Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I had and have been aspiring to become the next Clint Eastwood or
Alfred Hitchcock, but a good job has put the dreams of pursuing a
filmmaking career on the back burner. I have all the skills one
could ask for; I know a little about a lot, people say I'm smart -
both street and book - and I guess my degree would back that up,
but in my opinion college was just one big party. I'm tall, been
told quite 'handsome', and I know not only how to treat people how
I want to be treated, but also, and maybe more importantly, how
they want to be treated. I get a large amount of satisfaction from
seeing other people happy, and having a girl to focus my attention
on would be a nice hole to fill in my life. And to be clear, I am
open to a relationship, only if casual dating goes smoothly. And to
be doubly clear, I am a gentleman and will respect all boundaries
set with the upmost diligence, but understand I am a man, sex will
cross my mind, a lot. I will always let a girl make the first move,
unless she asks me to do so. And if I may point out, that is why I
am on this site; I treat women with maybe a little too much
respect, so I get put in the 'friend zone'. If a gal makes it known
what she wants me as a lover, I have a tendency show her that
'loving' is a pretty damn good skill of mine as well.
3/9/15 UPDATE: My apologies to those who messaged me and did not
get a reply over the last 12mos, as I've taken a 1 year hiatus from
this site, and dating in general, to focus on my job and family...
those things are secure now, so I wish to jump back into
relationship-building and romance once again :-)
6/29/15 UPDATE: It's hard to know exactly what sparks good
chemistry, but first impressions usually go a long way for me. I
appreciate having simple, straight forward conversations, but I
really want to connect with someone, so throw me some curveballs
with your introduction so you stand out :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work hard during the day so I can have fun on the nights and
weekends. I like to relax more than go. That's not to say I'm
unadventurous, I just feel like I know how to enjoy and appreciate
sitting still. On the flip side, when I am outside of a relaxation
zone, I have a somewhat fluid nature about traveling - I go
everywhere, I do everything - I love driving and taking road trips
to new places. All in all, I am very much a go with the flow person
and I let the wind and people I meet take me new places.
3/9/15 UPDATE: I've pretty much been a hermit for the last year
after two failed relationships, the need for more job security at
my workplace, and my mothers health being up in the air. I got the
job title and salary I hoped for 6mos ago and now I'm just helping
out my mom where possible. Many of my days now are just work,
playing with my dog, cooking dinner, playing some ps4 or xbox one,
and maybe falling asleep to a movie or tv show. Boring, I know; but
that's why I'm putting myself back on here :-)
6/29/15 UPDATE: So, maybe I have understated the fact that I play
video games. Gaming culture is something I'm into and will pay
attention to. I know there is a stigma with being a gamer/nerd, but
I feel very confident that gamers are some of the smartest people
in the world (albeit, not always the most socially capable). I like
to think that it helps tremendously with neural plasticity,
effectively allowing my brain to handle more while working on most
any activity. To that point, I'm curious if there are gamer girls
on here feeling the same way as myself. If you are, please drop a
line :-) furthermore, even if your not looking for a bf/gf
relationship, and you just want someone else to game with from time
to time, hit me up. I'm on XB1 and PS4, playing Destiny and most
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am the jack of all trades, master of none. And I like it that
way. Everyone in the world wants to be a specialist at something. I
want to be the best generalist in the world; for some reason I
think I will be happier for it. Although, I am really good at
sports, cooking, sex, sleep, video games, smoking ganja, drinking,
paying attention to detail, using logic and an extensive
vocabulary, and treating people well.
3/9/15 UPDATE: I found a better slogan for being a jack of all
trades... 'Jack of all trades; master of LEARNING' :-P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Wow, those 5 things plus, sex and sleep, are all I need in life
(besides family, obviously).
Books: Deception Point; 11/22/63; Pandora; The Rescue Artist; Atlas
Movies: Wonderland; Gravity; Rush; Inception; Prometheus; The Edge;
The Raid; The Prestige; Trading Places; Wedding Crashers; The
Hangover; Horrible Bosses; and about 50 more that I'm not going to
name off right now.
Shows: True Detective; House of Cards; Game of Thrones; Breaking
Bad; It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Seinfeld; The Walking
Music: Chillstep; Dubstep; Electro; House; Alternative; Hip Hop;
Food: Anything spicy; BBQ, Chinese; Italian; Mexican; Sushi; Greek;
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think I just answered that in the previous section, but that was
7 things. As much as I love GoT and Sunny, I'd have to leave shows
off the list. So... Books, Movies, Music, Food, Sex, and Sleep :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, honestly. I know I am really good at it, but I don't get to do
it often enough not to think about it. That may sound a bit odd,
but it's the truth. And since I'm on the subject, I will note that
I believe talking about sex casually is a good thing. One should
feel comfortable in their own skin, and really understanding your
sexuality and being able to express it defines a lot of other
traits for a person (I'm just echoing a Freudian pontification).
Other things that occupy my thoughts outside whether I can get laid
anytime soon are: whatever-my-next-tech-toy is, movie plots/themes
to put in the creative memory bank, and when the love of my life
will be found.
3/9/15 UPDATE: for better or worse, lol, this hasn't changed much
6/29/15 UPDATE: beyond the usual ^^^^^^^^, I've been pondering my
place in the cosmos a bit more than average lately. Science is
uncovering some crazy shizzle lately. Mind is constantly blown on
the daily =:-O
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows... I fly by the seat of my pants. I could be at home
doing nothing, or I could be out, painting some town red...
3/9/15 UPDATE: mostly at home, doing nothing. Video games have been
a nice time-sink though
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Whatever you're willing to ask...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a fun and personable hangout, with the potential for
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.