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XxjohnMxX

30 M New Kensington, PA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:58am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Apologies for the extensive profile, haha. Just keep revising it and adding stuff. Enjoy the read!! :)

Apparently I'm also and INFJ for those of you who are interested in that test.

Edit: I'm open to dating and seeing where things go. If a relationship becomes a possibility then i'm all for it. I'm not strictly looking for a commitment, thought it would be nice to form one someday if it's in the cards. (Please know how to have a conversation. I dont do the one message a day thing. I'm here to meet someone and get to know more about them. I dont want it to take 3 weeks just to have exchanged 5 messages)! Ugh! And I know all my pics are selfies, haha. It just doesn't even cross my mind to take pictures while I'm out doing something or with people. Sorry about that :P

Also I rarely initiate messaging now. It tends to be exhausting typing out literally 100's of unique lengthy messages. Getting few replies and 3/4 of you don't even view my profile. So now I'll just favorite you or rate you highly to show I'm interested and if you do the same, then I'll message you. (And Just noticed that I can't view who liked or rated me highly, because I'm not paying for this site. Oh well).

Also, i dont play the chasing game or any crap like that. So if you're looking for a guy who will act uninterested and like he doesnt care. Thats not me. If im interested in a girl. I'll let her know and want to talk to her. The chasing game is a waste of time, does more harm than good and is not "fun" or "exciting". Who would rather waste time making yourself sick wondering if the other person is even interested and having roller coaster emotions. When that could be time spent having fun and getting to know one another. Showing affection, cuddling, being happy, etc.... anyway. Done with the rants. On to the actual profile haha. :)

I love music and listen to a wide variety. Although it is mostly metal I like all styles ranging from classical inspired to full on Norwegian black metal. Always had a strong passion in the martial arts. Enjoy going to the gym at least 4-6 times a week and eating healthy and being responsible. I'm not a health freak or anything lol. Just enjoy taking care of my body, working out and staying in shape. Would like for my girl to do the same. Not trying to sound shallow or rude, but if you're bigger than me or don't take care of your body. Then we probably won't start dating. Nothing against overweight people. I'm sure you're a great girl. I'm just not attracted to it.

Yes, i have dreadlocks and i do wash them and take care of them. I used to live in Ocean City Maryland for 5 years and you see people with dreads everywhere down there. So when i moved back up home to Pa. I kind of missed seeing them everywhere so i decided to grow my own lol. And I do NOT do drugs. I've already done my share of drinking and just don't find alcohol or bars appealing anymore. But i'm not on the wagon or anything and if you'd like to go out to a bar, I'd be more than happy to join you :)

I do match my Libra sign perfectly :) loving, romantic, caring, affectionate, mellow and cool with everything. I don't let things bother me or make a big deal about nothing. I'm creative and unique and a one of a kind genuine man. I like to joke around and don't take anything too seriously. That doesn't mean i'm not mature and cant be serious. I just like to have fun and be happy. Smile and enjoy the little things in life. I'm very open-minded and love animals.I seek balance and open mindedness in a relationship. I don't rush to judgement or assume quickly. If there is a problem I prefer to talk about it to resolve it and fix it. Relationships aren't fairy tales like people believe. You have to work at them and talk about your differences or things that bother you. Not just ignore them to let them get worse or throw the relationship away. What kind of relationship would it be if youre not willing to discuss things maturely and openly while seeing both sides of the arguement. Dont just jump to conclusions either and keep an open mind as well, especially in the early stages while youre still trying to get to know one another. I'm what you could call a good guy with a bad boy persona or edgy image I guess haha. I just have manners and am mature and know how to treat a lady.

I thrive off making the girl i care about feel loved and happy and would do anything for her. I'm a one woman kind of guy. I dont want to love a million women in 1 way, I want to love 1 woman in a million ways. Affection and touch is a big part of what i crave in a relationship. I love to touch and be touched. I don't mean hanging all over each other and making out in public haha. I mean little things like caressing your skin as we cuddle or holding hands if we're out or simply holding onto my arm and sweet kisses, of course. It's comforting :). I enjoy saying sweet nothings and being romantic towards a girl if I'm interested. Flirting and hearing nice comments lift my spirit. Who doesn't enjoy hearing nice things on occasion to let them know they're wanted and cared about? So I just treat others how id like to be treated.
I seek balance and harmony while I'm with someone.

I love being my own person and standing out from the rest of the crowd. I enjoy romantic evenings at home cuddling to a movie as much as I enjoy going out to dinner and adventuring. I'm ready to settle down in life and have a family perhaps but most of all I'm looking for someone to share my life with and have a commitment and companionship. Someone to fall asleep next to every night and wake up next to everyday if it turns into a relationship. Oh and tattoos/piercings are definitely a plus :) I currently have 4 piercings, and since i took those pics on here ive had a full sleeve done on my right arm and have ideas for many more!

If you're interested, don't be afraid to say what's up. I'll take it from there. :)

Some interests of mine include: movies, reading, martial arts, cuddling, affection, working out, being unique, giving massages, anime, mythology, philosophy, spirituality, astronomy, astrology, dark fantasy, other cultures, sushi, going out to dinner, concerts, playing guitar, tattoos, piercings, body modification, used to skateboard, kissing, sex, having an open mind, this list could go on forever. I'm open to pretty much anything haha
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, getting tattoos, going to the gym, I have a good job that offers a lot of advancement opportunities. My main priority right now is to find a girlfriend lol. I'm happy where I'm at in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a sweetheart and gentleman. Playing guitar. Being there for someone in need. Artistic and passionate.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and friendly personality. I guess my dreads too lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love reading dark fantasy novels, I'll watch pretty much any movie or TV show. I'm not picky. That doesn't mean I'll like what is on TV though lol. Favorite bands include Katatonia, Opeth, All Shall Perish, Kamelot, Winds, Hypocrisy, Blind Guardian and literally hundreds more. I'm into all sorts of foods but my favorite would probably be sushi. Can't knock it till you've tried it.:P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex
Phone
Music
A computer
Car
Food lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being in love, staying in shape, ideas for tattoos and many other random things. I do like to think and day dream a lot. I'm always contemplating things and what not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not working overtime I'll be at home relaxing after another week at work or taking my girl out to dinner. Spending time with her, cuddling watching movies. Just enjoying the little things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have to refrain from saying perverted stuff here haha. Umm. I'm a sucker for cuddling and affection. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're open-minded. Enjoy being a goofball and smiling and would love spending time/talking and seeing me if we became a couple. And doing things together.