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35 F Merigomish, Nova Scotia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 31
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am polyamorous and pansexual. I do open relationships only.
I moved to Nova Scotia in 2011, and find that the foreigner status comes in quite handy sometimes. (Not that I exactly milk it.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I write, I read, I sing. I go for walks and to concerts. I like debating stuff that's not politically correct.

For the time being, I'm also working a rather menial and degrading job. And while it pays for the food, it also provides me with an unexpected supply of material for my current writing project. Who'd have thought? I get a lot more out of this than my pay, that's certain. Either way, I hope I won't have to do it for much longer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like making things with my hands. Making jewelry, fixing stuff, gardening.

I'm an enthusiastic cook. Not too shabby, either.

I'm a very fast reader. Also, when it comes to literature, I'm a good editor. I would like to say that I'm a good writer, too, but that might be wishful thinking.

There is a whole lot of other things I'm pretty good at but let's not write all of them down, shall we. I'm sure you know what I mean. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look like I would be nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books I read in the last weeks or so that I liked:
"Stranger in a Strange Land" by Robert A. Heinlein
"Rum Punch" by Elmore Leonard
"Der Koenig David Bericht" by Stefan Heym
"The Condition" by Jennifer Haigh
"Polski Blues" by Janosch
(I try and update this whenever I remember.)

There are a lot of good movies out there, and probably also a few good TV shows. But I grew up without a TV and haven't had one until very recently, and even now it's never on, so I wouldn't even know most of the shows.

Music is, apart from literature, my biggest passion. I like good, creative music of whatever era or genre. I grew up with free jazz and learned classical piano, what can you say. But I certainly like to dance to anything with a decent beat to it!

I like food. I love sushi, and Mexican, and Greek, and Thai, and Indian, and French food. Really, I just enjoy food. Not fast food, I don't like eating plastic crap with additives. I feel deep sympathy for all the dieters out there who associate food with guilt and suffering.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good books.
Good music.
Good food.
My chosen family.
Intellectual stimulation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What occupies my mind most is people. I love watching people, wondering what makes them tick, probably overanalysing sometimes.
I love comparing people in small and big places, in Europe and North America, and coming up with theories that might not always turn out blatantly exaggerated generalisations.
These days, I theorise about people dynamics in small towns a lot.
Also, my current writing project.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't even have a typical Friday night!

Planning is a must in any poly relationship, so I don't generally come up with something on the fly, but generally speaking I do whatever I feel like. I don't like clubbing a whole lot, really, although I love to go dancing. Always looking for an opportunity to reconcile that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Private questions are best asked in person.
You should message me if
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you know what polyamory is and can live with it (by all means, research online). If you feel interested, let me know!