Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a hard time describing myself in writing, so I rewrite these
often. Please bear with me. I'm learning how to survive as a
freelancer after working for the man all these years. I'm always
learning about how our world and society works, but the more I
learn, the more questions I have. I'm developing as a parent,
photographer, business owner, musician, and human. And I'm enjoying
the incredible experience that it is life.
I'm a very easygoing person, and I like to keep things positive and
fun whenever possible, and I don't do regret. I'm very passionate
about my art, and love connecting other artists and art lovers. I
believe in thinking for myself, I dont care what others think about
me, and I rarely follow a crowd. I'm really into me and my kids
right now, but I do make time to for fun and to meet new people.
I'm very independent and am not looking for a committed
relationship right now.
Oh, and since most people assume that black people are religious, I
should state that I'm an atheist. I am all for people believing in
what/whom they want, but if you are going to try to convince me the
earth is 6000 yrs old, it's probably not going work out. Actually,
it wont work out. At all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Stopping to smell the flowers at every opportunity. Taking in the
often overlooked details, and taking pictures of them. Getting my
band on stage and performing shows regularly. Getting sassed by a
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Artsy stuff, music, creating. Listening without judging. Detecting
liars and bullshit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I usually don't read this part of profiles because I'd rather hear
about it in person, but my taste in music covers the spectrum. I
will say that I despise most new pop/hop-hop shit that's force fed
to the masses. Rap was my first love, and the last CD I bought
(yes, I buy CDs...) was System of a Down-Toxicity. I wish Serj
Tankian was my friend... what I like in music depends on whether
I'm listening as a music fan, or as a musician, because the two are
very different for me. I'm really more into local bands than
anything else right now.
I almost always listen to NPR in the car and sometimes at home.
It's a thing with me.
As far as books go, I read non-fiction books on subjects I'm
passionate about, but thats about it.
I watch Netflix occaisionally, but I havent watched much tv in the
Im pescatarian (I eat fish and eggs but no meat), but its a
personal preference. I don't care what other people eat. But I can
have problems with people who equate eating meat with masculinity.
Because... well mainly because it's fuckin ridiculous to think that
eating a dead animal, that someone else killed and you bought,
somehow makes you tougher. But thats just my opinion ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the people on NPR look like. How and why people do horrible
shit to other humans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My weekends are usually booked up with either music or photography
gigs, but on Friday night I'm normally at a show shooting a band.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Youre not superficial, materialistic, or judgmental
You love to laugh and enjoy life
You're independent or you have stuff to do
You're artsy or creative
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