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XenHappiness

31 / M / Straight / Single

Boulder, Colorado

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:46pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I have a strong aversion to drama. I naturally gravitate to calm, and I work to decrease entropy. I come across as friendly and happy in most cases. I have an interesting combination of realistic, skeptical, and positive. I am very intuitive and tend to trust my feelings even when i dont understand them. I tend to strongly believe the things I believe in, but I am pretty open-minded and I make a habit of trying to like things today that I talked shit about yesterday; like math, cilantro, and dubstep. I think I understand emotions and human nature pretty well, but I learn new things every day. I live everyday as though the world is my classroom; I believe learning, living, and loving is the point of life. I majored in art and psych at CU, but I also went to school to learn how to fix and build cars, I'm a certified EMT and also a phlebotomist. I will probably continue education throughout my life.
I love where I live. Every time I look at the mountains I'm still in awe of their size and beauty. I also love the ocean, I can sit at the beach and watch every single wave break. I don't think a day goes by where I don't just stop and stare at something and tell myself how lucky i am. I am a very lucky person. I have a great family, an amazing life, an awesome job, the best dog...now I'm just wishing I had someone special to share it all with.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it to the best of my ability, unafraid, with respect for the briefness of existence, I try to live life with light and love.

I climb a lot, slackline, and mountain/road bike. I have a great job at a medical non-profit where I get to work with altruistic members of my community in order to make a difference in the lives of others. I feel pretty fortunate that I really believe in what I'm doing and that I help make a positive difference in my community. I would probably do my job for free, but shhh, don't tell that to payroll;)
I’m really good at
pottery
making smoothies
driving
debating
being a good friend
reading out loud
logical reasoning
playing frisbee
taking a nap in a hammock between 2 palm trees on a beach
using google
judo rolls
playing trivia games
successfully surviving the zombie apocalypse

I'm getting better at: climbing, slacklining, biking, yoga, cooking
The first things people usually notice about me
I have an uncommon name.
I smile a lot.
I have bright green eyes, they change color too.
dimples
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Huck Finn, Jurassic Park, Clockwork Orange, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Great Gatsby, Where Men Win Glory, Unbroken, War, Expensive People

Life Aquatic , Avatar, Donnie Darko, Karate Kid, Star Wars, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Forrest Gump, Endless Summer, Fantasia, UP, IP Man, Kill Bill, Dopamine, The Usual Suspects, Memphis Belle, 127 Hours, Flight of the Navigator

The Simpsons, Family Guy, Criminal Minds, First 48, news, UFC, WRC, F1,supporting my local sports teams, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, The Walking Dead, Touch, Fantasy Factory, Nitro Circus, Breaking Bad.

I usually just let Pandora guide me on my musical quests. Its a way better dj than I. Simon and Garfunkel, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Jimi Hendrix, Bon Iver, Mumford and Sons, Weezer, Eminem, Lil Wayne, Iron and Wine,Matisyahu, Florence and The Machine have all been big favorites at some time. Angus and Julia Stone and The Glitch Mob Pandora stations are now at the top of my Pandora list.

Mediterranean, Asian, Cajun, Cuban. I like cooking. I make my own food way more than I eat out. I've been eating a low gluten diet so it's mostly protein, fruits and veggies for me. I particularly like cucumbers, avocados, bananas, strawberries, grapes, cherries, chicken, salmon, quinoa, and broccoli is pretty good too. I drink a lot of almond and coconut milk...and lots of water.
The six things I could never do without
1. Nalgene
2. Chapstick
3. Climbing shoes, harness, and chalk
4. POC bike helmet and gloves(seriously saved my life already)
5. Alarm clock
6. Dog food and a leash
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make my goals and dreams a reality
What i am going to do today
How awesome my dog is
Current events
How to be a better person
When I'm gonna get a sailboat and sail around the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Climbing at the BRC
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The sock monster and I have a long standing relationship of mutual hatred.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You take good care of yourself, physically and emotionally.
Have the capacity to love...yourself, others,animals, plants, life.