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Xutjja

32 F Norwood, MA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 35–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:15am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not interested in having a casual sex encounter. Please do not message me inquiring about one.

I'm a SSBBW, for those who aren't savvy with the lingo that means super sized big beautiful woman. I'm completely comfortable in my own skin. In fact I'm more than just comfortable, I down right enjoy it.

I'm more than just my exterior. I'm smart and sarcastic with a dark sense of humor. I'm a typical Aries: independent, stubborn and loyal to a fault.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an adult entertainer. I currently produce, promote and star on one website. I'm in the process of putting together a subsite through the same host. Hopefully I'll have it together by the new year.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can do just about anything when I put my mind to it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for example from the perspective of a fat admire I'm a modern day Venus of Willendorf.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I would have to say that my favorite book of all time is Drawing Blood by Poppy Z. Brite.

Here's a list of the TV shows that I'm currently watching: The Vampire Diaries, The Originals, Lost Girl, Bitten, Supernatural, The Walking Dead, The Last Ship, The Strain, Once Upon A Time, Game Of Thrones, American Horror Story, Haven, Black Sails, Salem, Perception, Bones, Bates Motel, Hannibal, True Detective, The Blacklist, Hell On Wheels and Sons Of Anarchy.

Horror movies are one of my guilty pleasures. Beyond that: Donnie Darko, Dorian Gray, Sherlock Holmes, Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows, The Prestige, Dark City and The City of Lost Children.

I have rather eclectic taste in music. Right now I'm into Ellie Goulding, Florence And The Machine and Lana Del Rey.

I have a weakness for sweets in general. Right now I'm on a chocolate covered nut kick.

Since I'm asked about it so often I'm adding a list of my favorite video games as well. Chrono Trigger, Final Fantasy III (US), Phantasy Star IV, Luna: The Silver Star Story, Suikoden, Suikoden II, Xenogears, Fallout, Fallout 2, Baulder's Gate, Baulder's Gate 2, Planescape: Torment, Icewind Dale, Icewind Dale 2, Arcanum: Of Steamworks & Magick Obscura, Neverwinter Nights, Vampire The Masquerade: Bloodlines, Dragon Age: Origins, Dragon Age: Origins Awakening, Dragon Age II, Dishonored, The Witcher, The Witcher: Assassins Of Kings and The Incredible Adventures Of Van Helsing I & II.

I'm looking forward to Dragon Age: Inquisition, The Witcher: Wild Hunt and Warlords Of Draenor.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've learned that I can live without a lot but that doesn't mean that I want to. I want to be able to wake up and access the internet while listening to music and enjoying a Starbuck's Refresher.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
For better or worse I live for the day. I don't dwell on the aspects of my life that I can't immediately change. Laugh now, cry later.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...usually relaxing after cooking dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was in a British documentary about plus size women in the adult entertainment industry. You can view it here:
http://www.channel5.com/shows/fat-for-cash/episodes/fat-for-cash

I had the opportunity to be featured in a magazine out of the UK recently. I'll be able to say more when it gets closer to the time that it goes to print.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for a FA (fat admirer) or FFA (female fat admirer) or in layman's terms someone who is completely turned on by the sight of fat. Bonus if you're an active member of the plus size community. I love going to bashes!

When it comes to personality I value honesty, loyalty, thoughtfulness and maturity. Physically different things attract me to different people. Generally speaking I like height, muscles and a touch of gray.

Deal Breaker : Having or raising a child isn't for everyone and I ask that you respect that. That said, I will not date someone who wants to have a child. Having a child is a life changing experience and I would never ask someone to compromise about that decision.

I wouldn't be oppose to starting things out as a long distance relationship with the right person.