I am pretty comfortable in almost any company, including my own, but i do try to surround myself with intelligent, left leaning people who don't take themselves too seriously.
I am an inherently positive person. I'm very open minded in terms of lifestyle but very much a rationalist when it comes to the way i view the world around me. In other words, I won't judge you if you like wearing latex onesies at the dinner table or enjoy medieval role play but I may glaze over a little if you start talking about psychics or chakras.
I think sites like okstupid can actually be great. The main problem is running into close friends on here. It is much like running into your great Aunt at a sex shop.
It's mainly monogamy on my resume but I am also open to polyamory. I think honesty is the key