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Xeplar

29 F Halifax, Nova Scotia, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:27am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I identify as queer, but alas those aren't really options on dating profiles these days. I'm still figuring out what this means to me. I don't really identify as female or male, and I'm attracted to a variety of bodies and orientations, so I've adopted the label of "queer" for ease of use. If you have any questions, please ask, I'll try to answer as best I can.

I'm a silly bean. I don't look my age, and I doubt you would think that I act it. That's not to say I'm immature and incapable of serious, or critical thought, but life is too short to be serious all the time.

I am prone to fits of unsolicited dancing, giggles that turn into snorts, bouts of sarcasm and wit, turning songs into parodies, puddle jumping, finding shortcuts and getting lost. I enjoy comfortable silence, picnics, bike rides, hiking, camping, doodling, cooking, gardening, and crafting.
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing personal growth as an ongoing process and practice.
Spending time with family and friends.

Also, if you're curious as to how my "quest" is going:
I slayed the dragon that lived in the cave beyond the mystic forest, but a thief stole half my loot and I can't find the prophetic frog that is supposed to tell me how to find the princess.
I’m really good at
high-fives, picking blackberries, being friends with cats, listening, hugging, being sincere, and making seafood chowder. There's more, but this is what comes to mind.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd like to think it's my smile or laugh because they're pretty great, but people probably notice my clothes or novelty hat and wonder if I dressed myself. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a food enthusiast. I love being able to share a meal or a snack in the company of others. I'm gluten-free to stay eczema-free. I love lasagne and other casseroles, soups, salads, cheese, dark chocolate, vegetables!

I don't read enough, or as much as I'd like to. I am a little embarrassed to admit that. Mostly I read fiction. Authors I've really enjoyed include: George Orwell, Kurt Vonnegut, Tim Robbins, Roddy Doyle, Irvine Welsh...

I fall asleep a lot during movies, rather I used to. Lately it hasn't been an issue. I like The Sandlot, The Hobbit (animated), The Shawshank Redemption, District 9, The Shining, Waking Life, Little Miss Sunshine, Fight Club, Amelie.

TV-wise I stream what I want to watch. I used to be a Gilmore Girls junkie. The last time i tried to watch it, I couldn't understand why I had loved it so much back in the day. I like a mix of mindless and well-done television. You could find me watching Adventure Time, Polar Bears Cafe, Arthur, New Girl, Girls, Sherlock, Masters of Sex, Oz, Six Feet Under, the season of Dexter with John Lithgow...

I enjoy spoken word, and poetry.
Music? Joni Mitchell, Led Zeppelin, Tom Waits, Oh Land, Leonard Cohen, Buck 65, BA Johnston, Timber Timbre, Tool, The Bicycles, Mum, Sigor Ros, Isis, Russian Circles, Beirut, King Konqueror, Mogli, Byron, The Official Suckers, Ben Caplan, Gypsophelia, The Album Leaf, Pink Floyd, Mogwai, Gogol Bordello...
The six things I could never do without
Warm sun on soft skin
Cuddles
Giggles
Loved Ones
High-Fives
The Basic Essentials of Life - food, shelter, water...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What to eat.
Word meanings, context, and connotations.
Personal politics, mythos and what ever feels à propos.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing anything I'd do on any other day of the week. Reading, hanging out, dancing with my cat, pondering my lonely existence and crying myself to sleep in a pillow drenched in a thousand sad and salty tears.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was around ten years old I got a dime stuck up my nose, not entirely accidentally. I had been playing a game to see how far I could put it in and still get it out. I guess I lost, because we had to go to the doctor to get it out.

For years I found this story really embarrassing. My brother brought it up once when I was in my teens and I got so mad I threw I deck of cards at him.

The joke was still on me though, because I ended up in an unwanted game of 52 pick-up.

Also, somehow emoticons came into regular usage. I really didn't see the transition, and now I don't know what I'd do with out them. I guess I'd have to learn to articulate my feelings or something... :P
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
* You would like to.

If you decide to message me, please have something more to say than:
*Hey.
*how r u?
*How's life?