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XandirKai

23 Wichita, KS Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:42am
Orientation
Pansexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm Kurt, and first off I am transgender and Autistic. Those are very big parts of who I am. They come with some differences, but it's just how I am built. I'm shy, and don't like loud and bright places. I tend to move my hands around a lot, or rock back and forth. If you meet me and I get excited, you will most likely see me jump around and flail my hands. I also care a lot about those close to me. I don't do well with small talk, so please, talk to me about things with substance. Also don't make me do eye contact, it makes me really uncomfortable. If you want to get me talking, bring up music, art, the Alien movie franchise, welding, that's just a few. I'm honest, and never a mean person. If I get mad, I am usually just really quiet. I'm finally happy just being me. If none of the above things bother you, please feel free to message me. :) This is mainly just to help get past things, I have had to explain numerous times. I really just want someone who speaks my language. Or is willing to share my world. Oh also, I am a grey ace. That one, you can look up, or ask me about. :D
What I’m doing with my life
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I work at Target, in the Produce area. Also am going to WATC for welding. Just started. I also paint, a lot. Actually got a few pieces sold to a bar here in town. Painting helps keep my sanity. And music, always have to listen to something while working. Also I'm trying to start a new band. So far just an acoustic duo. No name just yet. Also I want to help fight for LGBT rights, I'm strongly involved in the culture.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything art or music related. It is my life pretty much. I play guitar, bass, and sing. Art wise I draw, paint, film, some photography, and do some computer art.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm quiet, but nice. Maybe my eyes or hair? I'm not all too sure. Haha. I guess you would have to meet me, see what you notice first and let me know. Lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many books to list.
Movies: Sucker Punch, Fight Club, Donnie Darko, etc.
Music: Any genre of rock.
Food: Italian, Chinese, and just whatever I feel like eating. xD
Shows: Criminal Minds, Law and Order SVU, Family Guy, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Art
Umm...lol.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lyrics and crap for my band. And everything, I am in my head so much just in thought I have trouble just living in the moment. I'm a Pisces and we're dreamers. I certainly am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying up until 7am either painting, or writing in some form.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm trans, but if that doesn't matter then talk away! :)
You should message me if
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