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35 • Merigomish, Nova Scotia, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 4:59pm
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Has a kid
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
I'm a good little worker bee these days, and even though my job has improved recently, I still long to get back to the rough freedom of self-employment.
A large portion of my brain is constantly occupied with the book I'm writing at the moment, which I hope will be good.
I'm an enthusiastic cook. Not too shabby, either.
I'm a very fast reader. Also, when it comes to literature, I'm a good editor. I would like to say that I'm a good writer, too, but that might be wishful thinking.
There is a whole lot of other things I'm pretty good at but let's not write all of them down, shall we. I'm sure you know what I mean. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge.
"Salt and Saffron" by Kamila Shamsie
"Pirate Cinema" by Cory Doctorov
"Stranger in a Strange Land" by Robert A. Heinlein
Some steampunk thing that I didn't like nearly as much as I thought I would.
(I try and update this whenever I remember.)
There are a lot of good movies out there, and probably also a few good TV shows. But I grew up without a TV and haven't had one until very recently, and even now it's hardly ever on, so I wouldn't even know most of the shows.
Music is, apart from literature, my biggest passion. I like good, creative music of whatever era or genre. I grew up with free jazz and learned classical piano, what can you say. But I certainly like to dance to anything with a decent beat to it!
I like food. I love sushi, and Mexican, and Greek, and Thai, and Indian, and French food. Really, I just enjoy food. Not fast food, I don't like eating plastic crap with additives. I feel deep sympathy for all the dieters out there who associate food with guilt and suffering.
My chosen family.
These days, I theorise about people dynamics in small towns a lot.
Also, my current writing project. Which, funnily enough, involves people dynamics in a small town. At least to a degree.
Planning is a must in any poly relationship, so I don't generally come up with something on the fly, but generally speaking I do whatever I feel like. I don't like clubbing a whole lot, really, although I love to go dancing. Always looking for an opportunity to reconcile that.
Actually, a lot of the time, I'm working. So if you want to ask me out for a coffee or something, you're gonna have to ask when I'm free...
Otherwise, who am I to tell you if you should message me or not? That's up to you. But it's quite possible that I would love to hear from you.
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