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32 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Apr 19, 2011
Hispanic / Latin, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Y'know it's strange to talk about this publicly without it sounding weird or obscene. But when you mention the word "swinger" most people are okay with that, because generally in that world men are in control. But say femdom or "cuckolding" and it's greeted with hostility or astonishment. Maybe because in femdom or cuckolding, women have all the power?

Here's the truth ... I was introduced to aspects of femdom by my last boyfriend with whom I've formerly parted ways, after cuckolding him for 2 years.

Here's what I'm seeking .... a guy who "understands" what the lifestyle is about without too much explanation.

He should be literate and know about the femdom-related books and novels on the subject:

1) "Venus In Furs" by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

2) "Permanent Obscurity: Or a Cautionary Tale of Two Girls & Their Misadventures with Drugs, Pornography and Death" by Richard Perez

(To be honest, I'm most interested in the possibility of having a submissive along the lines of the character of "Baby" in Permanent Obscurity. That level of loyalty and devotion seems almost romantic beyond belief. And, unlike the dominatrix character of Serena in that book, I would be most appreciative!)

3) "The Femdom Experience" by Elise Sutton (not to mention her other books!)

Take note of these. And remember the femdom/cuckolding dynamic is a lifestyle agreed upon by two well-informed people. So just understand what you're getting into....

I know femdom and cuckolding is a strong fantasy for many, and I’m here to say to each and every one of you that if you persist … gently continue to encourage her that way (through talk and fantasy) … your dreams will come true: Your Lady will find a regular lover while you’ll accept your new status and role … and get to share in every small detail. You’ll become like a girlfriend to her while she blooms into the woman she was always meant to be! Satisfied to the fullest extent on a regular basis!

One last word of caution to all you future cuckolds, wimps, toe-suckers, houseboy/maids .... Be careful what you wish for.

What I’m doing with my life
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I do videos, some freelance modeling work, and interior design work. (I also paint.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Commanding attention. I'm a natural born domina, I guess.... That comes from reading people well. Especially submissive men. I swear I can almost read a sub's mind.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually people notice my smile. I do smile a lot.... And my posture, which is excellent. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't like TV, but love books, especially femdom (and cuckold) themed books. (Shhhh.) Elise Sutton, Venus in Furs by Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch, Permanent Obscurity by Richard Perez
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I won't name six. But Movies. Music. Art museums. But most of all I love to read.

Also, I love the beach, love the sun in the morning. Love parks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything related to femdom culture, hot wife relationships and, yes, cuckolding holds my attention. I guess, I spend a lot of time considering the nature of male/female relationships from a femdom point of view.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out on a romantic date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As someone who has embraced aspects of femdom culture, I have a serious cuckolding fetish, from a cuckoldress point of view. Honestly, it turns me on (gives me perverse pleasure) knowing I'm getting regular satisfaction while my sub is being totally denied and faithful. It's just hot. Part of it is a power trip, I'll admit, but I don't care. My favorite scenario would be to always have 2 primary men in life: a submissive and sensitive man at home who'll tend to all my needs; and a more "manly" type who'll take care of me in bed, but who I'll see several times a week and maybe on the weekends. I'll live with the submissive man as my primary partner. He will of course have full knowledge of this arrangement and consent to it.