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YOSpenser

70 Middleboro, MA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 57–67
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I opened this account named after what the character Hawk said to Spenser in the Robert B. Parker novels. I then added an account under my real identity: HalinMiddleboro. With that information (first name and town) alone you can Google me and find me on the Internet.

My life was working perfectly; but fate intervened. My passion in life was always being half of a couple. I always threw myself wholeheartedly into my career and took great pride in being the best therapist, clinical supervisor and mental health center director I could be. If I was still working while I'd still have that, but with retirement after the death of my wife of 40 years in January of 2010 of course everything changed.

I would be content being at home much of the time with someone special in my life. She doesn't have to be with me all the time; but just knowing we are partners can make a day alone satisfying, even if I have little to do.

I am generous and don't mind spending money to have a good time.

I don't have much patience with phonies.

My sense of humor is wry and spontaneous. (I don't"tell jokes").

I am "a partner person". I want to find someone who feels the same way.

About the one I'm looking for...

I am one of many Jewish atheists, Jewish by culture but not religion. I am turned off by organized religion, especially dogmatism. My partner must accept that I am convinced that with death comes an absolute end of all consciousness.

I can't see myself being with someone who isn't politically liberal. I am attracted to women who are smart and clever, who can engage in playful repartee.

I am very much taken by the wonders and mysteries life, nature and the cosmos; but that doesn't make me spiritual in the usual sense of the word. I am fascinated by discoveries in physics, biology and medicine. I'd rather say I'm a secular humanist than an atheist. I am more like Stephen Hawkings in my view of God and the cosmos.

With the right woman I'd be happy staying at home relaxing and taking day trips, working in the garden, eating out, watching a few well written and acted TV dramas, watching the MSNBC evening political shows, going to Boston, the Cape, or the beach, taking longer road trips around New England, shopping, reading, discussing politics and just about any topic of mutual interest. I'd be willing to take a few big vacations.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am doing my best to keep mentally stimulated and busy.
I’m really good at
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Listening, observing, writing, photography
The first things people usually notice about me
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Lot's of women of all ages seem to smile at me. Modesty keeps me from speculating as to why this is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have no specific answers to this. I like to be entertained and educated in a variety of ways.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never say never.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... people and life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
.... home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is something I find many women online won't admit, i.e. that while contact, I am not happy with the way my life is now.
You should message me if
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... you think we might be compatible.