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YourSpecialGuy

45 Los Angeles, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:13pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
HERE ARE SOME FUN FACTS ABOUT ME:

I'm a kind-hearted, down to earth, easy going guy with relationship/family values and a lot of love to give :)

I let people into my lane in traffic, I open doors for others, and I say “Hello” to strangers and care about their response.

I'm always up for checking-out something fun and cool around town, and I can be pretty darn funny when the time is right!!

I'm also very honest, loyal, and have high integrity.

I'm great at embracing diversity and being flexible, which I've discovered works well in relationships, as well as in life.

I love being part of a relationship, group, or team, but I'm also quite comfortable doing things on my own.

And, I would do just about anything for a loved one or friend!

While I'm very driven in my career, love sports, love working out at the gym, and other "guy stuff," I'm also very thoughtful, considerate, romantic, affectionate, and sensual. I love holding hands, kissing, cuddling, giving little love notes and gifts, creating romantic experiences together, etc.

Generally, I don't "text" (except when necessary or useful). For dialogue, I prefer real connection by phone and in person :)

I was born into a mildly cultural and not so religious Jewish family, but I also choose a spiritual, non-religious, open-minded outlook.

I meditate and do yoga weekly, which I love.

I enjoy the beach, hiking, and occasional camping because I like nature and animals.

AND... I'm certainly not perfect, and I don't expect you to be :)

Of course, there is a lot more I could write as part of my "Self Summary," which I'll be happy to share with you when we talk. If you have any questions, just ask!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I focus on balancing the various aspects of my life.

I'm active in my health and fitness. I workout at the gym about 5 times a week, eat healthy foods, and drink lots of water.

In my career, I work as a self-employed professional helping people live happier, more satisfying lives, which I find deeply meaningful and rewarding.

Recreationally, I like to go out in the world and do fun familiar and new things. And, I'm also comfortable staying in.

And, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... helping people feel at ease.

... communicating... including expressing my thoughts and feelings, AND, listening to and understanding yours :)

... being rational, reasonable, flexible, and adaptable.

... organizing, remembering things, solving problems, and finding solutions.

... seeing both the big picture and the details.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue-green eyes, my genuine good heartedness, and my intelligence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS:
For personal and professional reasons, I enjoy mostly cool non-fiction books, magazines, audio recordings, and videos about psychology, personal growth, and spirituality. However, I also love sports, so I enjoy keeping up on that, as well :)

MOVIES:
I enjoy big budget and independent movies of most genres. Some of my favorites include: Dead Poets Society, Good Will Hunting, The Shawshank Redemption, Rocky, Saturday Night Fever, The Last Samurai, Little Buddha, Star Wars, The Matrix (Part I), The Godfather (Parts I & II).

MUSIC:
I like a wide range of music, including classic rock, soul/R&B, 70s, disco, jazz, funk, hip hop, reggae, world music, groovy "lounge" music, some classical, soothing "massage/spa" music, and more... either recorded, or live at cool little venues or larger venues like The Greek Theater and The Hollywood Bowl.

SHOWS:
Live theater (plays and musicals), comedy, sporting events.

FOOD:
I eat pretty healthy, but I'm easy going if you make other food choices :) Foods I enjoy include: Mexican, Italian, seafood, chicken, fresh vegetables, lots of salad, some fruit, and my tastey and delicious super-special scrambled egg whites with scrumptious Trader Joe's salsa!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Physical Health & Fitness
Psychological & Spiritual Wellbeing
Family, Friends, Loved Ones
Meaningful Work
Comfortable Home & Work Environments
Fun Recreational Activities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Appreciating my blessings, while evolving into the best person I can be... and how I can help others do the same through my career and personal life. I also think a lot about the present, the future, and ways to have fun :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Whether Friday night or otherwise, I enjoy movies, music, live theater, the beach, outdoor fairs and festivals, "concerts in the park," barbecues and other social gatherings, coffee houses, cool restaurants and lounges, cultural events, museums, art exhibits, stimulating conversation, reading, great kissing and cuddling (a must!) (I'm a Certified Professional Cuddler AND a Master Kisser!), quality time with family and friends, cozy indoor evenings, exploring fun places and activities around town, and more!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm happy to answer this (and any question) when we talk :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you're looking for a healthy, happy, meaningful, fun relationship, in which we both feel the kind of attraction, chemistry, connection, and compatibility you just can't pretend .... a really good fit that feels right for both of us.

... you're looking for a guy who will listen carefully and understand when you share your thoughts and feelings, and who will have your best interest always in mind.

... you're looking for a guy who is emotionally healthy and understands himself very well, and who is interested in and very good at expressing his own thoughts and feelings.

... you're looking for a guy who takes an interest in his own life, but who will also take a sincere interest in yours... and who will even very happily do some girlie things with you because he knows how important that is, and because he knows that being together is really what counts.

... you're looking for a guy who wants to share a special relationship which includes some of the stuff that money can buy, but founded on the stuff that money can't buy... the stuff that matters most!

Thanks for reading my profile, I hope you have a wonderful day, and I look forward to hearing from you ! :)