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43 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 28, 2014
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I have lived in NYC for 20 years and have worked in Finance, Advertising, Publishing and the Music Industry -- all through the curious lens of Info Tech. 5 years ago I gave up my "corporate life" for the not so glamorous world of Food, Beverage & Hospitality. Through it all, I've learned a lot about the things that make this great city go 'round, met a lot of people and experienced a multitude of fun and wonderful things. I'm happy with where I've been and where I'm going and confident in myself and my abilities. I'm eternally optimistic and make the best out of most situations. I'm outgoing and love to meet new people.

I am unfined, unfiltered, and all natural

Rest assured that if I have sent you a message (and most likely even if I've viewed you) I have read EVERY detail of your profile and compared our mutual questions on dating and sexuality.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the wine & spirits industry and spend a lot of time reading about and drinking tasty beverages. Of course that leads to the tightly linked world of food which leads me to a lot of eating, cooking and reading about tasty edibles. I ride my bike, sometimes extremely far - my goal is 3 "centuries" this year. I workout at the gym but am not a rat. I'm pursuing a Masters of Wine.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking elaborate meals using only local, sustainable ingredients form the Union Sq Market. Being passionate about whatever I am passionate about at the moment. Flirting with cute women. Meeting people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shoes? I'm Fluevogian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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iTunes Recently Played: Stereolab, The Style Council, Kaiser Chiefs, Yo La Tengo, Beck, Autechre, The Asteroid Galaxy Tour, Joni Mitchell, Sonic Youth, Interpol, The Beastie Boys, Sonic Youth, La Roux, Led Zeppelin, The Shins, Frank Sinatra, Morcheeba, Cocteau Twins, XTC, Pavement, U2, Nightmares On Wax, The Beastie Boys, My Life With The Thrill Kill Kult, Excessive Force, The Dandy Warhols, Dashboard Confessional, Beth Orton, Blank & Jones, The White Stripes, The Doors, Sigur Rós, The Orb, The Buzzcocks, Sparklehorse, The Rolling Stones, Air, LCD Soundsystem, Guster, Dimitri From Paris, Tegan & Sara, Elliott Smith, Jonathan Richman & The Modern Lovers, Stranglers, The Ramones, The Brian Jonestown Massacre, Bruce Springsteen, Stereophonics, Lemon Jelly, Ani DiFranco, Lou Reed, José Padilla, Deerhoof, Lush, Psychic TV, Weezer, DJ Shadow, Tori Amos, Charlie Parker, Hooverphonic, Laurie Anderson, Violet Indiana, The Stooges, Stereophonics, Charlie Parker, Tindersticks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people move to NYC then spend most of their time drinking Starbucks coffee; waiting in line for Trader Joes; shopping at the Gap/Banana Republic/Barnes & Noble/etc.; thinking & looking like everyone else. Couldn't they just do that wherever they came from? NYC is about diversity. Seek it out.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Avoiding the masses...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm in an open relationship (we tend to avoid the term poly-amorous) with an amazing woman. We have met our match in each other in that we have the same philosophy about love, sex and relationships. She's bisexual and we sometimes roll as a couple. We are also free to see other people. If this is not your particular shot of whisky, no hard feelings...
You should message me if
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you are not offended by the profile above and you would be into grabbing a drink sometime soon...tonight?