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Xinixo Away

47 / F / Bisexual / Single

Upland, California

Her Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am actively looking for my soul mate, lover and best friend. I have 3 grown children 29, 26 and 20 who are now my friends.

It is time for a little fun and adventure! And I can't wait to meet someone to have fun and go on adventures with!

I enjoy the simple things in life. I would much rather have a kind word, a soft touch or something you made for me as a gift than diamonds and furs. Gifts are for Christmas and birthdays I would rather have the gift of yourself. One exception, flowers! I love flowers! But it doesn't matter if you buy them or surprise me with one from my garden. Now that's romantic! They are always special.

I am very laid back. I don't get mad easily, and if I do it is probably because you hurt my feelings. I don't cry often.

I love a great since of humor. I like men that are social, family oriented, have a good work ethic, generous, accommodating, respectful, philosophical, patient, thoughtful, confident, settled, responsive, intuitive, loyal, healthy, fit, protective and focused. I am looking for a someone who has no or grown children and who's ex is no longer in their life.

I love to read, hike, go camping, go on long walks, gardening, picnics, bowling, mountains, beach, anything outdoors, weekend get away's, BBQ's, sitting cuddling watching movies, going out to the movies, Sushi, just being with the one I love.

I am very quiet, shy and I reflect a lot. I care about people and how they feel.

I am not much into sports. So, I have no problem with you having a night (or weekend) out with your friends. And your friends will always be welcome. I will sit beside you and read while you watch sports, if that makes you happy. And if the Steelers are playing I just might take a peek and bet something tempting against you.

If you are just looking for a hookup and nothing more, then I'm not your girl. I don't french kiss on the first date, and I don't have sex until I get to know you. Don't get me wrong...I LOVE sex, but I am looking to go slow, become friends and then share myself with someone.

Would it make any difference if I told you that I have been raped and I have to trust the person before I can become intimate with them?
What I’m doing with my life
Improving myself and fixing up my house.
I’m really good at
Listening. I love to listen to what others have to say. You can learn a lot that way. I love to hear others opinions and views on life. It is so interesting.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am a little short in the pockets.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read. Anything by James Patterson, John Grishum (probably spelled that wrong) Sandra Brown and many others. A book is an adventure nugget!

I like all kinds of Music! Rock, alternative, Jazz, Classical. I guess, all except Punk, Hip Hop and Country.

I love Sushi, and Mexican and Italian! I love going to a BBQ. I also enjoy trying new things.
The six things I could never do without
My children
Books!!
The Mountains
The Beach
Music
companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work...Kittens....and coffee
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out at home, watching Netflicks and eating Pizza with my son and his girlfriend. I'm such a 3rd wheel!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate the feel of cotton. I don't know if its private, but its kinda weird. I hate the dentist because of the gauze....cotton you see.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You would like to talk and get to know each other. If you are really looking for a relationship and would like to know more about me. And those of you who are looking for a match for you and your wife...forget it.