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42 Sacramento, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:00am
Asian, Black
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Entertainment / Media
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I have a hard time describing myself in writing, so I rewrite these often. Please bear with me. I'm learning how to survive as a freelancer after working for the man all these years. I'm always learning about how our world and society works, but the more I learn, the more questions I have. I'm developing as a parent, photographer, business owner, musician, and human. And I'm enjoying the incredible experience that it is life.

I'm a very easygoing person, and I like to keep things positive and fun whenever possible, and I don't do regret. I'm very passionate about my art, and love connecting other artists and art lovers. I believe in thinking for myself, I dont care what others think about me, and I rarely follow a crowd. I'm really into me and my kids right now, but I do make time to for fun and to meet new people. I'm very independent and am not looking for a committed relationship right now.

Oh, and since most people assume that black people are religious, I should state that I'm an atheist. I am all for people believing in what/whom they want, but if you are going to try to convince me the earth is 6000 yrs old, it's probably not going work out. Actually, it wont work out. At all.
What I’m doing with my life
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Stopping to smell the flowers at every opportunity. Taking in the often overlooked details, and taking pictures of them. Getting my band on stage and performing shows regularly. Getting sassed by a teenaged daughter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Artsy stuff, music, creating. Listening without judging. Detecting liars and bullshit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I usually don't read this part of profiles because I'd rather hear about it in person, but my taste in music covers the spectrum. I will say that I despise most new pop/hop-hop shit that's force fed to the masses. Rap was my first love, and the last CD I bought (yes, I buy CDs...) was System of a Down-Toxicity. I wish Serj Tankian was my friend... what I like in music depends on whether I'm listening as a music fan, or as a musician, because the two are very different for me. I'm really more into local bands than anything else right now.

I almost always listen to NPR in the car and sometimes at home. It's a thing with me.

As far as books go, I read non-fiction books on subjects I'm passionate about, but thats about it.

I watch Netflix occaisionally, but I havent watched much tv in the last year.

Im pescatarian (I eat fish and eggs but no meat), but its a personal preference. I don't care what other people eat. But I can have problems with people who equate eating meat with masculinity. Because... well mainly because it's fuckin ridiculous to think that eating a dead animal, that someone else killed and you bought, somehow makes you tougher. But thats just my opinion ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the people on NPR look like. How and why people do horrible shit to other humans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My weekends are usually booked up with either music or photography gigs, but on Friday night I'm normally at a show shooting a band.
You should message me if
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Youre not superficial, materialistic, or judgmental
You love to laugh and enjoy life
You're independent or you have stuff to do
You're artsy or creative