I've been getting a lot of messages recently so if I don't reply I'm not necessairily rejecting you. I just can't respond to them all. If you feel like our conversation got lost and you're still interested feel free to send me another message. ^_^

Good and bad, here's what you may want to know about me: Before we go any further, I am polyamorous, bisexual and I'm engaged to and living with Mystic_Fish. I am open to multiple scenarios as long as everyone is honest and that you feel comfortable with Mystic_fish. My highest priority is looking for friends. If love develops from there that's great! It just feels more natural that way. I've been looking for a girl who would be interested in camming with me on mfc. I'm also looking for anyone who wants to hang out and paint or draw together or in a group. I've been illustrating a children's book but its way more fun to do the work with someone else to keep company.

In general I don't think I have a typical personality. I'm honest to a fault, impulsive, and carefree but I think structure and consistency are valuable. I am silly and playful, so I work well with people who are as well, or can at least appreciate my spirit. I'm usually very happy and kind but I'm also sensitive so I really appreciate people who are patient. People who yell often lose my respect. I'm kind of messy and creative. I love to decorate random things and study the psychology of color.

There are so many different topics I am interested in and I love to learn. Even though I have a high IQ, I was born with a language disability. Its not very apparent so no one notices it until they've interacted with me for a while. It causes me to process words slowly and I have trouble with inferences. On top of that I have a horrible memory. So sometimes I have to ask lots of questions. This is another reason why I get aling better with people who are patient. People who don't know me well will often just assume I am ignorant or aloof, or just not listening. I often get along with people who are inherently smart, not the type of people who try to look smart.

Christianity is dear to me, but it causes me trouble with my sexual beliefs and my New Age philosophies. I also really love Taoism, Shamanism, and melding Eastern beliefs with the teachings in the Bible. The bottom line is that I love God and I love learning about various ways that people express their connection with the higher power. I believe science and religion can and do support each other. Nothing offends me more than people who are quick to judge other beliefs without research. It is important to me to find someone who feels connected to a to a/the higher power, irrelevant of which words they choose to describe this.

Ideally, I would quit my job and live on a boat or a trailer, working some online job while traveling. Or maybe I'd move to Hawaii and work at a monastery or a co-housing location. On the other hand, I also love being with my fiance who's happiest in the bay area. My compromise is to just have as much fun as I can here. I'm looking for people who still like to play.

Right now I live on my own income, by the water, working as a clinical massage therapist, studying physical therapy and various forms of energy healing. I believe my purpose in life is that of a healer. When other things in life get overwhelming, it makes me happy to remember the person I see myself becoming.

For fun I love anything in the sun or water. Really, we could just sit outside with some cards and I'd have a blast, but I love excuses to exercise so I also like ice skating, biking, hiking, swimming, kayaking, wrestling etc. I LOVE dancing. I taught salsa for 5 Years, but I love all kinds, especially swing dancing. I used to play water polo, tried karate, kick boxing, tai chi, parkour and qi gong.

Sometimes its fun to stay inside too. I love love love playing board games or video games. We have food night with my friends, we play games, we go out to dinners. When I'm alone (sometimes everyone needs time alone) I like to dance around the house, play video games and read. Last weekend I hung out in my car and painted designs on the inside. Creativity is a big part of my life. I have a lot of talent and can replicate anything, but most of the time I play with color.

I travel around the country often because my immediate family lives all over the place. I get antsy if I stay in one place for too long, but I like having a consistent place to call home. I hope to keep Alameda my home for a long time.

Off the top of my head, massage, kinesiology, art, salsa, and anything related to colors.

My hair color (its usually something unusual). Strangers often go out of their way to comment on my hair.

Favorite movies: Amile, Cash Back
Favorite shows: The Office and Fruits Basket, New Girl
Favorite books: Ender's Game, Life Colors, GTO, Philisophical psychological and spiritual texts.
Favorite artists: Crystal Fighters, Little Boots, Tool, System of a Down, Gwen Stefani, Imogen Heap
I love songs with a good bass and song that inspire dancing.

1. God (The Great Spirit or The Creator)
2. Friendship
3. The ability to express myself
4. The belief that I have worth and the ability to help people
5. A fluffy animal to dote on when I feel alone
6. Something to entertain and challenge my mind

The validity of immaterial concepts like God, energy, spiritual concepts. I also spend a lot of time thinking about what decisions I should make in my current circumstances. Giving massages all day gives me lots of time to think! I think I spend way too much time thinking about what time it is. I wish the world was not restricted by the dimension of time.

Going outside with a friend. Sometimes I like to stay home alone and just play video games.

Shhhh! I really like spankings but I have an impossibly difficult time talking about it. (~_~) Its not the pain, but the voyeurism/forced exhibitionism that drives me crazy.

I am looking for a girl who wants to play on mfc with me. (Only girls are allowed on mfc)

I'd love to find an art partner or group to just meet and create together.

I'm looking for anyone who wants to hang out outside with me.

In a relationship I am looking for someone who is my friend first. If you like to play and laugh and try new things with me. If you pray and spirituality is important to you. If you are silly and social but enjoy being at home sometimes too. If you have a high emotional IQ (for instance check out The Useful Relationship Skills Test-- http://www.okcupid.com/tests/the-useful-relationship-skills-test).

I love guys with longish hair. I like leaders who respect and encourage people to grow. I also like social people who are more extroverted. I will not have a relationship with a guy who is submissive, or raises their voice when they are upset, and especially not if they hate other religions. I want a spiritual friend.