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Zaq1216

25 / M / Bisexual / Single

Irwin, Pennsylvania

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Sep 20, 2008

Should freedom of speech allow the expression of all viewpoints, even extreme and widely-offensive ones?
  • Yes
  • No
So, I've actually been thinking about this lately. Personally, I believe that even the �bullshit� opinions of the KKK, Neo-Nazis, and even the Westboro Baptist Church should not have their right to freedom of speech taken away. The main reason for this being, once their freedom is taken away, it opens the door to other, legitimate, free speech to be restricted. I feel that one of the most important parts of freedom, of liberty, of being American, is to freely express your opinions. And a part of that is being able and willing to deal with ridiculous things that others say� just felt like journaling this�
Should freedom of speech allow the expression of allviewpoints, even extreme and widely-offensive ones?
  • Yes
  • No
So, I've actually been thinking about this lately. Personally, Ibelieve that even the �bullshit� opinions of the KKK, Neo-Nazis,and even the Westboro Baptist Church should not have their right tofreedom of speech taken away. The main reason for this being, oncetheir freedom is taken away, it opens the door to other,legitimate, free speech to be restricted. I feel that one of themost important parts of freedom, of liberty, of being American, isto freely express your opinions. And a part of that is being ableand willing to deal with ridiculous things that others say� justfelt like journaling this�

What's Your Style?A Choose Your Own Adventure Quiz

Aug 26, 2008

What's Your Style? A Choose Your Own Adventure Quiz!
http://www.okcupid.com/tests/whats-your-style-a-choose-your-own-adventure-quiz

My result is the �Mixing bag�� apparently because I may go home with a girl the first night I meet her, but would feel awkward about fucking her, I don�t know what I want. Is it really so wrong to have more standards when I sleep with a girl? Honestly, I don�t like the idea of being a 22 year old father, and I refuse for it to be with a woman I don�t even know. Just because I don�t want to sleep with a girl I don�t know doesn�t mean that I don�t know what I want or that I�m unsure of my �style.�

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What's Your Style? A Choose Your Own Adventure Quiz!
http://www.okcupid.com/tests/whats-your-style-a-choose-your-own-adventure-quiz

My result is the �Mixing bag�� apparently because I may go homewith a girl the first night I meet her, but would feel awkwardabout fucking her, I don�t know what I want. Is it really so wrongto have more standards when I sleep with a girl? Honestly, I don�tlike the idea of being a 22 year old father, and I refuse for it tobe with a woman I don�t even know. Just because I don�t want tosleep with a girl I don�t know doesn�t mean that I don�t know whatI want or that I�m unsure of my �style.�
What's Your Style?A Choose Your Own Adventure Quiz

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Jan 27, 2008

Trust, once lost...
  • ...is lost forever.
  • ...can be rebuilt with time.
This is an interesting question... and I wish I had an answer. I feel that the logical part of me wants to believe that it can be rebuilt in time. However, at the same time the emotional part of me is hoping that even when all trust is lost, there is still hope for me to be able to trust again.

If you haven't guessed yet, I was recently in a relationship that did not end well. Certain actions the other person did made me lose all trust in them. Now they are trying to become a part of my life again and hoping to be able to bring me back. The problem with that is, I'm not sure if I can trust them. In my heart, I want to be able to, but at the same time... I'm not sure if I will ever be able to trust them again.
Trust, once lost...
  • ...is lost forever.
  • ...can be rebuilt with time.
This is an interesting question... and I wish I had an answer. Ifeel that the logical part of me wants to believe that it can berebuilt in time. However, at the same time the emotional part of meis hoping that even when all trust is lost, there is still hope forme to be able to trust again.

If you haven't guessed yet, I was recently in a relationship thatdid not end well. Certain actions the other person did made me loseall trust in them. Now they are trying to become a part of my lifeagain and hoping to be able to bring me back. The problem with thatis, I'm not sure if I can trust them. In my heart, I want to beable to, but at the same time... I'm not sure if I will ever beable to trust them again.

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Sep 14, 2007

Imagine that your significant other is traveling and has the opportunity to stay with a good friend. This good friend also happens to be someone who your significant other finds to be very attractive. What would be your stance on this situation?
  • It would be totally unacceptable.
  • It might be ok, but I'd want to discuss it first.
  • It's fine - I don't see any problem.
  • It sounds sexy - Hopefully they'll hook up.
how is it that i have this discussion today, and i randomly come onto this site and am randomly asked this question?!


my life sucks...
Imagine that your significant other is traveling andhas the opportunity to stay with a good friend. This good friendalso happens to be someone who your significant other finds to bevery attractive. What would be your stance on this situation?
  • It would be totally unacceptable.
  • It might be ok, but I'd want to discussit first.
  • It's fine - I don't see any problem.
  • It sounds sexy - Hopefully they'll hookup.
how is it that i have this discussion today, and i randomly comeonto this site and am randomly asked this question?!


my life sucks...