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Xuberant

65 / F / straight / Single

La Grange, Kentucky

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am witty, creative, and exuberant.

My Self-Summary

i'm easy going, witty, fun to be with and to do things with. i 'play well with others', am somewhat intelligent, love to tease and be teased, and like to be silly sometimes. i'm always compassionate, caring, a very good cook, imaginative, whimsical, creative, spontaneous and accepting of most people just as they are.

i'm also optimistic, somewhat naive, a born again virgin, aspiring southern belle, devil's advocate, and a bit of a klutz. i am too short (5'3), too 'hippy'(don't ask!), can't sing - although i do anyway, brave when i need to be, and am equal parts introvert and extrovert. i am the mother of two grown 'children', grandmother of two growing grandchildren, and ex-wife of one almost grown-up man.

i'm a 'literary slut', majored in theatre arts/english in college, am more liberal than conservative, a lover not a fighter, and probably too loquacious for my own good!

What I’m doing with my life

i retired last year and love having the time to do whatever i want. not having a schedule is a luxury i haven't experienced before. i recently moved from a large house to a small one and i'm enjoying the 'nesting' process. allowing myself unlimited reading time without guilt is a lovely pleasure. exploring small shops, local restaurants, and historical sites is wonderful.

i'm an active, involved grandmother of two. i am currently exploring where i can help most by volunteering.

I’m really good at

listening, laughing, compromising, kissing, empathising, having fun, making others laugh, expressing myself, drying tears, lending a shoulder, giving a back-rub, accepting people for who they are, being tolerant, playing fair, keeping secrets, being diplomatic, getting along with just about everyone.

The first things people usually notice about me

my eyes, my smile, sometimes my laugh/giggle.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

i really like too many books to have a favorite. i love most movies, dramas and comedies, musicals are ok, westerns are great, action movies so-so, like foreign films very much.

love classical music, jazz, old-time rock n roll, broadway musicals, some rhythm and blues, and i hate to admit this - but....i also like 'easy listening' music. (maybe that could be our little secret??)

my very favorite food in the whole world is mashed potatoes. i like almost all ethnic food, although chinese is my least favorite. i love french, italian, japanese, seafood, continental. i love cooking and took many gourmet cooking classes while i lived in california. i enjoy wine (mostly white) - trying new wines and finding the right wine to pair with something i'm cooking.

i enjoy desserts, rich coffee, and good scotch. dark chocolate will cure just about anything that ails me!

The six things I could never do without

family

friends

health

laughter, love

giving and receiving affection

books

kissing and hugs (counts as just one because they can be done together - even at the same time if desired)

(i know i listed more than 6, but...)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

thousands of things. i think of inventions. write poetry and stories. remember good memories. heaven (who,what where, when, why, and how??????),
the past, the present, and of course, the future.

i think about cooling down global warming; what to do if greatness is suddenly thrust upon me; how i can live richly and avoid regret; where i left my umbrella/glasses/keys/etc. etc. etc.; how can i avoid predictability....

i love to allow my mind to do 'free associative' thinking...in other words, i love just letting my mind wander (flit?) from one thing to another, wherever it wants to go.

On a typical Friday night I am

making plans for the weekend.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

hmmm....it involved a raincoat, high, high heels, a drive to the airport to pick-up a 'friend', and an embarrassing 'trip'.

You should message me if

i sound like a woman you'd like to get to know; and,
if you think i'd like to get to know you.