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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 24
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I live an exciting, adventurous, silly, social, and healthy life. I'm pretty happy with it. I'm looking for someone like-minded/like-demeanored to do random acts of kindness, absurd acts of silliness, outdoor activities, intellectual discussions, and of course, cuddling, with.

Type of relationship I'm looking for
Despite the implications of my username, I'm more interested in finding a romantic relationship here than platonic friends. Ideally, I'm looking for an emotionally invested, long-term relationship.

I would describe myself as... :
Vibrant & exuberant, friendly, outgoing, extroverted, and welcoming but not loud. I dislike loud people.
Optimistic and Cheerful I am pretty much the embodiment of the word "happy"
Competitive- I like challenges. Physical challenges, board game challenges, baking challenges. Any challenge! The weirder the better. (Mostly I compete with myself though, so no worries)
Lightly nerdy I'm on the not-so-nerdy end of the spectrum. Although that's relative to my friends and not to yours... so you might think I'm way nerdy. :p
Silly Have you seen my pictures?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Grad school: Regenerating the pancreas! (to cure diabetes). (I love having a job that is not only intellectually stimulating, but also allows me to directly contribute to helping people!)
Learning about entrepreneurship! There's a dating business that I really want to start (because this whole process can be improved). I'm working on it very slowly at the moment. (Also recruiting co-founders!) Check out the Facebook page!
Outdoor Adventuring!: Hiking, camping, picnics in Seattle parks
Playing board games (see below for list)
Creating artwork: Digital photography, painting, building a cat tree made from driftwood...
Decorating myself: Henna, facepaint, wacky hair, costumes... :)
Dancing Salsa, bachata, Kizomba, swing (not clubs). Want to join me?
Exercising: I think I'm going to do a marathon in November.... I also swim, do stairs, and weights. I actually like working out. Oh, and hiking. That counts too, right?
Baking: I like challenging baking projects
Learning some programming!
Traveling. I suppose I should put this in there too. Most states (yay, national parks) + 11 countries. So many more places to go!

Less frequent (but not less awesome!) activities:
Paragliding, White water rafting, White water kayaking, Flyboarding, Flying a plane, Glassblowing, Jetskiing, Zip lining, Skiing, Snowmobiling, and skydiving!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Different take on this one. I asked my friends what they would put in a guide to living with me/being friends with me and here's what they came up with (verbatim):
"I know it sounds weird, but just roll with it, and it will be awesome. That could be the entire guide."
• "As far as living with you, I am kind of drawing a blank because you are seriously the easiest person to live with."
• "You kind of perpetually exist in a state of running 10 minutes late, which takes some getting used to. I learned to roll with it, for the most part." sorry, that's entirely true. I do, however, text early to say that I'm running late
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Warmth, friendship, feeling safe, relaxation, and oxytocin. = cuddling!

Okay, I should probably admit this. I think I'm a cuddle addict. Sometimes, when I'm not in a relationship, I cuddle with my friends or cuddle buddies. Unbelievably enough, it's pretty uncomplicated. We're just friends who happen to cuddle. Everyone needs comfort and cuddling sometimes! It's completely platonic though. We talk about the people we're dating to each other and hang out with mutual friends. It's great. Anyway, just wanted to put that out there. Also, if you read my profile and think "she seems cool, but I definitely don't want to date her", fantastic! Send me a message about cuddling and maybe we can work something out. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. It's so interesting!

Also... how awesome it would be to have a zipline from Capitol Hill to Ballard. Any ideas on how I can convince the authorities that this is a great plan?? This is my next business idea....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
• I almost always pick locker #42 at the gym...

• I may or may not have been kicked off of OKC previously. (nothing bad, I promise)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Step 1. Check deal-breakers
These are here to save us both time. Although, I try to avoid negativity on my profile (and I'm a pretty optimistic person in general), these things are called deal-breakers for a reason. I don't really want to discuss them, but if you put a note in your message saying you've read them - +10 points. :p That said, I am very interested in YOUR deal-breakers. Please tell me what they are! These are mine:
Getting drunk often (drinking is fine, I actually drink fairly often these days. But if you can only have fun when drunk....we're not going to get along)
Very religious (I respect religion and religious people, but I'm definitely an atheist and it seems like strong differences in religion just cause relationship problems)
Regular drug use (not 420 friendly, sorry. Every once in a while is fine, but every week.... not so much.)
Dislike of cats (I have two! If you're allergic, that should be okay though, my cats are hypoallergenic!)
Children from a previous relationship (I have kittens. That's my max level of commitment right now)
Living far from Seattle(No car for me! I live in capitol hill where a car is really more of an annoyance than anything else. )
Disbelief in evolution, dislike of stem cell research, and/or PETA membership
Pessimism. I'm an eternal optimist and pessimists kind of rub me the wrong way.
Lack of ambition
Passiveness: It took me a while to put my finger on this one, but basically, I'm looking for someone who's energetic, curious, driven, and passionate and it shows. You have to keep up with my ridiculous energy. :p

Step 2: Click "Like".
I actually like to send messages! I'll write you one if you're patient :p Also, just a note. If we mutually match (both "like" each other), I'm way more likely to send you a message. It decreases the likelihood of me being ignored, so you become prioritized in the queue of messaging. (Paid OKC service not required.) Also, I don't use quickmatch, so if you see that I've liked your profile it means I read it all, went through all of our "unacceptable answers" questions, and find you attractive. Feel free to send me a message if I'm slacking. Sometimes I do that...

Step 3: Message topics!
If you do send a message, I'm most interested in hearing these things from you:
• What are you passionate about/what do you get really excited about doing/working on/ talking about? And why?
• What are you excited to learn about/how to do? Why?
• What type(s) of relationship(s) are you looking for? What qualities are you looking for? What are your deal-breakers?
• How do you feel about putting yourself into ridiculous situations? (costumes, strangers, candy, Monty Python coconuts, etc)

Nerdy, and awesome, pick up lines are also appreciated. :)