Xeplar
31 Halifax, Nova Scotia, CA
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My self-summary
I am a person; I like people.
Queer; non-monogamous.
Pronoun: They

I am prone to fits of unsolicited dancing, giggles that turn into snorts, bouts of sarcasm and wit, turning songs into parodies, puddle jumping, finding shortcuts and getting lost. I enjoy comfortable silence, picnics, bike rides, hiking, camping, doodling, cooking, gardening, and crafting.
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing personal growth as an ongoing process
Practicing self-care and compassion
Learning the art of expression
Following passion

Keen on the healing arts, meditation and mindfulness. Self-employed: I am a health-care practitioner, writer and public speaker. I would like to pursue more art beyond being a hobby, and spend more time learning to garden.
I’m really good at
high-fives, picking blackberries, being friends with cats, and Scrabble.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm slow to open up, opting to listen more than speak. I have a big smile, and giggle/laugh a lot. I'm a positive and caring person, that gives really authentic hugs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food! Put it in my face-hole. (the one with the teeth)
I am a food enthusiast. I love being in the company of others and sharing in food, drink, and conversation. I'm gluten-free to stay eczema-free. I am a snackosaurus.
Eggplants are underrated.

Books...a smattering
Jitterbug Perfume, A Chorus of Mushrooms, Boys Like Her, In Watermelon Sugar, R.U.R.

Movies:
The Sandlot, The Hobbit (animated), The Shawshank Redemption, District 9, The Shining, Waking Life, Little Miss Sunshine, Fight Club, Amelie, Office Space

TV (meh)
You could find me watching Adventure Time, Polar Bears Cafe, Arthur, New Girl, Girls, Sherlock, Masters of Sex, Oz, Six Feet Under, Boondocks

I enjoy spoken word, and poetry.

Music?!
Joni Mitchell, Led Zeppelin, Tom Waits, Oh Land, Leonard Cohen, Buck 65, BA Johnston, Timber Timbre, Tool, The Bicycles, Mum, Sigor Ros, Isis, Russian Circles, Beirut, King Konqueror, Mogli, Byron, The Official Suckers, Ben Caplan, Gypsophelia, The Album Leaf, Pink Floyd, Mogwai, Gogol Bordello, The Books, Yann Tiersen, Kate & Rich, ...
The six things I could never do without
The wonders and abundance of the natural world.
Love/Compassion
Sustenance
Laughter/Humour
Expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What to eat.
Word meanings, context, and connotations.
Personal politics, mythos and what ever feels à propos.

Positive intentions, and the power of our thoughts and actions.
Gratitude, and areas for improvement.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing anything I'd do on any other day of the week. Reading, dancing with my cat, boardgames, building a fire, sipping tea...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was around ten years old I got a dime stuck up my nose, not entirely accidentally. I had been playing a game to see how far I could put it in and still get it out. I guess I lost, because we had to go to the doctor to get it out.

For years I found this story really embarrassing. My brother brought it up once when I was in my teens and I got so mad I threw I deck of cards at him.

The joke was still on me though, because I ended up in an unwanted game of 52 pick-up.

Also, somehow emoticons came into regular usage. I really didn't see the transition, and now I don't know what I'd do with out them. I guess I'd have to learn to articulate my feelings or something... :P
You should message me if
* You would like to.

If you decide to message me, please have something more to say than:
*Hey.
*how r u?
*How's life?
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