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Yerdreamweaver

22 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Harrisville, Rhode Island

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am Analytical, Open, and Honest.

My Self-Summary

Well, I am an extremely open, honest, loyal, trustworthy, traditional type guy with a strong flare of sarcasm and spontaneous inclinations to do something off the hook. I am also very curious. I am -extremely- analytical and logical in my thinking, but I don't always share it. My mind is always racing with all sorts of probabilities and facets to look at any given situation; I tend to go off on tangents and over-explain things, and it can be a major turn off to some, but then also create a very deep conversation, then laugh about how far off topic we are.

As the saying goes "I like candlelight dinners and long walks on the beach." That's my innate style. I am a hopeless romantic, as in I love the idea of highly romantic settings, and try to make them a reality as best I can. Rose petals leading to a bathtub, a soft fur in front of a warm fireplace with fresh strawberries and dipping chocolate, hiding notes in an eyeglass case with brief love poetry, yep... But let us not forget, wild passion is fun too, just need to have an established connection before that. No one night stands for this man.

If I were to find someone I like, I would do what I have done in the past which is I carry a note card with me that I nonchalantly take down brief notes that I happen to observe about them, and use them for future reference. As far as that goes, I take that information in deciding what the perfect gift for them would be, or surprise them by bringing it up in a conversation down the road, or include in my poetry to them. It isn't because I have a bad memory, I do this because I don't want to miss something that might make them happy down the road. I like surprising my partners. Whether it be through gifts, a random interest in their affairs, or in the bedroom, I like to please.

I am looking for love. I have a life; I am holding a steady job that I have been at for 2 years, I have my own car, I am attending a college that I am going for a double Associates degree, and I have my own activities and interests. I have a life, but I have plenty of room for someone else in it, and I do want someone else in it.

I can be defined as a giver. I like to give things, but feel awkward receiving them unless I earned it. I crave to cuddle and be cuddled; I love affection both receiving and giving. Ok, that is enough, I'll give more if you express interest =)

What I’m doing with my life

At the moment, I am attending a community college where I am working towards getting my Associates in Computer Sciences and Networking. I intend on taking up an internship with a company similar to EMC and then attend New England Technical Institute. I'd like to get my Bachelors in Computer Networking. After that Ill work my way up the ladder, take some Business courses and hopefully achieve a management position.

I'd like to get married at some point. I have mixed feelings about kids. In my younger years I would tell people "I will give you $10,000" if I have a kid. However, none of these people have it in hardcopy so I am ok if I do in fact have kids, but if you are so inclined you could ask me more about it.

I’m really good at

Having deep conversations.
Being explicitly open on any topic under the sun.
Being honest to the T.
Cuddling.
Writing poetry here and there.

The first things people usually notice about me

I walk ridiculously fast. I am in very good shape. I work out regularly and I walk at a brisk pace to not only keep up stamina, but in the morning it wakes you up, and during the day it can energize you. You might think that it might make you tired, and this is true, but do it long enough and you just do it naturally.

Other than that...they usually notice I am male, wear clothing, and stand on two feet, but sometimes even on one!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I will read just about any book. I do not have any favorites.

The Shawshank Redemption, The Matrix, The Silence of the Lambs, The Time Machine, Cloverfield, Donnie Darko, Constantine, Stranger Than Fiction, Star Wars, Pay it Forward, American History X, Waterworld, Good Will Hunting, Cube, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Pulp Fiction, The Professional, A Beautiful Mind, Requiem for a Dream, V for Vendetta, Rain Man, The Green Mile, The Departed, The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter,

I enjoy most music. I'll listen to opera, but then also things by In Flames or Rammstein. I try to avoid most rap, country is ok in moderation, and really heavy metal where there is more screaming than beat does not tickle my fancy.
But lets see: Linkin Park, SR-71, In Flames, Rammstein, Daft Punk, MSI, Pimp Code, Paul Oakenfold, Darude, Zombie Nation, DJ Madson, Disturbed, DJ Tiesto, Asura, Airwave, Depeche Mode, Celldweller, Unheilig, Infected Mushroom, Enya, Airbase, Alex Morph, Grendel, The Prodigy.

Food is yummy. I'll eat a rubber tire with ketchup on it. I am sort of a health nut however. I prefer a bowl of Total and yogurt in the morning or an energy drink to a pile of pancakes, sausage and eggs. However I will go for it occasionally.
I prefer Chinese Food over most types though; when it comes to my favorite cuisine. Thai and Schezuan style foods as well.

The six things I could never do without

1. Computer
2. Music
3. Cats
4. Deep Conversation
5. An Open Mind
6. Cuddles

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future. Space. Gravitational Anomalies that may be used for space travel through the event horizons on black holes. (ya, im not kidding). I think about Astronomy a lot. I also think about spirituality, calculating probability, or anything that happens to spark my interest for the day. All the while hyper analyzing everything that is going on around me. Also the usual: Sex, love, girls, computer games, magical powers all the fun typical things.

I think too much for my own good, analyzing everything and then analyzing my analysis. I also have an adept understanding of the human mind and psyche and can usually predict what people will do and sometimes even finish their own sentences.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either working, doing homework, talking online to my friends, surfing the net, working out, watching movies (theater or DVD), listening to music, playing a game, talking with my family. However, I am always open to new things and not afraid to suggest them; Want to go do Laser Tag? Hell ya! From walks on the beach looking for shells, to skydiving(was awesome!), lets go! When I am with someone, I wanna do stuff, when by myself, ehh, not so much.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Although I do not participate in casual sex, I am extremely sexually open and am willing to try just about anything. My experience is limited, but I am by no means an amateur. I very much enjoy conversations about sex, no not cybering or whatnot (but thats cool too), but actually talking about it.

You should message me if

You're curious, have a question, are interested, or otherwise engaged to contact me in any way. You can ask the most candid of questions, and I will answer them. I hold no inhibitions. Peace.