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42 M Montreal, Quebec, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:26am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well...I guess this is where I pimp myself :-P...(only it won't cost you anything if we do business). I recently consulted my ego (we're good friends) and it told me that I'm fun(ny), slightly quirky, friendly, entelajent, open-minded, affectionate, easy-going, patient, creative, kind, optimistic, spontaneous, SANE, empathetic, generous, and genuine. I hope I'm right about myself :-P. Well, those are traits I value in others anyway. I also seem to be good at making others feel at ease (which comes in handy in the internet dating world). I'm a mix of pragmatic and romantic...depending on what the situation calls for ;-).

I still enjoy playing, and being silly/goofy (yes, I know how to spell intelligent)...but I can just as easily be serious when needed (i.e. meeting your parents). I don't take life too seriously..or internet dating. I mesh well with people who are optimistic/positive, kind, witty, introspective, and spontaneous...and know how to live in the moment. I can easily laugh at myself...and never feel the need to belittle others to feed my ego.

I'm looking for fun, friendly, and casual experiences....without expectations. But I also desire connections of substance...regardless of it's outcome. Ultimately, I would love to meet someone who really excites me, and develop something more meaningful....I would just rather avoid prematurely jumping into anything serious before we've really had time to get to know each other. I'm far from being the jealous or possessive type...and would far rather get to know someone for who she is than what I want her to be. Please be sane ;-).

I like kids...(but I don't think I can eat a whole one). I also like dogs and cats...they're delicious! Seriously, I do like kids and animals. In fact, I'm taking care of a friends Yorkshire Terrier until May :-D.

Honestly, I'm not really in relationship mode these days...but I guess I would like to be pleasantly surprised like most people. I'm just in a 'need to sort out a few things before I feel like I can truly be there for someone' place in my life. Getting there ;-).

To appease the shallowness in us all...I'm 174.45273lbs (approximately :-P). I'm feeling more 'average' than 'athletic' these days (even though technically I'm more on the fit side). I could lose 10 or 15 pounds, so you'll have to accept me for who I am ;-). I was hit by a car while riding my bike in early August, so I'm not as active as I would like to be...but I just started running again, so I should be officially athletic again as soon as my shoulder fully heals ;-).

FYI...I'm not an A-list I won't know if you add me to your 'quickmatch' list. You're better off adding me to your 'favorites' list if you want my attention....or you could just write ;-).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm surviving, like most of us :-)...working in the catering industry...educated as a painter (artist).

I enjoy playing a variety of sports (like tennis, hockey, skiing, snowshoeing, badminton, soccer, jogging, swimming, and volleyball)...but I'm recovering from a shoulder injury, so I haven't been very active lately. I like to camp, and have pretty much everything we will need ;-)....except a car. I use my trusty bike to get around the city...even in the winter (yup, one of those people).

I like looking at pretty things...and not so pretty things. Wandering through a gallery and deconstructing art is bliss to me. Company is always nice :-).

Fyi...I live alone in the Plateau...(I have my own fridge and everything).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...pushing the period key on my laptop............................

...and being compassionate, fun, generous, affectionate, and making others feel at ease...

...and at randomly composing a variety of words together to convey a message that is essentially void of content and meaning; in a way that mocks it's own intent, and reinforces it's insignificant existence.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The way I look.....which includes the clothes I happen to be wearing that day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I confess...I'm not much of a reader. I absorb information primarily via documentaries, online articles/videos (such as TED Talks), and educational tv programs. Most of the books, shows, and documentaries that I absorb revolve around social behavior, the human condition, psychology, and painting. Currently, some of my favorite artists include Lucian Freud, Jenny Saville, Eric Fischi, John Currin, Andy Goldsworthy, Chuck Close, Richard Serra, Gerhard Richter, and Vik Muniz...but there are so many interesting artists; it's constantly evolving.

Some films I like.....Amelie, Momento, Rushmore, Kids, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Big Labowski, Fargo (anything made by the Coen Brothers really), Superbad, Tree of Life, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Waking Life, Manufacturing Consent, American Beauty, Being John Malkovich, and Baraka. I really enjoy documentaries.

Film makers : Coen Brothers, Paul Thomas Anderson, Stanley Kubrick, Wes Anderson, Spike Jonze, Jean-Pierre Jeanet, Luc Besson, and Quentin Tarantino.

Music: I like everything from electronica (mostly drum n' bass, dub step, ambient, and breakbeats) and world music, to classical and rock...and alternative, hip hop/rap...funk, punk...the happy birthday song. I LOVE to shake my bum to beats (mostly to electronica)...although, I'm not much of a dance partner when it comes to rehearsed steps (you would probably have to lead me :-P).

I'm not picky about food...and enjoy trying new dishes. I'm also not much of a cook (sorry mom)...but I have nice kitchen supplies ;-). I can carve a mean fruit platter...and can make simple dishes look appetizing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Lists of things I could never do without.
2. Money (unfortunately).
3. My sanity.
4. Art.
5. Sex/affection.
6. Humour (my sense of humour).
7. My iPhone (how embarrassing).
8. My bike.
9. My toothbrush.
10. My ability to count.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. behavior...and the various ways that people manage, contrive, and perceive their relationships with others...and the world around them. Motivated primarily by my interest in investigating these variables creatively through painting. Although, I'm not terribly ambitious about painting...not yet anyway ;-).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Waiting for you to write me ;-).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I put dirty dishes back in the cupboard if I'm expecting company and don't have time to wash them...sigh*

I procrastinate (it took me a long time to include that in my profile).

I'm not perfectly symmetrical.

I have absolutely no desire to fit in.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have a positive/optimistic attitude, and don't take life (or internet dating) too seriously. Bonus points if you're FUN(ny), witty, kind, spontaneous, INTELLIGENT (especially emotionally intelligent), introspective, a good communicator, honest, and genuine. Double bonus points for being creative...or at least appreciating the arts.

You are open-minded.....respect all people, regardless of their race, religion, sexual orientation, or social status.....and know the difference between confidence and arrogance. play tennis! :-).....even though I'm having shoulder issues these days :-/.

Don't message me if you're a social climber...or arrogant, shallow, egocentric, judgmental, short-tempered, or self centred....or adopt the word 'cool' as a way to elevate social status and discrimate...or if you're embarrassed about having a profile on a dating site :-).

If you subscribe to religious doctrine/propaganda then we probably won't end up in a romantic relationship...sorry :-/...but it doesn't mean we can't be friends ;-).

If you want to! Don't be shy...I appreciate women who take the initiative, and write me if they are interested in connecting. Guys like the attention too ;-).