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30 F Redding, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:56am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary

I never know what to write here that doesn't sound like every other profile on this site. Anyway. I am sweet, I am lovable, and sometimes I am way too gullible. I am warm and cuddly. I have a BA and I travel to China periodically for work. I would love to learn to fly a plane, I love to sing, and I love to try new things. My favorite place in the world is the ocean. I love to read.

When I say I speak a language poorly it usually means that I understand most of it, but have no idea how to answer back because I haven't used it in so long. And Chinese isn't the most accurate language choice anyway, it's Mandarin. I do like languages though. They're fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, mostly working and having an absolute blast with my students. I've been told I'm the fun teacher.
I’m really good at
singing and writing.
The first things people usually notice about me
As my stepmom said when I asked, "It depends on whether you're coming or going." Um, I going to go ahead and take that as a compliment.

My eyes change color though, so that's cool, right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A Song of Ice and Fire (books, I haven't seen Game of Thrones yet)

Food - I love Mexican, Italian, American, and sometimes Chinese. In China though, I've sampled some authentic Chinese food and... well... it was a little scary sometimes. Honestly though, I like food. I like to try new food. And then I have to work out because food is just so awesome and I don't want to end up huge.

Movies - I like Action, Comedy, and scary stuff that isn't horribly gory. I like a good scare, not a gag-me blood bath.

Shows - so many... I like The Amazing Race, Dexter, Grimm, The Good Wife, The West Wing, Modern Family, the new Battlestar Galactica, and Star Trek. (TOS, TNG, and Voyager. I haven't seen DS9 yet.) Recently I started watching Once Upon A Time, which I don't even like, but for reasons I do not understand, I just can't stop watching. I like The Walking Dead but I'll be honest... when the blood/guts/brains start flying I don't look.
The six things I could never do without
Animals! Ok seriously, I am NOT the eharmony cat lady. I do not want all the cats in a basket on a rainbow. I'm actually allergic to cats. I do like cats, and I can't remember a time in my life (other than college dorms) when I didn't have a cat, dog, or both... but the "I love cats; I love every kind of cat; I just want to hug all of them but I can't pick up every cat..." too far, lady. Too far. And my god, the sneezing that would ensue! (Full disclosure - I like the song. It's hilarious.)

Ice. It may seem like a small thing until you're stuck on an extended stay in a country where you can not get ice and it's really hot out. I like really cold drinks and that was a major adjustment.

Things I couldn't do without... I don't know, internet? I like knowing what is going on in the world. I also have an unhealthy attachment to reddit.

I like roller coasters and amusement parks. I was told not to include "Disneyland" on my list of things I like, but I'm going to be honest. California Screamin' is a pretty awesome coaster and I DO like Disneyland. I don't always like how much money I end up spending ($20 for a weak mai tai? Seriously?) but it's a fun place. I will admit that I definitely have a childlike side.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Dreams. Not the ones I have at night, the ones I have for the future. Grad school, paying off student loans (the two go hand-in-hand), getting better at what I do for work, when Laurie R. King is going to release another Mary Russell book... lots of things. I can get a little scatterbrained on occasion. Squirrel!
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading, doing lesson prep, walking before the sun goes down, swimming at Whiskeytown if it's warm enough, or driving as fast as I safely can out to Trinidad/Arcata/Eureka/McKinelyville because I love it out there. I think Clam Beach is my "Being here fixes anything" happy place. That or wandering through the Galleria in Roseville window shopping - meaning looking at pretty things and not buying them because I am capable of being responsible even when something sparkly is calling my name. Looking is still fun!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 22–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You're not looking for a one night stand and you don't have white pride tattoos. Seriously. Do not like.