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49 Salt Lake City, UT Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Jun 30
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When people first meet me they always TELL me that i'm shy. The truth is i’m not at all shy (if i’m quiet maybe you’re just boring beyond belief ;)–if i have nothing to say i say nothing and if i have something to say i have a really hard time not saying it! I’m a rather liberal democrat living in a rather conservative republican state, its great fun! I’m an agnostic who loves to learn about all religions and spiritual practices. I live with chronic intractable migraines (moderate to severe pain four to seven days per week) but i believe that every day offers something new to learn and that even though the glass is half empty–hell you’ve still got half a glass. You have to love life because negativity gets SO VERY STALE (though sarcasm can be fun). SO, i am a NOT shy librarian who seems to find it hard to talk about herself when forced to do so, but never seems to find herself a difficult subject (at least to expound upon) when not asked about myself....

I think Joss Whedon is a genius! ...other than that (the obvious) my interests are many and varied-one of the main reasons i became a librarian is because i wanted to continue my quest for learning my thirst for the continual acquisition of knowledge and i did not want to limit myself to any one area--i dread specialization--so here i am--i want to learn everything about everything. (and in college i was an acting major i wanted to be everyone but myself--experience everything there was to experience)

I am liberal, creative, and spontaneous
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pursuing happiness (and a little peace, love, and understanding.) I love my job. I try to love my life and live with no regrets (everything is a learning experience though...)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems (but i'm not that great at brainstorming--if you want to know how to get to point A to point B {or C or D...) i can come up with all sorts of ideas, and figure out the best one. But if you asked me where to go from point A i couldn't help a whole lot--i need some kind of destination)
I also am great in emergencies...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told it's my eyes (or my somewhat sarcastic sense of humour.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer (with all my music).
My cats.
Family and Friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. Saving the world (and why everyone doesn't just share my point of view--i mean they all have a right to my opinion, right?)
and, in case you didn't notice sarcasm rules.

and a little sex, drugs and rock and roll...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there is no typical Friday night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
how is it private then?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can deal with sarcasm, and an absolute agnostic (with a bit of some eastern beliefs thrown in.)
If you want to talk to someone who is independent and likes their own time.