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30 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"I'm just a soul whose intentions are good. Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood!" - The Animals

Should is a powerful word. It got me out of my bedroom and back through school. It got me to try yoga and start getting back in shape. It got me to broaden my horizons, make new friends, and see how other people are living their lives. It got me a job. It got me a car. It made my mother happy. Here I am world! A fully functioning, well-rounded, independent adult... but the shoulds keep coming!

I should spend time abroad so that I can be a cultured citizen of the world. I should save my money so that some day I can buy a house. I should get in better shape so that I can better pursue my outdoor activities. I should eat healthier and take better care of myself after I exercise. I should learn another language. I should watch all the TV shows, listen to all the bands, and read all the books that people have recommended. I should get in touch with old friends. I should make new ones. I should do nice things for all of them on their birthdays. I should change the oil in my car. I should brush my teeth and floss twice a day. I should meditate every evening. I should work on coding projects outside of my job to stay relevant in my industry. I should maintain a network of business contacts. I should keep spreadsheets of all my finances. I should spend more time volunteering. I should take on leadership roles in my outdoor activities. I should get 8 hours of sleep every night.

I'm doing a damn good job with most of this stuff, but it's beginning to dawn on me that it's impossible to do it all. At the end of the day what I really want is just to be happy. I'll let you know once I've figured everything else out. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intending to listen to all the podcasts I'm subscribed to instead of staring out the bus window introspectively every day.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not on fire.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read books one chapter at a time, usually over the course of several months. When I do visit bookstores I become overwhelmed by all of the cover-art and bold titles competing with each other to capture my attention. In retaliation I try to find something sublime and understated. This usually ends with me picking a piece of classic literature or leaving to go do something else. I'm pretty sure this is also a metaphor for my dating life.

I enjoy movies for what they are and don't care much about who starred in what. I enjoy sharing the experience with other people, which means I rarely sit around by myself watching things.

If shows means concerts then meh. I prefer signing up for big running events as a way of getting my exuberant crowd fix in.

My musical tastes are all over the board (everyone says this). Most of my collection is adrenaline fueled techno stuff which makes for great exercise music and terrible sharing. I enjoy most of the bands which I hear in friends' cars or on the radio, but rarely bother to remember the who and what of it. Occasionally I just like the sound of unique things, which has also led to a small collection of world music.

Regarding food:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
•Snooze button
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to answer this question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to bed early, because the fun starts on Saturday morning!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cried during the silent scene in Up.
You should message me if
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Your long-term goal is to be in a nurturing and balanced relationship. I can play the coffee date game as well as the next guy, but I won't be in my element until we're both ready for more. I want to go do things with you! I light up when I see couples jogging along the trail in unison smiling and talking to each other about their days. I want to help you make changes in your life that leave you a better person and I want you to do the same for me. If that's not going to happen then let's move on because life is short. Dig it?