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Xotic_Guy4U

41 M Silver Spring, MD

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:42am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My life is like a mosaic, filled with laughter and silliness balanced with contemplating the meaning of life with a little humor and warmth thrown in. I enjoy getting to know all kinds of people - everybody has a story to tell and most are pretty fascinating.

I cherish the special moments of being with that special someone like hearing the sound of her laugh, the scent of her perfume, the touch of her soft skin..to admiring her fine intellect, charming personality, and caring personality.

I am optimistic about finding love in 2014! I believe in overcoming roadblocks whatever they may be and that a positive perspective puts you on the right path every time. I like to feel connected to others and pay attention to what makes people who they are based on their experiences and choices in life. I strive to be a well-rounded gentleman as I have a diverse set of interests and enjoy experiencing new ones, and I look forward to enjoying shared interests with a partner. It may sound like a cliché, but life is indeed a journey filled with ups and downs.

I am romantic-- I hold the door for my sweetheart, surprise her with roses, a spontaneous kiss, a foot massage after a long day, or cook her a sumptuous breakfast in bed on her birthday.

I love hearing my niece laugh, evening sunsets, green olives, 80's music, slow dancing to Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get It On", sipping apple martinis, splashing through puddles on a rainy day, cinnamon, warm blankets, snuggling with a lovely woman on a lazy Sunday afternoon by the fireplace sipping a mocha latte, the sound of the ocean, giving & receiving invigorating massages, fireflies on a balmy summer night, candlelit cafes, comedy clubs, fresh cilantro.

I am very modest and down to earth, yet self assured and confident.

I put people at ease, I am inquisitive, caring, friendly and have a good sense of humor. I can have a conversation with just about anyone, like to quote movies, be silly and try not to take life too seriously. I am a loving uncle, a good friend and have the ability to care for others! My friends would describe me as caring, thoughtful and energetic.

I am not needy or a psycho. I am very eclectic and well versed.

I can attend a black tie gala at a five star restaurant or eat a dollar meal at McDonalds:)

I don't have any emotional baggage(although being on here is definately not helping:)
I have a heart of gold & am very affectionate.

I am not pretentious, arrogant or a jerk. what matters to me is who you are on the inside.

I let my actions speak for themselves..talk is cheap.

I am a very loyal, committed, down to earth, romantic, responsible, articulate, affectionate person seeking a monogomous, long term relationship with that special someone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to enjoy each day and appreciate my health, friends, and loved ones.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a creative, unique person
Laughing at cheesy pick-up lines
Not sweating the small stuff
Making people laugh
Appreciating life
Being positive and supportive
Showing empathy
Respecting people
Volunteering
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am very respectful, down to earth, exotic, open minded, articulate, and versatile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Kite Runner, Life of Pi, The Maze Runner, thriller novels(Stephen King, Deane Koontz)

Movies/TV: Argo, Lincoln, King's Speech, Gravity, Matrix, Life of Pi, The Conjuring, Inception, Toy Story, The Help, Eat Pray Love, Hunger Games, The Artist, Twilight, The Hurt Locker, Blair Witch Project, The Girl With the Dragon Tatoo, The Joy Luck Club, Game of Thrones.

Music: Cold Play, Brad Paisley, The Clash, Marvin Gaye, Kenny Chesney, Avett Brothers, Faith Hill, Stevie Wonder, Dixie Chicks, Miranda Lambert, Radiohead, Social Distortion, Luther Vandross, Sheryl Crow, The Cure, Journey, Queen, Talking Heads, Bruce Springsteen, Jason Mraz, Zac Brown, Blondie.

Food: spicy tuny sushi handrolls, Panang Beef, soft shell crabs, Creme brulee, crystallized ginger, guacamole, fresh dates, chai lattes, bread pudding, eggs Benedict, oysters on the half shell, tapas, lobster rolls, Bacardi Flavored Apple rum, empanadas, mango lassis, fresh chutney, jalapeno crabcakes, sangria.

Miscellaneous Favorite Stuff: Kaleidoscopes, wind chimes, warm blankets, the scent of the ocean, mazes, calligraphy, bonfires, candlelight, thunder and lightning, crystals, stargazing, afternoon strolls thru the park,goat cheese, reading nooks, kale chips, hot showers, big skies, star-filled nights, mammoth sunflowers, wasabi, hole-in-the-wall joints, local wines, exchanging perspectives, spontaneous adventures, poetry, documentaries, lazy afternoons, magnolias, porches, self-awareness, clean kitchens, freshly brewed coffee, mosaics, farmers markets, rainy days, metaphors, baking banana bread, avocados, garlic, crashing waves on deserted beaches, the scent of cinnamon .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
health, my spirit, family, good food, laughter, creativity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why am I on okcupid ? :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exploring a new restaurant, exercising, hanging out with friends, watching TV, surfing the web, chilling out, not being on OKCupid:)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a very sensual, passionate person
You should message me if
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you are a down to earth, fun loving, easy going, open minded, articulate woman.