You know what? Before going any further, I like to give ladies here a favor to save their reading time. So I have to say this to disappoint you upfront. I am not a lawyer or doctor or CPA. I don't have big bank accounts on and offshore neither. And I swear I am not a terrorist. I am not a rapist, murderer, drug dealer/junkie, alcohol addict, pimp, cult worshipper, stalker, lady's man, creep, polygamist, online pervert and pedophile. Never been arrested or inside of a police car or convicted before. I don't use a woman for my advance either. I know that some girls like bad boys but those things are not in my nature. I am spiritual but not religious. Even though the church is not my thing, but if the woman I fell in love asked me to go church with her, I would never disappoint her.
So you have it. At this point, probably the 99% of ladies who were here earlier were gone now. OK, let's continue here.
I love learning new things which has kept me busy all the time. I have found myself alone most of the time surrounded by people with different ethnicities. That is norm of my life. I enjoy living in Los Angeles. I have never felt homesick. I am an artist who is looking for the natural beauty in a woman as a muse.
I'm not looking for a beauty pageant winner look-a like. Of course not! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And also I believe that our face expression is the reflection of what we are from within. I am not an advocate for too much makeup. As you know, getting older mercilessly exposes a little by little whether you have true(or ageless) beauty or not, because it comes from within. I see it in Audrey Hepburn for an example. She remained beautiful throughout her life. Therefore I love an intelligent and confident woman. No wonder, the girl wearing a pair of the black rim eye glasses turns me on. LOL She is still my favorite actress but at my young age, I fell in love with Sally Field in "The Flying Nun." and used to dream about her. I believe that it had a lot to do with her personality portrayed in the TV series. My favorites in the international beauty contests before had never become a winner anyway. The judge panels and I had a lot of things to discuss. LOL
I consider myself belonging to the family of Giant Pandas who have lived in central China.
I am the one who:
#1.is absolutely harmless. Not a violent guy in nature.
#2.is single all my life and hardly ever has a girlfriend.
#3.deserves to be listed as one of the endangered species and needs a group of devotees to help find the right mate and reproduce.
#4.is witty, playful, but extremely shy first.
#6.doesn't hang out at bar.
#7.doesn't like a big crowd much.
#8.is socially awkward(quiet as a clam especially in front of an attractive opposite sex), but highly intelligent. I am able to appreciate the beauty of a person inside out. I have an IQ as high as that of dolphins but unfortunately I am not good at swimming at all. So we cannot be together. I strongly felt that after watching a French movie "Le Grand Bleu (The Big Blue, 1988)."
Yes I have a lot of goofy sides like the cuddly bear. But I have a serious side as well. You can find them with no time. Don't judge a book by its cover. I look like a wimp but not at all.
Nice guys finish last. Women just don't want a nice guy. They want the bad boy. The latest Daily News is telling me that even Charles Manson, a notorious killer, in prison now has a 25-year-old girlfriend. Hello America! In this crazy unfair world, am l lucky enough to find anyone who is a human female and loves me at the same time? In reality, It is hard to come true for sure. The relationship based on the tender love and companionship sounds great. No drama. Not invasive, not abusivie but lasting one. Marriage? Up to my prospective life partner, I'm ready to go the whole nine yards. I had chosen to be single in the past for so long. Is it too late now? The time will tell.
I am not a fancy pant at all. I had worked for a couple years for Pasadena branch of Easter Seals organization to take care of a wheelchair-bound young guy with cerebral palsy. We bonded very well and it was harder than anticipated to leave him for another job later.
A friendly mature woman is needed. Age is just a number. Old or young? It doesn't matter much. As a one-woman man, I am saving the best for last. That is what I like to think. Is this world so small for an independent free thinker? Maybe I am wrong but even in USA, where many progressive women are supposed to live. But it comes to love leading to a marriage, people are tendency to take very conservative views. The only one who is able to understand me is needed. Is it too much to ask? Maybe the 'understand me' is underrated. Or maybe I need a shrink instead, lol.
Anyway, I am better educated than an average guy, with my bachelor degree in economics, avid reader, A+, MCSE, computer literate, (art)museum lover(Le Louvre, The British Museum, The Metropolitan Museum of Art, Museum of Modern Art, American Museum of Natural History, Rijksmuseum, Van Gogh Museum, which were all visited and my favorite. I love seeing something making me say "Wow." They have an abundance of wow's.), graphic designer/web designer, California state certified cosmetologist, great pool player, former Ping-Pong champion at Junior high, former chairman of an annual student festival of my college in Japan. Those are only part of my story.