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Xerxes685

29 M Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:20pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm driven, goal-oriented, stable, and I'm a pretty hardcore INTJ. I know where I want to be in 20-30 years, but I'm not at all obsessive about the details. I work in international development, a career I've really enjoyed since I moved to DC. Work has taken me to lots of places in Africa - ask me about it sometime.

A person much wiser than me said there are basically two types of people who date: testers and investors. Testers date multiple people simultaneously and pick the one they like best. Investors focus on one person at a time until it either works out or it doesn't. I tend to be an investor and would value that quality in other people.

Best friend says: I am discerning, particular, and loyal. That's good enough for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been in DC for over four years now, love the city and the life I'm building here. I've been really fortunate to have lived abroad for a few years, and I get to travel for work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication. This is very important to me and I think lack of it is often the single biggest reason relationships can fail. I want to be the guy you can feel comfortable being yourself around: no judgment, no mixed messages, no ambiguity. If I'm interested in someone, I tell him. I'm really impressed with guys who actively try to create a space for honest and open communication in their relationships.

Board games and computer games. If you like the really nerdy ones, especially Diplomacy, message me. I enjoy all kinds of strategy games - great way to get to know me better.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes, wit
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Red Mars trilogy, the Dune series by Frank Herbert, Brideshead Revisited, "Game of Thrones" series

Movies: Indochine, The Godfather trilogy, Casino, House of Cards(with Ian Richardson), The Ruling Class, Dr. Strangelove, Latter Days

Music: Bach, Vivaldi, Corelli, Elgar, Mozart, Wagner, William Walton

Computer Games: Civilization series, Supreme Commander: Forged Alliance, BattleZone, Master of Orion 2

Foods: Italian, Czech
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, loyalty, cuddling, ambition, and good books.

In that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future, how I can help the people I care most about
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending it with friends or Netflix or both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not more than 200 years behind the times.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think virtue, honor, integrity, and decorum are not relics of a barbarous past.

Or, you can help me lighten up my profile... it's way too serious!