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  • Ages 24-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:51am
Straight, Sapiosexual, Heteroflexible
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am JJ. No, Jack is not my name but yes, I do think myself a Jack of Trades. I am Chaotic Neutral and INTJ (but I am borderline most)

Here are some keywords that give you a rough idea of who I am: nerd/geek*, pseudo-cultured**, over-analyzing, open-minded, skeptic, dark humored, random, stubborn***, intelligence****, extroverted-introvert, creative, and caring.

* Video Games; reading; socially awkward at times; enjoys learning, discussing and debates; Ren Faires, Cons, etc...
** I wear suits (even tails), I drink wine and fancy dinners, and acting gentlemanly, but I like the simple things as well and did grew up in the country.
*** Could read as independent and self-sufficient.
**** Above average in most types of intelligence testing with reading and phonics being my weakest areas. I also know intelligence does not equal wisdom and know I lack that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a BA in Psychology and a minor in Sociology. I am currently looking at getting a Master in Education or Social Work. I want to teach or counsel people.

I am working on a few books both fiction and non-fiction.

I am also: Running, filming, recording, woodworking, brewing (wine/mead), DIY projects, chain-mailing (think armor), gaming, writing, reading, working in a medical lab, and exploring.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
One of my friends said it best: "Your favorite hobby is having hobbies."

I am a polymath, renaissance man, and jack-of-trades, a master of none, but I am good with my hands. I have also been noted for my creative use of my skills which normally helps makes up for my lack of master-level craftsmanship
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

The things people don't usually notice about me right away (according to friends)

"Let's see: You may seem to some to be self-involved; at least when people first meet you (I think it is just your Aspergers); if anyone ask you for help with just about anything you are willing to go through hell and high water to help them. If someone has a crazy or weird idea that would freak most people out, you instead will encourage them and help them complete it.

And maybe the weirdest thing about you, you really listen, I mean really. Not just politely stand there, you engage and ask questions and offer advice about any topic someone wants to talk to you about. Who the hell does that?"
- Bart

"You can talk about almost anything seamlessly weave in and out of topics and can to the same with different groups and conversations. I think your job is also super surprising considering your personality." - Ana
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite... that is always hard for me to choice. I enjoy so many different styles and types of media. I read horror, fantasy, dystopian, sci-fi, drama, comics, manga, comedy, history, essays, poems, random facts, and just about anything. Same goes for movies, TV, and YouTube shows, plus I enjoy cartoons, adult entertainment, stuff on the cooking and home and garden networks. Like I said I am a bit all over the place. I also like to add that I love games as well; not just video games but board games, cards games, and games of any type. Music is no different; I can enjoy rap, country, folk, electronic, and much more. I mainly listen to rock and metal, but I like songs from every genre. Food... you guessed it I am up for eating anything; I do have a prefer every now and then but I am open to new foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The same basic things every other bi-pedal ape-descends need to survive or ensure survival of the species. However, I am sure you want to know things beside water, food, family or/and friends, recreation actives, and sex?

Here is a list of things I would prefer to keep if I had a choice: a computer, the internet, games, some sort of media streaming service, paper, and books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
♠ 42...
♣ Everything...

"The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."
- Socrates
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Moving and settling into a new area means my Friday nights will be a mix of exploring or just sitting at home doing some of my hobbies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was in a garage band in the late 90s and early 00s.
I am a sapiosexual.
You should message me if
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Because you want to. I am not afraid of someone else making the first move.