Here's the truth ... I was introduced to aspects of femdom by my last boyfriend with whom I've formerly parted ways, after cuckolding him for 2 years.
Here's what I'm seeking .... a guy who "understands" what the lifestyle is about without too much explanation.
He should be literate and know about the femdom-related books and novels on the subject:
1) "Venus In Furs" by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
2) "Permanent Obscurity: Or a Cautionary Tale of Two Girls & Their Misadventures with Drugs, Pornography and Death" by Richard Perez
(To be honest, I'm most interested in the possibility of having a submissive along the lines of the character of "Baby" in Permanent Obscurity. That level of loyalty and devotion seems almost romantic beyond belief. And, unlike the dominatrix character of Serena in that book, I would be most appreciative!)
3) "The Femdom Experience" by Elise Sutton (not to mention her other books!)
Take note of these. And remember the femdom/cuckolding dynamic is a lifestyle agreed upon by two well-informed people. So just understand what you're getting into....
I know femdom and cuckolding is a strong fantasy for many, and I’m here to say to each and every one of you that if you persist … gently continue to encourage her that way (through talk and fantasy) … your dreams will come true: Your Lady will find a regular lover while you’ll accept your new status and role … and get to share in every small detail. You’ll become like a girlfriend to her while she blooms into the woman she was always meant to be! Satisfied to the fullest extent on a regular basis!
One last word of caution to all you future cuckolds, wimps, toe-suckers, houseboy/maids .... Be careful what you wish for.