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YourSpecialGuy

44 / M / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:01pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a kind-hearted, down to earth, easy going guy with relationship/family values and a lot of love to give :)

I let people into my lane in traffic, I open doors for others, and I say “Hello” to strangers and care about their response.

I'm genuine, grounded, mature, and comfortable in my own skin.

I'm also very honest, loyal, and have high integrity.

I'm comfortable doing things on my own, and I also like being part of a relationship, group, or team.

I'm very thoughtful, considerate, romantic, and affectionate.

And, I would do just about anything for a loved one or friend!

Generally, I don't "text" (except when it's truly useful, or for a cute little "love note" when I'm in a relationship, but certainly not for dialogue)... I prefer real human contact by phone and in person :)

I was born into a "somewhat culturally but not so religiously Jewish" Jewish family, but also choose a spiritual, non-religious, open-minded outlook.

I meditate and do yoga weekly, which I love.

And, I enjoy little hikes and occasional camping because I like nature and animals.

I'm looking for a woman who wants to create a healthy, happy, fun relationship, where we both feel the kind of attraction, chemistry, connection, and compatibility you just can't pretend .... a really good fit that feels right for both of us.

Of course, there is a lot more I could write as part of my "Self Summary," which I'll be happy to share with you when we talk. If you have any questions, just ask!
What I’m doing with my life
I focus on balancing the various aspects of my life.

I'm active in my health and fitness. I workout at the gym about 5 times a week, eat very healthy foods, and drink lots of water.

In my career, I work as a self-employed professional helping people live happier, more satisfying lives, which I find deeply meaningful and rewarding.

Recreationally, I like to go out in the world and do fun familiar and new things. And, I'm also comfortable staying in.

And, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends.
I’m really good at
... helping people feel at ease.

... expressing my thoughts and feelings, AND, listening to and understanding yours :)

... being reasonable, rational, intuitive, creative, flexible, and adaptable.

... organizing, remembering things, and problem solving.

... kissing & cuddling :)

... seeing both the big picture and the details.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue-green eyes, my genuine good heartedness, and my intelligence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS:
For personal and professional reasons, I enjoy mostly non-fiction books and audio recordings about psychology and personal growth, as well as eastern and other non-western approaches to spirituality.

MOVIES:
I enjoy big budget and independent movies of most genres. Some of my favorites include: Dead Poets Society, Good Will Hunting, The Shawshank Redemption, Rocky, The Last Samurai, Little Buddha, Star Wars, The Matrix (Part I), The Godfather (Parts I & II).

MUSIC:
I like a wide range of music, including classic rock, soul/R&B, 70s, disco, jazz, funk, hip hop, reggae, world music, some classical, New Age soothing "massage/spa" music, groovy "lounge" music, and more... either recorded, or live at cool little venues or larger venues like The Greek Theater and The Hollywood Bowl.

SHOWS:
Live theater (plays and musicals), comedy, sporting events.

FOOD:
I eat very healthy, but I'm comfortable and easy going if you make other food choices :) Some foods I enjoy include: Mexican, Italian, seafood, chicken, fresh vegetables, lots of salad, and my tastey and delicious super-special scrambled egg whites with yummy Trader Joe's salsa!
The six things I could never do without
Physical Health & Fitness
Psychological & Spiritual Wellbeing
Family, Friends, Loved Ones
Meaningful Work
Comfortable Home & Work Environments
Fun Recreational Activities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Appreciating who I am and what I have, while continually evolving into the best person I can be... and how I can help others do the same through my career and personal life. I also think a lot about the present and the future :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Whether Friday night or otherwise, I enjoy movies, music, live theater, the beach, outdoor fairs and festivals, barbecues and other social gatherings, coffee houses, cool restaurants and lounges, cultural events, stimulating conversation, reading, great kissing and cuddling (a must!) (I'm a Certified Professional Cuddler AND a Master Kisser!), quality time with family and friends, cozy indoor evenings, exploring fun places and activities around town, and more!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm happy to answer this (and any question) when we talk :)
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–44
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
... you're looking for a meaningful, fun, long-term relationship (in which we eventually become best friends, lovers, and true life partners who really "get" and enjoy each other), with a guy who's friendly, intelligent, emotionally healthy, mature, confident, funny, affectionate, sensual, and sexy, who's ready to share a special connection.

... you're looking for a guy who will listen carefully and understand when you share about your day, and who will have your best interest always in mind.

... you're looking for a guy who obviously takes an interest in his own life, but who will also take a sincere interest in yours... and who will even very happily do some girlie things with you because he knows how important that is, and because he knows that being together is really what counts. For example, if we're having a day together, and you need a mani/pedi, I'll be happy to stay with you if you want me to so we can continue to be together.

... you're looking for a guy who wants to share a special relationship which includes some of the stuff that money and looks can buy, but founded on the stuff that money and looks can't buy... the stuff that matters most!

Thanks for reading my profile, I hope you have a wonderful day, and I look forward to hearing from you ! :)