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My self-summary
I had and have been aspiring to become the next Clint Eastwood or Alfred Hitchcock, but a good job has put the dreams of pursuing a filmmaking career on the back burner. I have all the skills one could ask for; I know a little about a lot, people say I'm smart - both street and book - and I guess my degree would back that up, but in my opinion college was just one big party. I'm tall, been told quite 'handsome', and I know not only how to treat people how I want to be treated, but also, and maybe more importantly, how they want to be treated. I get a large amount of satisfaction from seeing other people happy, and having a girl to focus my attention on would be a nice hole to fill in my life. And to be clear, I am open to a relationship, only if casual dating goes smoothly. And to be doubly clear, I am a gentleman and will respect all boundaries set with the upmost diligence, but understand I am a man, sex will cross my mind, a lot. I will always let a girl make the first move, unless she asks me to do so. And if I may point out, that is why I am on this site; I treat women with maybe a little too much respect, so I get put in the 'friend zone'. If a gal makes it known what she wants me as a lover, I have a tendency show her that 'loving' is a pretty damn good skill of mine as well.

UPDATE: My apologies to those who messaged me and did not get a reply over the last 12mos, as I've taken a 1 year hiatus from this site, and dating in general, to focus on my job and family... those things are secure now, so I wish to jump back into relationship-building and romance once again :-)

UPDATE: It's hard to know exactly what sparks good chemistry, but first impressions usually go a long way for me. I appreciate having simple, straight forward conversations, but I really want to connect with someone, so throw me some curveballs with your introduction so you stand out :-)
What I’m doing with my life
I work hard during the day so I can have fun on the nights and weekends. I like to relax more than go. That's not to say I'm unadventurous, I just feel like I know how to enjoy and appreciate sitting still. On the flip side, when I am outside of a relaxation zone, I have a somewhat fluid nature about traveling - I go everywhere, I do everything - I love driving and taking road trips to new places. All in all, I am very much a go with the flow person and I let the wind and people I meet take me new places.

UPDATE: I've pretty much been a hermit for the last year after two failed relationships, the need for more job security at my workplace, and my mothers health being up in the air. I got the job title and salary I hoped for 6mos ago and now I'm just helping out my mom where possible. Many of my days now are just work, playing with my dog, cooking dinner, playing some ps4 or xbox one, and maybe falling asleep to a movie or tv show. Boring, I know; but that's why I'm putting myself back on here :-)

UPDATE: So, maybe I have understated the fact that I play video games. Gaming culture is something I'm into and will pay attention to. I know there is a stigma with being a gamer/nerd, but I feel very confident that gamers are some of the smartest people in the world (albeit, not always the most socially capable). I like to think that it helps tremendously with neural plasticity, effectively allowing my brain to handle more while working on most any activity. To that point, I'm curious if there are gamer girls on here feeling the same way as myself. If you are, please drop a line :-) furthermore, even if your not looking for a bf/gf relationship, and you just want someone else to game with from time to time, hit me up. I'm on XB1 and PS4, playing Destiny and most big releases.
I’m really good at
I am the jack of all trades, master of none. And I like it that way. Everyone in the world wants to be a specialist at something. I want to be the best generalist in the world; for some reason I think I will be happier for it. Although, I am really good at sports, cooking, sex, sleep, video games, smoking ganja, drinking, paying attention to detail, using logic and an extensive vocabulary, and treating people well.

UPDATE: I found a better slogan for being a jack of all trades... 'Jack of all trades; master of LEARNING' :-P
The first things people usually notice about me
How tall I am...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wow, those 5 things plus, sex and sleep, are all I need in life (besides family, obviously).

Books: Deception Point; 11/22/63; Pandora; The Rescue Artist; Atlas Shrugged

Movies: Wonderland; Gravity; Rush; Inception; Prometheus; The Edge; The Raid; The Prestige; Trading Places; Wedding Crashers; The Hangover; Horrible Bosses; and about 50 more that I'm not going to name off right now.

Shows: True Detective; House of Cards; Game of Thrones; Breaking Bad; It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Seinfeld; The Walking Dead

Music: Chillstep; Dubstep; Electro; House; Alternative; Hip Hop; Rock; Soundtracks/Scores

Food: Anything spicy; BBQ, Chinese; Italian; Mexican; Sushi; Greek; Fusion
The six things I could never do without
I think I just answered that in the previous section, but that was 7 things. As much as I love GoT and Sunny, I'd have to leave shows off the list. So... Books, Movies, Music, Food, Sex, and Sleep :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, honestly. I know I am really good at it, but I don't get to do it often enough not to think about it. That may sound a bit odd, but it's the truth. And since I'm on the subject, I will note that I believe talking about sex casually is a good thing. One should feel comfortable in their own skin, and really understanding your sexuality and being able to express it defines a lot of other traits for a person (I'm just echoing a Freudian pontification). Other things that occupy my thoughts outside whether I can get laid anytime soon are: whatever-my-next-tech-toy is, movie plots/themes to put in the creative memory bank, how I can make a serious impact on civilization, and when the love of my life will be found.

UPDATE: beyond the usual ^^^^^^^^, I've been pondering my place in the cosmos a bit more than average lately. Science is uncovering some crazy shizzle lately. Mind is constantly blown on the daily =:-O hit me up if you want to talk about 'entanglement' and 'string theory'!
On a typical Friday night I am
Who knows... I fly by the seat of my pants. I could be at home doing nothing, or I could be out, painting some town red...

UPDATE: mostly been at home, living in my thoughts, lol. Video games have been a nice time-sink though
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Whatever you're willing to ask...
You should message me if
You want a fun and personable hangout, with the potential for something more.