Would you like to be my friend? No commitment required! The only requirement is you are genuinely authentic and sincere. I'm just fed up with fakers and scammers I could spot miles away like hawks. You know what I mean? hahaha. I said no commitment but at least what I'm expecting from you is the courtesy of privacy. What happens here stays here. What do I expect from this friendship, hook ups? No, I'm looking for my life partner and very serious about it. I consider this is the first step toward my goal. But don't worry. You are still safe with me even if it doesn't go well. I'm not obsessive. I'm decent and if you're looking for the same thing, you won't regret this.
First of all I wanna tell you how depressed I am. Daily news was telling me that a famous mass murderer Charles Manson(80) who'd been locked up for a long time had actually a 26-year-old girlfriend outside of prison who was waiting eagerly to get married to him. And in a movie 'Warm Bodies,' I happened to watch last night, which was a zombie version of 'Twilight,' even a young zombie (walking corpse for Christ's sake!) had a warmhearted smart hot teenage girlfriend who was, very much alive and healthy. Are you kidding me? That is absolutely insulting the girl-friendless guys like me a big time. I know nobody told me that life is fair, but it is a little bit too much to bear. Don't you think so? The question is raised; Why can I have a girlfriend? I'm not gay. LOL
'Destiny, soulmates, true love. All that stuff. Silly childhood fairy tale nonsense!' (500Days of Summer) Are destiny, soulmates, true love real? I still believe so. Maybe I am more old fashioned than I think I am. Tom(Joseph) said this with disgust in that movie because (Spoiler Alert!) Summer(Zooey) became someone's wife after several dates although Tom fell in love first and dated her for 500 days. But I think that only proves she loves someone else over Tom and that doesn't prove anything else. Love is blind for crying out loud. Near 50% of married couples ends up getting divorced these days. So you cannot measure true love by a marriage itself which is just a legal contract. I think destiny, soulmates, true love are very subtle to notice but still there. We just don't recognize yet or don't know where to look for it. I wish I had a crystal ball.
Do you enjoy visiting museums or viewing art in galleries in LA?
I'm a goal oriented and proud man who loves arts and crafts looking for one soul mate/good female friend who can talk about anything and share a fun and meaningful life. It doesn't take skydiving to make life interesting. Watching the sunset or walking bare foot to the sandy beach give me as much the chills as the extreme activities do. I'm sometimes contradictory but I try not to. I'm not one dimensional. If you're creative, you will totally understand me.
You know by now that I'm a movie junkie. I'm not perfect and make some mistakes. But my intentions are good. I have a little bit of rebellious streak in me. Self deprecating sarcasm is my trait. I might not be someone's first or even second choice. But I am smart, funny, and faithful with a kind heart. You have to believe me I am a great pick whom you can take home to show your mom. lol That is all you need to know about me. Everything else is just extra.
“I don’t take my life seriously, but I do take what I do – in my life – seriously -” ― Audrey Hepburn.
I like to think before starting any relationship. I don't want to get unnecessary emotional stress including a heart break as well as to break caring women’s hearts.
I avoided a romance all those years but I strongly feel now more than ever I need a girl as life partner whom I have never had. No wife and no kid before. No time for game. Seriously monogamous-minded single lady only. I am with a bachelor degree in economics, a political blogger, an entrepreneur with a heck of long spiritual journey, and once a student athlete.
I am an artsy guy and dreamer looking for a smart, optimistic, sexy, adventurous, easy-going lady who is happy with being herself. I don't expect her to be a cook. I will be Mr. Mom if needed. I am fun loving, creative, open minded, intellectual, cosmopolitan - Oh no, not women's magazine - and romantic. I need a Muse who is able to understand and embrace me in her arms. I love to talk about current news, travel, natural beauty, geopolitics, culture, science, sports, art, technology, business, fashion, sex and TV/movie. Without you, l feel like I'm dying inside.
I am an art museum/gallery lover who had visited Le Louvre(Paris), The British Museum(London), The Metropolitan Museum of Art(NY), Museum of Modern Art(NY), American Museum of Natural History(NY), Rijksmuseum(Amsterdam), Van Gogh Museum(Amsterdam), all of which are my favorites. I had visited small ones as well like Norton Simon Museum (Pasadena) which was surprisingly great. I love seeing something making me say "Wow."
Life is a series of choices. Getting to know me might be able to make some positive impact on your life. All I need is one girl who has right mind with a sense of humor, a nice smile and some aspiration and who looks good in skirts. The girl who is my best buddy and dance partner and who is willing to build future together. The girl who doesn't take anything for granted and once in a while tries to make this world a better place. Oh, please knock on my door.
You know what? Before going any further, I like to give ladies here a favor to save their reading time. So I have to say this to disappoint you upfront. I am not a lawyer or doctor or CPA. I don't have big bank accounts on and off shore neither. And I swear I am not a terrorist. Not a Psychopath. Not with Bipolar or Paranoid Schizophrenia. No voices have been heard inside of my head ever before since my birth and now between. No tattoo & piercing in my body. I am not a woman hater, rapist, murderer/serial killer, drug dealer/junkie, alcohol addict, pimp, cult worshiper, stalker, lady's man, creep, polygamist, online pervert and pedophile. None of them. Never been arrested or in the back of a police car or convicted before. I have never sweet talked a woman just for sex or my social advance before. Having grown up on farm with nature as my playground, I am not capable of doing such a stunt like that. Maybe I'm just naive or stupid or just simply taking a hopelessly romantic thing to a new level. lol I am well aware that some girls love bad boys so bad but those things are not in my nature. I am spiritual but not religious. Even though the church is not my thing, but if the woman I fell in love asked me to go church with her, I would never disappoint her.
So you have it. Oops! The 99% of ladies who were here earlier were scared away. They're gone now. Oh, no! But luckily it is not a popularity contest. I need only one girl in the whole world. Not two nor three. So I still believe I have a chance. Ok, let's continue here.
'Life is like a box of chocolate.' If you love 'Forrest Gump(1994)', you will love me a lot. Something simple, honest, but profoundly rich in so many ways. ‘Think outside the box’ in order to avoid 'doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.' The same principle should be applied to our love relationship. You had better see me on an unconventional angle, otherwise you cannot see me at all.
I love learning new things which has kept me busy all the time. I have found myself alone most of the time surrounded by people with different ethnicity. That is norm of my life. I enjoy living in Los Angeles. I have never felt homesick. I am an artist who is in hopelessly need of a life partner as a muse.
I am not a fancy pant at all. I had worked for a couple years for Pasadena branch of Easter Seals organization to take care of a wheelchair-bound young guy with cerebral palsy for schooling. We bonded very well and it was harder than anticipated to leave him for another job later.