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28 M Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:57am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm driven, goal-oriented, stable, and I'm a pretty hardcore INTJ. I know where I want to be in 20-30 years, but I'm not at all obsessive about the details. I work in international economic development, currently on projects in Mozambique and Tanzania.

A person much wiser than me said there are basically two types of people who date: testers and investors. Testers date multiple people simultaneously and pick the one they like best. Investors focus on one person at a time until it either works out or it doesn't. I tend to be an investor and would value that quality in other people.

Best friend says: I am discerning, particular, and loyal. That's good enough for me.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been in DC for a bit over three years now, love the city and the life I'm building here. I've been really fortunate to have lived abroad for a few years, and I get to travel for work. Ask me about it sometime.
I’m really good at
Communication. This is very important to me and I think lack of it is often the single biggest reason relationships can fail. I want to be the guy you can feel comfortable being yourself around: no judgment, no mixed messages, no ambiguity. If I'm interested in someone, I tell him. I'm really impressed with guys who actively try to create a space for honest and open communication in their relationships.

Board games and computer games. If you like the really nerdy ones, especially Diplomacy, message me. I enjoy all kinds of strategy games - great way to get to know me better.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Red Mars trilogy, the Dune series by Frank Herbert, Brideshead Revisited, "Game of Thrones" series

Movies: Indochine, The Godfather trilogy, Casino, House of Cards(with Ian Richardson), The Ruling Class, Dr. Strangelove, Latter Days

Music: Bach, Vivaldi, Corelli, Elgar, Mozart, Wagner, William Walton

Computer Games: Civilization series, Supreme Commander: Forged Alliance, BattleZone, Master of Orion 2

Foods: Italian, Czech
The six things I could never do without
Family, friends, loyalty, cuddling, ambition, and good books.

In that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future, how I can help the people I care most about
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending it with friends or Netflix or both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not more than 200 years behind the times.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think virtue, honor, integrity, and decorum are not relics of a barbarous past.

Or, you can help me lighten up my profile... it's way too serious!