Yamigata1
36 Port Royal, SC
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My self-summary
I am not interested if you do not live in the USA. Sorry.

I'm not into frequent partying, frequent drinking, or drugs. I don't like going to bars or clubs. I'd prefer to get a group of friends together for a cookout and a movie.

I live on my own with no kids, no room mate, no girlfriend, no drama. Just a cat.

I prefer cats because they're not over protective, they don't jump on and sniff all over my guests, they aren't loud. I am fine with dogs as long as they don't behave as I just described. :P

I'm not too crazy about bad pet owners, or people who have an obsession with animals.
What I’m doing with my life
I just left my job that I was with for the past three years and have accepted an Information Systems position with a hospital nearby. I'm really looking forward to the growth opportunities there.
I’m really good at
I love to cook. One of my favorite things to do is team up in the kitchen with a partner and prepare a meal, then sit down for a movie or a few episodes of a show and enjoy it together.

I don't really like to say that I'm "really good at" it, tho. The things I know how to cook, I can do pretty well. But I'm not all that good at knowing how to substitute this for that, etc.

I also have an artistic side. Sometimes I draw or paint. I haven't tapped into that side of life as much as I used to, but every now and then I'll do it.
The first things people usually notice about me
My facial hair. I do different things with it. Right now it's kinda long (about 4 inches) and I've just been growing it out to do fun things with it. I know this isn't everyone's cup of tea, and I'm not against shaving/trimming to my partner's preference :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite shows are Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Bones, Deadwood, Sopranos, Lost, Firefly, Walking Dead, and there are a few on my list I want to watch.

I like lots of food, not very picky at all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a hotdog costume autographed by 3 Doors Down.
You should message me if
I've noticed a trend where sometimes a woman will just stop responding to a guy she's decided she's not interested in. I can understand she might have a lot of attention coming her way and it would just be too much trouble to offer all of them a proper farewell, or that often times guys can't handle rejection and start acting like a jerk. I'm sure some women would rather just avoid this altogether and simply break communication abruptly, and I would probably do the same thing if I knew it wasn't going to be a smooth departure otherwise. However, I think it's very rude to do this to a guy who has been nothing but friendly and respectful to you.

So here's what you can expect from me if we start talking:

**I will be respectful to you. If it turns out that I do not find you to be respectable, I will wish you the best and be on my way.

**I will be your friend. Some have told me I am TOO nice. I disagree. I believe the world needs more nice people. Don't assume my friendliness comes as a result of ulterior motives. It doesn't, it's just who I am and I'm not changing who I am just because people think I'm "too nice."

**If you decide you are not interested in being my friend or anything more, and just want to stop talking altogether, simply say so and I will wish you the best and politely bow out. I will not hound you to change your mind, I will not stalk you/chase you down, I will not call you names.

In exchange for the above, it would be nice to get some honest communication in return.

Also, be able to keep the conversation going. I have no problem enjoying a conversation with someone but don't expect me to carry the full weight of it. What I mean by that is don't let the conversation be just me getting to know you. Get to know me, also.
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