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XavianJohnson

24 M Boynton Beach, FL

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I can undoubtebly say that I have been a member of OKcupid for around 3 years now. People always have their doubts and skeptism of dating sites but I'd be a perfect role model for this criteria. Ive met a hand full of interesting people on here that I'm still on good terms with now. Unfortunately, few came close but I've never had a relationship with any of them. Supposedly the issue is because I wasn't 100% honest in the past about my interest. No holding back now, I've realized that the only way to find what you are looking for is if you aren't ashamed of where and how you look for that person. Even if it drops my chances by 90%, It could be a nice filter to find the 10% out there that I would actually love to meet.

To initiate, I'd like to say I've recently got out of a 2 year online relationship with a woman. It was by far the closest to my desires I've ever really came to because, according to others, I'm a really picky person. I'm a open relationship advocate so I'm not too fond of the monogamous tradition more than half the world has embraced for so many decades. The woman I was with is included in that half. I learned alot from my ex, Learned that I don't want a woman to think they can do an open relationship, They should already know they can.

Open relationships can vairy depending on what the individual is comfortable with. Personally, I'm not the type to go on a fucking spree just because I have the freedom to do so. The sex may come after but I do prefer the short term intimacy that comes from getting to know the person of interest. Don't get it confused though, I'm a man of priorities and I set things in order accordingly. Whoever I'm with(Insert name here) will always be more important and the others are just a form of socializing and satisfying my pleasure of discovering. There is one golden rule I like to have in my relationships though and that is "EVeryone has an STD untill proven innocent."Sex education has been with me since middle school and up so I guess I could thank them for my rule because nothing in life is 100% not even a persons knowledge of themself.

Digressing from the relationship standpoint, I am a open minded person.... just think about how many profiles you read with people that said that.... Ok now throw that out the window because when I say I'm open minded, I'm talking about I see no morality in my actions. The only thing I see is if its illegal or if its not healthy/benificial for me. That being said, Let me give a few examples. If I had to go with a label, I'd say Im a secular type of guy. I've been working in a healthcare facility for about 5 years and many of the nurses there, are chirstians. After they got to know me, the few always insist I go to church with them just once. So I said "Sure why not, I have time." Long story short Ive been baptize and officially became a man of christ in 2014. The following night, I visited brazzers like I normally do 5 days a week. The nurses weren't too happy but I honestly didn't know what else they were expecting. I'm a man of my words not a man of god. My other example is simple, Pink is my favorite color and I looked great in victoria secrets underwear. Doesn't mean I'm exactly bisexual or a drag queen but I'd try just about anything once if I'm interested. I can't honestly say that guys would be exempt from this either since I'm a virgin lol. I'm very certain that I'm straight but I do apreciate a good looking body whether it be a woman or a man.
What I’m doing with my life
I want to be a social worker , Its my dream and my passion to help people that refuse to accept the fact that they need it. I'll be honest, A counselor is the reason I passed the 12 grade. My GPA was 1.4 and I had one more semester to go before it all ended. If it weren't for the counselors I would of been lost in all the procrastination that engulfs teens these days. I'm not the smartest kid in the world but I'll be damn honest that anything can be done if you put your mind to it. Graduated with a 2.0 GPA and that was right on the acceptable line for my school
I’m really good at
Poetry

Humanist: Me myself and I, All else is a category behind, I wont relent to selflessness, Because I found bliss in self respect. I need no god to make me whole, I need no one to make me complete, I can do all that on my own, Strength within gives me peace. Happiness is desire and accomplishment, And saddness is a failure to understand, to accomplish you must be persistent, to be happy you must overcome reluctance.
The first things people usually notice about me
I sound like a talking frog, I love flirting with any gender lol and i laugh alot. I love to tuck in my shirt and dress to impress. I sing songs that relate to occasions in that moment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read too many books and its not because I hate them, its just that I like my stories to be a little more interactive. I have read and enjoyed most of the harry potter books, The cay, holes, and Wayfarer Redemption.

Movies, i absolutely love movies and I watch so many that I can't remember the titles. I go for any genre to be honest but recently I've watched the Korean movie titled "A moment to remember." I loved that movie so much that I spent 50$ to have the blue ray shipped to me from Korean, on amazon.

Shows, i feel the same way for shows but I watch most of them on my PC. For example, True blood, masters of sex, Clannad(anime), Gulity Crown(Anime), and a few others I can't remember off the top of my head.

Music, I listen to all genres of music but mostly into orchestra and metal. One of my all time life changing bands have to be Atreyu. I'm even more hyped that they are finally making music again after 5 years of absence. I save alot of symphonies on my google chrome browser because its extremely difficult to remember the names of the composition when I can't simply sing out the the instrumental chorus on google search.

Food: anything that hits the taste buds just right. I'm not very picky with foods just aslong as it doesn't clog my arteries or make me fat.
The six things I could never do without
Gym, Vanilla, Education, People, Pc Games, Desire.

High emphasis on gaming. It is my hobby and my main sorce of entertainment. I play most genres in gaming but as of lately I'm really interested in Mobas and any game with good story or team work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Why I'm sexually attracted to woman that are:Asians, Americans, Germans, Russians, Anyone with light skin.
-Why people automatically assume I'm racist because I'm not too fond of women of my skin color.
- I really prefer open relationships. Monogamy and insecurity are a few things I'm not particularly interested in.
- If I could find a hardcore female gamer that's not already taken.
- Why some people feed and tower dive.
- Why October 21st feels like its 3 years away(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlaPT08Tmxc).
On a typical Friday night I am
PC gaming (Battle field 4/ Dota 2) or on Skype (add me: xxxxryuxxxx1) with my friends after work or school then jerking my chicken.... Well scratch out the Friday and its all fact =]
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My first lover was online; however, I have no shame in admitting that I actually prefer online over local. Trust and communication is key to me; In other words, physical contact in any means is not necessary in order to fall in love. The benefits of online dating is that it filters out the bad apples lol. Take for example, the sex hungry women have no patients for online seducing, and the gold diggers have no patients for setting up a pay pal. Don't get me wrong though, I do want physical contact eventually but I much rather find some one who puts love and quality time over sexual desire.

Another private thing about me is that I do carry a list in my head of the perfect woman but I am open to others out of this criteria so for people who really find it important can read it because i've been runner up by so many girls i don't give a crap any more lol

VIRGIN (Optional.. because I am one)
Blue/green eyes(Unless you're Asian)
Isn't Obese
not a jealous type
(I have a deep attraction for pale skin)
The ability to critically think
A gamer(I'm not talking about candy crush/casual gamer, More of a Hardcore/above average gamer.)
Humanist/atheist
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–26
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
#1 You're a PC gamer.
#2 You read my profile.
#3 My profile hasn't freaked you out.
#4 You visited my profile more than once.