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33 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

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  • Ages 22–35
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 2, 2011
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hahaha. Wow. So like, the other day (okay, actually it was a few months ago), I was reading the xkcd forums, and a thread popped up about OKCupid, so I went to look at some people's profiles. As it happens, I had a profile here years ago, and I figured it would have been deleted from inactivity, but apparently OKC keeps these things around FOREVERRRRRR. So naturally, after looking at a few pages, the OKC mailer logic springs to life, and decides to start emailing me stuff again. So then I have to come back and redo my ANCIENT profile from scratch. \o/ So here goes.

I am mary, quite, and contrary
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just about done my current job at a games company downtown called Bitcasters. After this is done I plan to take some time off, find a place for myself and work on personal projects for a few months. If I can make a business out of it, great; if not, back to work for me.

I don't really like "stability" in these things. Mixing it up is fun. I have a few years of savings so I'm not worried.

Oh, and I suppose I should mention that I'm currently in an open relationship.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Programming; it's my job, after all. Oh, and all the related skills that you would expect given my degree - especially mathematics of various sorts. In high school I used to write and do well on all the math contests, and got to go down to PA a few times as part of Ontario's delegation to an American math competition.

Go, the board game. I'm rated 1k on KGS.

Music games such as ITG, DDR, DrumMania, etc. Sadly, I only ever get to play GH/Rock Band at other people's parties so I haven't really gotten used to the interface :(

Kissing. Or maybe it's just that everyone I've ever kissed was able to make up for my gross ineptitude. Or I just enjoy it so much that I don't notice anything wrong. - Nah, it's me, for sure.

Making my friends laugh. It's not all geek humour, either.

Cutting myself off from drinking (and in general, exhibiting self-control).

Not being disturbed or shocked by things.

Confusing people. I like to make statements that seem completely out of my character, but are actually quite consistent with my beliefs - once you stop making the usual inferences.

The first things people usually notice about me
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I really don't know, because I'm me, not "people". But here are some educated guesses.

That I'm skinny.

That I like to move with a certain grace and dramatic flair when I try to cut through crowds or open doors for people.

That my wardrobe is hilariously out of date. Actually, it consists almost entirely of hand-me-downs.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't really do books or movies. Or TV. I do almost all my reading on the internet now.

As far as music goes, I'll listen to damn near everything. I kind of have a soft spot for classical (in particular, anything by Chopin, Satie or Debussy) but my clock radio is set to 104.5, I envy my friend's collection of experimental stuff, I get tunes from 80s video games stuck in my head, I drool over turntablism vids...

As for food, whatever. I'm not vegetarian. I don't care if you are as long as you don't care that I'm not. I appreciate the finer things, when I feel I can afford them. I wish I had more of an appetite because I really enjoy eating, despite appearances.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

This question sucks. For the geeks among us, the temptation to list basic necessities of life is too high. And for everyone else, a simple yes/no question "Are you obsessed with sex/your physical appearance/your social status?" would provide about as much information. Oh, and the jokes people make about "counting skills", "sarcasm" etc. are lame.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

I compose short stories, poems etc. in my head and never get to write them.

I think for thinking's sake. I practice thinking in other languages. I can hear myself talking to myself - in other languages.

I do long multiplication, simple numerical integration, etc. in my head to relieve boredom.

And of course, I spend lots of time thinking about how I got to where I am now, and wondering how I escaped with so few regrets.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sigh, Funland is dead now. So the only regular outing I get is UTARPA once a month. I hate myself for staying at home and being anti-social, but I hate clubs even more (uninteresting, drunk people; smoky air; loud repetitive music - ugh).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Okay, first off, for anyone who was stalking me, actually I lost my virginity a couple years ago. Yeah, the profile's THAT old.

Anyway. Best I can think of at the moment: I used to be a "nice guy". I really think I'm recovering from that now, and not simply turning into a jerk.
You should message me if
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You think of intelligence (and in particular, being really good at something intellectual) as a positive trait; don't smoke tobacco (pot's OK but I probably won't join you); are OK with the open relationship thing; and think you'd look good next to me in a picture.

Oh, and if you think you're "fluent in C++", you're going to have to prove it.