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YouNeedMe2013

41 / F / Straight / Single

Bellaire, Texas

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 9:35am
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm an independent, confident and self-sufficient mom of 3 incredible sons. I've been divorced since 2008 and I'm content with life although it's much more fun to be in love. I'm strong and can't easily be broken. I have a great sense of humor and like to laugh (a lot). When in a relationship, I'm 100% committed! I believe in honesty and loyalty.

I’ll start with the fact that I have two jobs. My most important job is that of a MOMMY to three amazing boys (ages 17, 13 and 9). They are good boys who open every door for me. They have a father who is very involved in their lives but would love a new friend to join in our adventures. They are all three very athletic and you will often find me on the sidelines as their biggest fan. Because of them, I can even throw a pretty good spiral and bait my own hook (although I find that gross and may scream at the guts that pop out of the worm and I may drop the fish when it squirms)! I make them say “excuse me” when they burp or fart and I don’t partake in their competitive flatulence competitions. They do, however, provide me with a lot of love, LAUGHTER and FUN and I wouldn’t have it any other way. They are my world and I’d hope that you would find them just as much fun as I do!

The job that pays the bills….I’m a Project Controller in the oil and gas world. I’ve worked as an Accountant in various industries from professional sports (over paid brats), to a large group of surgeons (over worked quacks) to the oil and gas engineering world (video game loving nerds). It may sound boring to you but it’s what I’m good at. I use those descriptions with the upmost love for my fellow co-workers as I am accepting of ALL types! If you want to talk taxes, chemistry, politics or Guitar Hero, I can HANG!

What I’m looking for…I’m looking for a soul mate, a best friend, a confidant, a romantic and funny gentleman who has integrity. If he has children, I’d hope that he’s a dedicated father and supportive of his kids and his ex. I say this because even though I don’t like my ex much, we get along well enough to co-parent our children together (as it should be). I want someone to travel the world with as there is much I have not explored. I want someone that can dress up for a nice dinner, play or concert but can also get dirty and sweaty hiking or climbing the highest peak! I’ve jumped out of planes and climbed Yosemite and will do just about anything. I want someone with similar interest who can also expose me to new things. I’m pretty competitive so if you don’t mind getting legitimately beat on the golf course, then you might dig me! I have a great sense of humor and will likely make you laugh, but I want someone who can also make me laugh till my stomach hurts! I want someone who’s not embarrassed to get out on the dance floor or wear a Halloween costume! Most importantly I want someone who I can’t keep my hands off of and who equally cannot keep his hands off me. Selfish doesn’t work for me….been there and done that and I’m single today because of it. Most important to me regarding my partner, please make sure the ink is dry on your divorce. I’m not really keen on dating someone who is still married or has unfinished business to settle.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching 3 boys to be good men! Live every day knowing that the only person I should try to be better than is the person I was yesterday!
I’m really good at
Golf...and I might even beat you!
The first things people usually notice about me
Is my dark eyes, my long black hair and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all music, really! In my iTunes library, you'll find everything from Metallica to Michael Buble, Luke Bryan to Michael Jackson, and Pink to MercyMe! Food...I love Mexican, Italian, a good steak...but I'm allergic to shell fish!
The six things I could never do without
My boys, my family, my faith, my friends, my health, and laughter!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What God has planned for me and the knowledge that He has perfect timing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Either having Friday Night Game Night with the boys, or maybe sitting in a dive bar listening to live music and drinking a cold beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that I have to really like you before I'll touch your feet!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you want to know more!