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27 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:22am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Like: extremely hot weather and going barefoot, getting dressed up and going somewhere classy, conversations over wine, spending half the day reading a book in a cafe, taking naps in random places and getting lost in foreign countries.

I was raised in Michigan, went to uni in LA; lived in around 9 different countries and traveled to many more. Worked as a consultant, startup owner, English teacher, video game designer, app developer, and other misc. things. I'm addicted to foreign languages as well as fascinated by the mind and the many weird things it does.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Outside of a fulfilling job, here's a random assortment of things I've done in the past two weeks: drew, read the 3rd Harry Potter book in French, went to yoga, made some ceviche and split a bottle of wine with a friend, went camping, went to a comedy show (Lewis Black) with friends, and did a fair bit of writing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using whatever is left in the refrigerator to cook something unique.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent is a strange mix of just about everything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: Frank Herbert, Brandon Sanderson, Patrick Rothfuss, Seneca, Viktor Frankel, Douglas Hofstadter, Daniel Kahneman, Dan Ariely, the Heath Brothers, Susan Cain, Adam Grant, and many more...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've sold all my worldly possessions more than once in my life... but I couldn't do without the intangibles, like old friends and new experiences.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately? Music. I'm trying to learn everything I can about it. I've only just started.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeking inspiration.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once picked up the #1 New York Times best seller without reading the jacket, just before a 6 hour trip. That book was "50 Shades of Grey." It was a long drive.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm attracted to highly kinetic, empathic types. If you hug strangers and want to know their stories, we'll get along.

Or, if you get the reference in my username...