I'm actively polyamourous. I've been married to my spouse, a transgender guy, since 2000 and we have been poly since day one. My husband has a secondary partner, also trans, who is a part of our household and whom I consider my family.
BDSM/kink/leather culture is a part of my everyday life. I'm in a 24/7 Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship with my husband and have been since our first year together. I also have a D/s relationship with my spouse's secondary partner. This is an FYI. I currently am not looking for a play partner. That wouldn't be up to me. :) Mostly, I just want to make sure anyone who might be interested in me would be comfortable with the fact that this is how my other relationships are set up. If you don't know much about this stuff I welcome questions!
Some other general info about me: I'm fat. I'm very introverted so it takes me a while to warm up to people but I'm told that I can be worth the wait. I love sweet, creamy coffee and good earl gray tea. I have an occasionally morbid sense of humor. I'm very sex-positive. I value good manners highly.