pansexuality/omnisexuality is the conclusion that I've come to. I hate having to label myself, though. I don't know why sexuality has to be about gay, straight, bisexual... I'm attracted to people, not their parts. Some of the people I'm attracted to are guys and some are women and I am okay with that.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–39
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You like Buffy, you're a Liberal/Progressive... is that really TOO much to ask for? Lol. :-D

Nah, if you think we'd have some great coversations, get in touch with me! :-)