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31 Oakland, CA Man


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  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 25
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hindi (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am very friendly. I'm a poet. I'm an anarchist. With a lot of people I joke around and laugh so much, but with some people I don't so much and I'm more serious. When I feel more comfortable around people I am more of a goofball. I read a shit ton. I do my best to take care of my body. blah blah blah yackity yackity yackity work in progress...
What I’m doing with my life
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I wrote some poetry books. Working on a new one. I organize poetry readings at The Long Haul and sometimes in my backyard. I help out a bit at The Bay Area Public School. I substitute teach at The Oakland Unified School District. Some facets of the job are absolutely WONDERFUL but some stuff about is yuck yuck yuck. I want to do more shit but I guess I won't talk about that till I actually start doing it.
I’m really good at
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poetry. bringing people together. staying in contact with people i care about. communicating and listening. i'm a pretty good substitute teacher but i don't think that'd be something people on this site would get all excited about :) I'm a pretty good cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i don't know. in this society, probably that i'm male. if i want to be cute about it i could say my friendliness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i like lot of vegetables. i like japanese, mexican, indian food.

i really like the movie Heathers
i like a lot of spike lee movies
i like a lot of richard linklater movies
i like a lot of david lynch movies
help me get into some non-male directors?

i like the band Destroyer a lot. i like Grimes a lot. i like 2pac a lot. i like other stuff but that's what comes to mind now.

I read a lot of poetry, history, religion, stuff about gender and race, a little bit of theory, a lot of stuff with a radical bent to it. I read other stuff too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
i'll do this later maybe.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my friends. poetry. cause and effect. politics. death and rebirth. our public education system (with strife!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i go to a lot of poetry readings. sometimes i see a movie. sometimes i hang out with a friend. sometimes i hang out with a friend or with Carrie. i don't really go to bars that much because i think they are usually loud and annoying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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one time i robbed a bank and then i went to mexico and had an operation where i got a new face like in that movie Face/Off and now i'm back in the usa and i'm rich but i might pretend i'm not rich.
You should message me if
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you've already seen me around town and you want to ask me to do something together but you're a little shy to ask me to my face.

you want to.

if you like poetry that'd be pretty cool.

you'd have to be ok with the fact that i am dating someone. her name is Carrie and we've been together for over 2 years. we've been getting along really great lately and we've been dating other people a bit in the last year.

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