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42 M Miami, FL

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hi there!

I'm active -- I write, coach, and manage my business consulting firm. For fun: tennis, spinning, biking, kayak, blading, WS, good conversation and party with friends and a whole lot more.

Open, available, kind and funny, living the power of now.

My name is Xavier. To find out more, contact me.
Cheers, XV
What I’m doing with my life
Writing my destiny...
I’m really good at
I haven't tried it all yet. I'll get back to you when I have
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm not from around here, but in an inconspicuous way ;)
I've been told my legs look great and people tend to compliment me on my great shape.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: lots of different genres. many dealing with growth
Movies: all sorts of movies as long as there's a theme; not vulgar
Shows: scandal, breaking bad, mad men
Music: too many to list. from classic to rock, house, etc.
Food: lots of different types, some spicy and lots of Sushi, love to improvise my own recipes and entertain friends
The six things I could never do without
My son
A pad and a pen
Something on wheels (bicycle or long board included)
Tennis racket and balls
A bar of soap and a towel
Water, air and sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My writing (on how to make the world a better place):

Intensely insightful and profound, similar to books like THE POWER OF NOW, NEW EARTH or even THE SECRET, yet less esoteric and with a much broader perspective on all aspects of life, goals and relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Writing but open to alternative options.
What do you have in mind... I'll write you a poem ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me when we are in private
Oh, heck, here it is. I love music and many types of it, including classical, jazz and chançon Française. I sometimes sing opera in the shower (poorly) or falsetto when I get hung up with a tune from EW&F. When in public, I sometimes begin humming bars to a classic melody or whistle my hard out (I'm a fan of Toots Thielemans, and almost equal his virtuosity) to a song that is stuck in my head. Or I improvise stuff (I compose a little). I literally have thousands of tunes in my head that I can hum or whistle, and sometimes sing. (I sang in the choir of the European Union as an amateur alto). I also play various musical instruments at different degrees of proficiency that I love to practice (and I will pick up other instruments to learn--LOL--I promise). I absolutely love Pat Metheny (search for and check out "Are you going with me" --Pat Metheny).
In the past, I was denied indulging in some of those wonderful pleasures (to me) and sources of strong feelings (for me) and outlets for expression. So if you can't stand that sort of unruly behavior, or aren't wiling to share the "music time" with me and mix it up a little quoi genres, we may run in a bit of a quandary at some point. ;)
There you have it. I've never really admitted that to anyone, not even my ex.--LOL

In gratitude for reading this, a little musical present for you:
Who else? LOL
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd enjoy exploring life with a man that has a good head on a pair of good shoulders. You are available, open-minded, like-minded, not into games, know what you are looking for. You love to laugh, talk and do something wild and spontaneous once in a while.

Please, take no offense, but I look for youthful women that take care of themselves, physically and emotionally. Age is but a number... In full disclosure, I'm a bit older (my pictures are current) but I look for a very youthful person to be my companion. I refer to state of mind and outlook on life. I'd rather you spend more time on workouts than on makeup, creating new things rather than mending old ones, and embracing new opportunities rather than dwelling over things lost or that could have been. I don't mind fantasy, partying and looking hot (guilty as charged), but no amounts of make-belief, accessories or blush make up for a toned body and a great mind.

Some update--Today is July 23, 2014
Thanks for visiting. I have spent one year on this site. I don't regret it. I met some nice people. But I see no purpose in pursuing this. I won't close my account. If I contacted you and you are just now getting to my message, ignore this and reply to me if your heart says you should. For others, I may visit a profile from time to time. But I won't initiate contact. I write well, but it is a skill and time better spent writing about meaningful things for people who care and take the time to thoroughly read what I write. Should you write to me, I will get the message and I will reply, but only if you have a question, share your name, and if you show that you reviewed my profile and have genuine interest in meeting me. Online dating isn't for me, but perhaps it isn't for you either and we could make a great match in all this absurdity.
Wishing you all much success and happiness. XV