I am me, not perfect nor will I be. We should be "about" not "at" each other and not out to change each other. I believe this, "You know what you know when you know it." I find that particularly true in establishing a relationship. You'll know and so will I. I'm an eye contact person. The eyes speak louder than words. Do they sparkle as your mouth moves? I tell the truth. I guess my question is, "Are you worth knowing?"
My lady needs to be my best friend. Intimacy is important, not just sexual intimacy but the inner soul tingling kind. We need to have each others best interests at heart to make things work. A kiss is a kiss but speaks volumes. Am I a good kisser? Having never kissed myself I'll have to let you be the judge of that. Yes, I also have a sense of humor honed by 23 years of service in the US Army. My waters can run deep at times too. Dive in, the waters fine and I really don't bite.
Are you a woman who isn't afraid to show that she loves me emotionally, physically, and spiritually? If we disagree we should resolve it, forget it and not carry it forward. Seeing everything eye-to-eye might get a bit boring. Like to argue? I'm not your guy. I desire to live the remainder of my life in peace. If we disagree, I do expect you to tell me what the problem is. It can usually be fixed. I can fix a problem but not a person. I don't handle anger well so you need to know that. If you've lost the art of compromise then I won't be your type of guy.
I prefer to be a giver and need another giver in my life. You see "You Get By Giving." Works for me and I try to live that way. At times it has cost me dearly but it has not jaded nor changed my outlook, not being a "stuff" person. Takers wear me out. Somethings are more obvious than others so let me share a tidbit with you - never take more than you give. We all, at times, reach a point where we need the other person to unselfishly give of themselves and I will. It's called meeting the other person's needs and I will willingly do that. It needs to be mutual. If this paragraph scared you then best just run along now.
Like to cook? I do it well so maybe a little kitchen chemistry is in our future. It's a great place to flirt with each other and catch up. I want a woman who wants what she has never had. If you're involved with someone or just into seeing how many men you can date at once, I can assure you that we won't fit. I desire to have The World's Greatest Love Affair.
It isn't better to lie and ask forgiveness. Try not to be judgmental, at least until you have walked a mile in the other person's moccasins and taken the time to know that person. I will treat you fairly so please treat me in the same manner. Did you notice the pic of the bike? Hope you enjoy riding, rallies and being around some really good people. There's a bit of my "bad boy" side coming out when I ride. Bad in a good way though. I drive safely but the "little boy" within me likes to come out and play then. He can be quite an imp.
This needs to be about togetherness, not about "I" or "Me." Should we maybe talk? If I give you my number please use it or lose it. Should a woman call a man? Should a man call a woman? I rarely wink. If you're interested drop me a line, send me your # or ask me for mine.