Message Him

Join OkCupid

Find better matches with our advanced matching system

—% Match —% Friend —% Enemy

Xerxes685

27 / M / Gay / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:52am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Political / Government
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

Similar Users

  • An image of cbrown2002

    cbrown2002 Washington, District of Columbia more desiring of sex

  • An image of Flowrex

    Flowrex Alexandria, Virginia more passive

  • An image of librancontext

    librancontext Washington, District of Columbia more spiritual

  • An image of adk387

    adk387 Washington, District of Columbia more spiritual

  • An image of uncgrad2009

    uncgrad2009 Arlington, Virginia more artsy

  • An image of adagiodc26

    adagiodc26 Washington, District of Columbia more adventurous

  • An image of oknowwhat1601

    oknowwhat1601 Washington, District of Columbia more organized

  • An image of DCAfunguy

    DCAfunguy Washington, District of Columbia more organized

My self-summary
I'm driven, goal-oriented, stable, and I'm a pretty hardcore INTJ. I know where I want to be in 20-30 years, but I'm not at all obsessive about the details. I work in international economic development, currently on projects in Mozambique and Tanzania.

A person much wiser than me said there are basically two types of people who date: testers and investors. Testers date multiple people simultaneously and pick the one they like best. Investors focus on one person at a time until it either works out or it doesn't. I tend to be an investor and would value that quality in other people.

Best friend says: I am discerning, particular, and loyal. That's good enough for me.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been in DC for a bit over two years now, love the city and the life I'm building here. I've been really fortunate to have lived abroad for a few years, and I get to travel for work. Ask me about it sometime.
I’m really good at
Writing, reading critically, listening.

I'm fanatically loyal to my friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: the Dune series by Frank Herbert, Brideshead Revisited, "Game of Thrones" series

Movies: Indochine, The Godfather trilogy, Casino, House of Cards(with Ian Richardson), The Ruling Class, Dr. Strangelove, Latter Days

Music: Elgar, Mozart, Wagner, William Walton

Foods: Italian, Czech
The six things I could never do without
Family, friends, loyalty, duty, ambition, and good books.

In that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future, how I can help the people I care most about
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending it with friends or Netflix or both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not more than 200 years behind the times.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You think virtue, honor, integrity, and decorum are not relics of a barbarous past.

Or, you can help me lighten up my profile... it's way too serious!