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36 Merigomish, Nova Scotia, CA Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid, Woman

Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid, Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 3
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am polyamorous and pansexual. I love flirting. I'm from Europe. I'm rather protective of my family. My sense of humour is full of sarcasm and innuendo. I go against the grains of society a lot. I'm pretty easy-going.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write, I read, I sing. I go for walks and to concerts. I like debating stuff that's not politically correct.

I'm a good little worker bee these days, and even though my job has improved recently, I still long to get back to the rough freedom of self-employment.

A large portion of my brain is constantly occupied with the book I'm writing at the moment, which I hope will be good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like making things with my hands. Making jewelry, fixing stuff, gardening.

I'm an enthusiastic cook. Not too shabby, either.

I'm a very fast reader. Also, when it comes to literature, I'm a good editor. I would like to say that I'm a good writer, too, but that might be wishful thinking.

There is a whole lot of other things I'm pretty good at but let's not write all of them down, shall we. I'm sure you know what I mean. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look like I would be nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books I read in the last weeks or so that I liked:
"Salt and Saffron" by Kamila Shamsie
"Pirate Cinema" by Cory Doctorov
"Stranger in a Strange Land" by Robert A. Heinlein
Some steampunk thing that I didn't like nearly as much as I thought I would.
(I try and update this whenever I remember.)

There are a lot of good movies out there, and probably also a few good TV shows. But I grew up without a TV and haven't had one until very recently, and even now it's hardly ever on, so I wouldn't even know most of the shows.

Music is, apart from literature, my biggest passion. I like good, creative music of whatever era or genre. I grew up with free jazz and learned classical piano, what can you say. But I certainly like to dance to anything with a decent beat to it!

I like food. I love sushi, and Mexican, and Greek, and Thai, and Indian, and French food. Really, I just enjoy food. Not fast food, I don't like eating plastic crap with additives. I feel deep sympathy for all the dieters out there who associate food with guilt and suffering.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good books.
Good music.
Good food.
My chosen family.
Intellectual stimulation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I love watching people, wondering what makes them tick, probably overanalysing sometimes.
These days, I theorise about people dynamics in small towns a lot.
Also, my current writing project. Which, funnily enough, involves people dynamics in a small town. At least to a degree.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't even have a typical Friday night!

Planning is a must in any poly relationship, so I don't generally come up with something on the fly, but generally speaking I do whatever I feel like. I don't like clubbing a whole lot, really, although I love to go dancing. Always looking for an opportunity to reconcile that.

Actually, a lot of the time, I'm working. So if you want to ask me out for a coffee or something, you're gonna have to ask when I'm free...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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you know what polyamory is and can live with it (by all means, research online). Because that's the deal.

Otherwise, who am I to tell you if you should message me or not? That's up to you. But it's quite possible that I would love to hear from you.