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28 M Richmond, VA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 7:13pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Farsi (Fluently), Urdu (Okay), Persian (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Fact(s): The overwhelming majority of people who navigated to my profile never made it this far. People have a habit of not actually reading my profile. They either message me because of a potential physical attraction or they just write me off and decline to do so after having passed judgement on my physical appearance... Identifying me with whatever douchery they assume I'm engaged in. I'm proud of who I am. Certain things in life nobody can give you. You can't get lucky. Things you just have to do for yourself. These are things nobody can take away from you either. At this point it's pretty disheartening dealing with all of the sensationalist assumptions and corresponding negative undertones prevalent among such a misguided society's conventionally unsophisticated outlooks... Specifically those in which a notoriously misdirected ignorance fueled the illustration of such an abrasively damaging stigma behind my physical appearance. I wish there was a more laid back way of saying it but live a day in my shoes and you'll understand.

We have all watched people we once loved turn into complete strangers all over again. That's the inconvenient truth. It is our personal responsibility not to let bad decisions investing ourselves in bad people from our pasts ruin us for who we were actually meant for. Reclaim yourself. Know what you want. Go for it. People by default will drag you through every color mud. It's a cruel world out there. Most people become jerks as a defense mechanism. Eventually someone will come along who will cherish, value, and embrace you for all of the qualities others took for granted, overlooked, or took advantage of. Anyone who would dare even potentially marginalize your preciousness deserves no place in your life. Don't sell yourself short.

I am not like anyone I know. I am not like anyone you know either. You never knew anyone until you knew them. Even then... did you really know them......?? Trust me... I'm still waiting to be discovered. Please don't allow your life experiences with my gender to reflect on me. As mine will not reflect on you. Nor will I be taking accountability for those who have wronged you simply because we share the 23rd chromosome XY configuration. By being rude to me you are making me burn for the mistakes of people you yourself chose to invest yourself in the past. I have not wronged you. In any way. Ever. I would appreciate the courtesy and the justice of a clean slate. Don't be rude to me. Nobody of stable mental health likes a jerk !!

Ideally, in the grand picture of life, I'm looking to build and blossom a Lasting and meaningful bond with someone exceptional to me. I have been... and will continue to be perfectly ok with living solo until such a person comes along that is worth investing myself in. I won't be with someone just for the sake of not being 'alone' because I love myself and I avoid self-defeating behavior at all costs. I naturally already experience and marinate in happiness from within... rather than worrying about such illusions as "without" ..... Happiness is not something I outsource for unlike most people's conventional approach (and failure) has historically proven to be. Also, my perception of happiness is much different than most around me. Happiness in my life is measured by what I give rather than what I have. I do not need someone to complete me, rather a person to share with the fruits of my labor. I know what I want and I go for it.

If fishing were to be the topic of an analogy... I fish with a spear rather that with a net like most others do... Trying to please everyone, often misrepresenting themselves... saying or doing any and every thing they assume the masses would like to hear and see....or even worse... fishing with bait and hook. Wolves in sheep's clothing. Yikes ! See no matter how much a person will attempt to trump themselves up, eventually they have to be them selves. Being Yourself is the best place to start. I have zero game. I am just me. Its all I really have for sure. Call me selfish, but i'm the best thing I got going for me... People come and go, but I will always have to live with myself. So I am my most valuable investment, for now. I'm single because I'm the only person who knows me.

I don't want to be on here forever. My hope was to find someone exceptional to me... embrace the blessing... and move forward. I would rather brush every feather of your wings and watch you fly away than ever dare clip them. I am not the type who is willing to hold myself back if things get sturdy should the wind naturally blow us in that direction... and no matter what you are looking for.... this shouldn't be a turnoff for you. I have beyond any measure proved that I am patient in life. Especially in matters of companionship... but I am also not afraid to be your superman, if that is what the situation calls for. So you made it this far ? I am a big fan of interacting with people and allowing their character to naturally reveal itself... but here are a few fun facts about me:

I am quadra-lingual... Penta-lingual if including English lol

My favorite authors are Regina Brett and Eckhart Tolle.

22 years of my life was spent living 339 miles away from Richmond on a small island in New York named Manhattan.

I quit smoking Cigarettes almost 7 years now... If you smoke.. don't worry...I know how it is. I'm not one to judge.

I've been cutting and styling hair as a professional hobby for the last ten years or so and I have tailored lots of different styles and designs of notable appeal and proficiency. I love cutting hair !

I like tattoos and have some unique ink myself. I love art in general. I consider myself a dynamic expressionist.

Without being pretentious I can tell you that I am a phenomenal chef. I can cook like my life depended on it !!

You can check out some of my dishes that I randomly photographed since downloading instagram (0:

Instagram: chamowni

I am proud of having a wide spectrum of multifaceted occupational specializations in my life's portfolio.

Seems like majority of people don't even read these. If I had half a nickel for every time someone asked me a question in which the answer was clearly indicated in my YIKES!! There is a lot to my personality and to the texture of my character to just list on a profile for a dating utility website. Too much depth and density to my being to just illustrate here in words. All I can tell you for now is that you'll be extremely content with making the decision of getting to know me... so treat yourself to that good decision and say hello [0:
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it up, enjoying the fruits of my labor
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at things I am really good at... Which among many other things include but are not limited to; making people laugh, making breakfast, lunch, or dinner, making every snack in between, and making the most out of anything. You give me a toothpick and I'll build ya a shopping mall LOL (0:
The first things people usually notice about me
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My accent... most likely ? idk lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

My all time favorite author is Eckhart Tolle. My all time favorite author/journalist in a different respect is unequivocally Hunter S. Thompson.

Cinema is a rather open topic for me. I basically have a movie theater that used to be the living room so even "bad" movies aren't so bad lol but I am totally open to all genres of cinema... I just hate NWO propaganda crap Hollywood and the MSM puts out here to brainwash people regarding domestic and geopolitical affairs. Other than that I am game !

Ahhhhh.. Music. After being alive over a quarter century, I have developed a exceptionally diverse preference in music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1)Good hygeine
2)Lifeproof case to my iPhone
3)Toothbrush/listerine/floss picks
4)Bottled water (pref. smartwater)
5)Kitchen /Culinary tools
6)Barber tools
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff that the overwhelming majority of people are too naive or too ignorant to even know is within the realm of existence.