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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:30am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other and laughing about it
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Myers Briggs- I'm an INFP. According to the stars I'm a Taurus with a Cancer moon, and Gemini rising. Enneagram wise I'm a 9. Strictly speaking with labels - I'm a single queer vegan male from the West Coast who is currently a performer that lives in NYC (well... Brooklyn to be precise)

But then I'd like to think I'm more than just labels and boxes.

Interests include : Conscious Evolution, Authenticity, Integrity, Contradiction, Paradox, Change, Whole Grains, Human Rights, Animals Rights, Friends, Family, Travel, Sunlight through Leaves, The Change in Seasons, The West Coast, Outdoors, Rock Climbing, Biking, Hiking, Swimming, Philosophy, Magick, (Non-"new-age") Spirituality, Healthy Living, Organic Vegetables, Vegetarian Restaurants, Tofu, Discussion, Debate, Radical Faeries, Laughing, Peanut Butter and Pickles Sandwiches, Shakespeare, Poetry, Movies, Penny Whistle, Violin, String Instruments, Randomness, Chaos, Books, Driving, Road Trips, Theatre, Star Gazing, Indian and Thai food, Yoga...
What I’m doing with my life
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Well currently I'm procrastinating and wasting time filling out my profile.

Just realized this profile was waaaaay out of date.

Also seeking meaning and purpose (as well as dinner...).

Focus and intent for this site, if any, is on cultivating/creating/finding like-minded (or unlike-minded) friends. More interested in this than a "boyfriend". I'd rather relationships form from real-life interaction than from online profiles. But I guess this is as good a start as any.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making hot cereal.
Shakespeare monologues.
Listing things.
Playing devil's advocate.
Making vegan matcha banana bread.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. Or my peg leg.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Folk, Rock, Acoustic, Alternative, Singer/Songwriter, Musicals. Not a huge fan of Pop - unless I'm at the gym or on the dance floor.

Movies: Adaptation, All About Eve, Eternal Sunshine, Vanilla Sky, Prime, Pie, Donnie Darko, Galaxy Quest, Connie and Carla, Auntie Mame, Broken Hearts Club, Hedwig, A Mighty Wind (anything by Christopher Guest), Playing By Heart, Clue, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Die Mommie Die, Girls will be Girls, l'auberge espangnole, Labrynth, Dark Crystal, I Heart Huckabees, Lost Boys, Muppets...

Television: I don't really watch TV but- Buffy, Dead Like Me, Six Feet Under, Battlestar Galactica

Books: (Bibliophile) Douglas Rushkoff, Robert Anton Wilson The Man Who Fell in Love With the Moon, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Prometheus Rising, God's Debris, The Religion War, Pronoia, Conscious Evolution, Ishmael, Franny and Zooey, Neverwhere, 1984, How Like a God, As I Lay Dying, Sandman Chronicles, Ender's Game, Cloud Atlas, The Neverending Story, The Fountainhead, anything that challenges the mind or perspection of reality and the world.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Networking" Sites
My thumbs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm thinking about.
Life, the Universe and Everything.
What I'm doing with my life.
I should probably update my okcupid photos.
No I really don't care.
And food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know I may have my gay card revoked for this- but- I don't get Lady Gaga.

Or Glee.
You should message me if
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you're real. Feet on ground, head in clouds. Self-aware. If you transcend/defy stereotypes, conventions, and prove first impressions wrong. If you question reality and don't take anything for granted (or too seriously). If your sense of humor includes wittiness and intelligence, and no more than a dash of cynicism. Fellow vegetarians and vegans (and open minded omnivores). If you are deeper than your sexuality. If care more for the earth than about the latest celebrity gossip. And if you read through this entire profile and are still here ;)