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  • Ages 35–45
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Last online
Yesterday – 4:22pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly other
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Semi-retired activist & musician, father to a wonderful little girl, news junkie, and connoisseur of politics and local history. I'm humble by nature and circumstance. I'm stubborn where it warrants and passive when it's usually not required. That's not to say I'm an asshole or a push over either.

I'm not terribly fat in the pocketbook, so the things I do tend to be on the thrifty side. It's never dull, to say the least.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in the finance industry. Being a Dad to a pretty great 5 year old girl. Losing myself on the Minnesota Historical Society's website for crazy and unique pictures of Minneapolis. A lot of walking; for exercise and contemplation. I did just start running and hope to get a bike one of these days. And judging musical tastes. (not serious about the last part...or am I?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering things (historical, trivial or otherwise), not saying I'm good at stuff, semi-competent guitar playing, snark. Any given week I'll get at least 3 of 5 Final Jeopardy answers (questions?) correct.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and nose and bald head...all are kinda big.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:"Grapes of Wrath" (fiction, duh) "History of the Minneapolis Park System" (non) "The Death and Life Of Great American Cities" (non) "Fordlandia" (non). Currently re-reading a book called "Blues Legacies and Black Feminism". Just got done reading a history of jazz in the Twin Cities, now trudging my way through David Carr's autobiography.

Movies/TV: "Raising Arizona", "A Mighty Wind", "Godfather", most documentaries, "Mystery Science Theater 3000", "The Simpsons", "Arrested Development", and occasional Twins or Vikings games. (definitely not sports-obsessive, don't do fantasy leagues, etc.) I think I'm throwing in the towel on pro football this year, for what it's worth. Haven't really gotten into all the shows white people love except "The Wire". Not that I wouldn't, but never got around to them. I have very basic cable and Netflix, but can't really justify keeping the cable around much longer.

Music: Gram Parsons, Pixies, Fugazi, Nick Drake, The Walkmen, Guided By Voices, The Velvet Underground, New Pornographers, Big Star, The Jayhawks, Buck Owens, Willie, Waylon, Kris, and Johnny, Bonnie 'Prince' Billy, Gang of Four, Joy Division, Stone Roses, Phil Ochs, Jimmy Rodgers, Beatles, José González, and Neutral Milk Hotel. I absolutely adore listening to KFAI on Friday nights.

Food: Mexican, Indian, non-red meat (don't care what anyone else eats...lost a taste for it). I'm not a great cook or a terrific food shopper, but it's not for lack of interest nor effort. I also do try to be aware of where/and how the food I eat is produced, which is sometimes difficult when you're on a budget. I'm certainly not a moralist when it comes to that, but I understand why people are. If you wanna roll through the drive thru at 2 AM for a Big Mac, I'm not gonna hate you.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, hoodie (when weather necessitates), bus pass, alarm clock, my comfy chair, and Pandora.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My daughter, how I'm gonna sleep, politics, if I would fit in early 20th century Minneapolis, whether or not to grow a beard (it's grown now), peace and calm.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out in my apartment, listening to music, playing guitar in front of a mirror, ruminating about the health of this country, watching MST3K, digging through photo and newspaper archives, and generally decompressing from the work week. I have my daughter over on alternating weekends, so those Fridays are spoken for.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't own a car...and I've never had a tail.
You should message me if
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you'd like to get to know me more. I'm more than happy to respond to anything I didn't cover or covered poorly.