I still enjoy playing, and being silly/goofy (yes, I know how to spell intelligent)...but I can just as easily be serious when needed (i.e. meeting your parents). I don't take life too seriously..or internet dating. I mesh well with people who are optimistic, positive, and spontaneous...and know how to live in the moment. I can easily laugh at myself...and never feel the need to belittle others to feed my ego.
I'm just looking for something fun, friendly, and casual....without expectations. But I also want connections of substance...regardless of it's outcome. Ultimately, I would love to meet someone who really excites me, and develop something more meaningful....I would just rather avoid prematurely jumping into anything serious before we've really had time to get to know each other. I'm far from being the jealous or possessive type...and would far rather get to know someone for who she is than what I want her to be. Please be sane ;-).