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YesAndMe

35 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm looking for someone who will entertain me as much as I entertain them. This really is the number-one criterion.

Specifically, I'm entertained by guys who are funny, smart, observant, and playful (and I'd like to think that I have these qualities, as well).
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to get better at balancing career, family, friends, and finding my statistically-significant other.

Personally: going out of my way to meet new people and have new experiences; even better if I can do both at the same time. Currently, my main creative pursuit is writing/recording an album. (Former creative pursuits included improv/sketch-comedy... which is not to say that I'm not still interested, but I've put a lower priority on them because they used to DOMINATE my free time.)

Professionally: Having achieved my goal of becoming a project manager at the end of 2013, I expect to spend most of 2014 trying to be less terrified of being a project manager. Things are going pretty well and I'm enjoying it, but it's also a new baseline of stress.
I’m really good at
- Making (most) people laugh
- Organizing things
- Getting out of my comfort zone
- Following-through
- Rocking out
- Eating out
The first things people usually notice about me
1. I'm "funny". Whether it's "funny ha-ha" or "funny peculiar" is up to your taste in humour... if you like a dry, near-deadpan humour, then you will think I'm "funny ha-ha"; if you like your humour campy and obvious (or would prefer someone who's completely humourless), then it will be the latter.

2. I talk a lot. It's true: I like talking, and I like hanging out with people who also enjoy talking, especially about interesting things (rather than small-talk). I generally do catch myself if I've been prattling on for a while.

3. [Wishful thinking] That I work out. I mean, the whole reason I work out is to look like I work out, so, here's hoping. (The health benefits are nice, too, but honestly.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:
In 2013, I was on a mission to get back into knowing what's what with music, these days; as a result, here're a few favourites from 2013:
- Modern Vampires of the City by Vampire Weekend (very melodic with a good range of musical styles)
- MCII by Mikal Cronin (catchy, garage-y rock)
- Sunbather by Deafheaven (it turns out I like black metal. Who knew?)
- Meir by Kvelertak (musically, ranges from classic metal to hard rock to alternative rock)
- Fever Hunter by Modern Life is War (similar to Deafheaven, it turns out that I like hardcore, also.)
- Major Arcana by Speedy Ortiz (throwback to 90's alternative. Very angular with alternating harmony and dissonance.)

(And here are some of my all-time favourite bands:
Sloan, Fucked Up, Ben Folds Five, Sufjan Stevens, Weezer (Pinkerton #1, Blue Album #2, then... that's it), Andrew WK, The Decemberists, and The New Pornographers.)

Books:
- The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger (my all-time favourite book, I believe)
- The Corrections by Jonathan Franzen
- The Illustrated Man by Ray Bradbury

Movies + Shows:
Okay, full disclosure: I do not go out of my way to watch TV or movies. If invited, I'll usually go, but there are exceptions.

But what about Musicals?
- Avenue Q is amazing.
- Hedwig and the Angry Inch, which I saw on stage and then as an excellent movie.
- [title of show] is one of the most inspirational/funny things I've ever seen.

Food:
I don't cook. But I like to eat. Out. A lot. Almost anything is fair game.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order,
1. Friends and family
2. Creative outlets
3. My glasses (really, I'm extremely myopic)
4. New experiences
5. My iPhone (in addition to communication and life-savers like Maps, I do a lot of creative/productive stuff on my phone)
6. Squat racks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether I'm doing the right thing right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Here are some things I'd do (or would like to do) on a Friday:
- Go see a concert
- Go see a play or musical
- Have dinner/drinks at a gastro-pub
- Ride my bike to west-Queen west to do something weird
- See what's going on in a public space like Harbourfront, Dundas Square, or the Distillery District
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell you in person! (Or, "IRL", if that's how you roll.)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
1. You like this profile, you like the looks of me, and you are any of stocky/hefty/chubby/burly (with facial hair as a bonus): wanna go on a date?

2. You like this profile and do not fit that physical description; I am still completely interested in meeting like-minded people for a non-date.

To all respondents: I just ask in advance that you follow through on whatever gets planned/decided. People have canceled on me quite a bit in recent months; I know that sometimes it's legit, so, if you do need to cancel, it will make me so happy if you do it like this: "Hey, really sorry, something came up! But how about [suggestions for alternate days to get together]."